Resolutely oppose the abolition of the bride price, and such calls for the abolition of the bride price are simply hooligans.
Those who want to cancel the bride price are probably sons. Now which family raises a daughter is not the same as raising a boy, holding it in the palm of her hand for fear of falling, and holding it in her mouth for fear of melting. Which family didn't work hard to raise their daughter?
Oh, is the bride price to be canceled when you marry into your family, is this idea a little too selfish? You only think about your own interests. I didn't think about it from the woman's point of view at all, and I didn't want to pay for it.
If you think about it, China's marriage bride price has been passed down from generation to generation by our ancestors, and naturally it has its far-reaching significance and truth.
Some people may regard the bride price as a simple material exchange, and they have not thought about it at all, there is respect and gratitude for the woman's family behind it, you think about people marrying their daughters to your sons, so that your sons leave the singles' team, and give birth to children for your family, it is natural to receive some bride price!
People often say "start a family", why "start a family" instead of "start a family"? Because there is a home to rely on, home is a resting station on the way forward, and it is the lubricating oil in the run. Most men have a successful career only after their marriage is stable.
Now some people complain all day long that the bride price is too high, and most women want the bride price to see if the attitude of the man's family is sincere and good for their daughter.
From this, it is judged whether the daughter will be recognized by the man's parents after she marries, and whether she will be happy and happy in the future. Most of the bride price received by the woman's family is returned to the daughter in the form of a dowry.
My cousin got married last year, and the woman asked for a bride price of 120,000 yuan, and there was a little conflict about this young man, and guess what, in the end, the woman's parents also put together 20,000 yuan as a dowry, saying that they would give the first pot of gold to their young couple's new life.
In fact, the level of the bride price is not the main purpose, and the man's family should also understand.
However, I personally suggest that the bride price should not be too high, depending on whether the man's economic conditions allow, and the man and woman should negotiate rationally.
Don't compare yourself with each other, and don't let the bride price become a shackle that binds your marriage. Do you agree? What other points of view do you have to disagree? Leave in the comment area, thank you for your attention and support, and we'll see you next time.