Time flies so fast, it's mid-May in the blink of an eye, and looking back on the harvest of this half year, there are really very few. I don't know how others live, and I don't know why they can live so comfortably, living unrestrained every day, playing wherever they want, eating whatever they want, although these are some basic survival instincts, but they can't do it here, always worrying about this, and paying off the mortgage? Is there a deposit? Some people may think that this is groundless, life in the world is not to live happily, why do you want to do so much!
I've been an idle person since I was a child, and I like to worry about it, so I worry about everything in the family, after all, my wife is younger than me, so I should take care of it more. Some time ago, I had my forty-fifth birthday, and suddenly I felt that time was so fast, and I had already passed forty-five years before I felt it, and I always felt that I was still a baby in my heart. But in the face of reality, we can't help but recognize the cruelty of reality, there is no time for the old and the young, there is not much time for yourself to squander, only by recognizing the reality and working in a down-to-earth manner can it be possible to have a bright future.
Work hard to earn money
Recently, I was reading the Talmud about the Jews, and although the Jews are really in a big uproar right now, it doesn't stop it from being a good book to guide people forward. In fact, there is no good or bad book, just like the invention of gunpowder, it was not because of war at the beginning, but in the end someone discovered its great power, so it was applied to war, so it was applied to war, so reading and learning is the same reason, what kind of person you are, what kind of knowledge will be absorbed, and not because of books.
Maybe the older you get, the more things you think. Recently, I feel inexplicably anxious, and now the general environment is like this, it stands to reason that for ordinary people, the impact should not be too big, but it has affected many industries, and some customers or friends chat, when asked how about the benefits of this year? Most of them say it's hard to do, and they don't know where the money goes? Every day seems to be hectic and busy, but in the end, there are very few results. Is it a natural disaster or a man-made disaster? I don't know, the only explanation is that my efforts are not enough, or there is something wrong with the direction. You say you don't make money, some people have made a lot of money in the past few years, you say make money, it seems to have nothing to do with you, so you suddenly feel confused, want to talk to someone, look through the address book, but don't know who to find, maybe this is the sadness of middle-aged people.
life
After learning from the pain, I still feel that no matter how the society develops, we should still focus on money, in this era when everything looks at money, money wealth is the most reliable, and it is difficult to move an inch without money. When people reach middle age, they have nothing to do and go to bed early, so they can make more money when they have time. In middle age, some people love to brag, some people love to dress up, some people love to compare, and it seems that they are all "enjoying" life. In fact, how many people are weak in heart and are slapping their swollen faces and becoming fat.
When people reach middle age, only if they can make money, no matter where they go, will they have the confidence written on their faces and a calm smile. Because when you reach a certain age, you don't have a stable income, you don't have savings, and you can't take out the money when your relatives encounter something, you will understand that if you don't have a face, love and love, it's all floating clouds.
You will understand more and more that working hard to make money and managing yourself well is more important than anything else. While you are still young, talk about what years are quiet, make more money when you have time, and be less hypocritical when you have nothing to do, because life is really expensive, and the dignity and confidence of adults are close to money.
Job
Working hard to make money is not because of love for money, but because the stars and the sea need tickets, poems and distant travel expenses are very expensive, and we hope to be able to get what we want! So at the age when you should struggle, you must not choose comfort, the feeling of boiling a frog in warm water is beautiful, but when you suddenly wake up, you find that it is too late to regret. Buddhists often say that cause and effect are reincarnated, and they also say that good and evil are rewarded. What kind of cause you have is what kind of fruit, you don't work hard when you are young, and you want to rely on your old age, that's a fool's dream. If you don't pay when you're young, how can you harvest when you're old, so while we still have energy, we should try our best to make money, which should be the right attitude towards life.
With food in your hands and no panic in your heart, the ancients understood this truth, not to mention us modern people. Go to work in order to get off work, get off work in order to go to work the next day, day after day, panic, just for a few taels of silver. But this broken silver is a few taels, which crushes the shoulders of the world, and it is this broken silver that can solve all kinds of panic in the world, this is life.
Don't be greedy, you can't have everything, don't be anxious, you can't have nothing. The world is not a pure land, everyone has their own suffering, and it is not easy for everyone. A passage that I particularly like: Life is not easy, individuals seek differently, personal positions are different, don't practice yourself in the hearts of others, don't force others in your own hearts.