I met her online, and I just chatted for four or five days, and she was lukewarm to me, but she would also ask me some personal questions, and when I chatted for two or three days, she vaguely asked me to go to her city to meet. It's not far away, less than 200 kilometers, and the high-speed rail is less than 1 hour. But the strange thing is that I don't want to video, if it's a normal talking partner, how can there be a video before meeting? Especially off-site. She always can't remember my personal situation, and the questions she asked will be asked the next time we talk, and she has never taken the initiative to find me, she always feels weird, and she said that as long as I am good to her, how can I feel a bit like the words and routines of a liar?
But online scammers and bartenders will generally be enthusiastic about you, and the elder brother will be short and indifferent to your personal situation, and will basically not ask you anything. She doesn't meet these things, she is still relatively cold to me, she is 3 years older than me, although she can't always remember my situation, but she will often ask about it, such as age, salary, garage, who lives with, etc.
Some liars or wine trays can be seen at a glance, she can't get this accurately, it seems to be a bit of a characteristic, but a lot of it doesn't quite match, I'm worried about falling into the pit, I'm afraid of missing it, should I meet?