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Looking back now, I ask why Song Jia, who has reached the age of 43, is still single? The topic undoubtedly returns to her colorful and up-and-down emotional journey. It is like a window through time and space, revealing unspeakable love chapters for us.
Let's turn the timeline back to 2003, the beautiful and moving Song Jia stepped into the crew of the TV series "Hibiscus Out of the Water", where she and her first love, the talented Chen Long, launched a chance but fateful encounter.
In the days of the crew, Chen Long always stared at Song Jia silently, and the shyness and longing in his eyes were moving. At first, Song Jia, who had a cheerful and straightforward personality, was a little confused by Chen Long's attention, so she stepped forward without hesitation and asked him directly why he always looked at her like this.
When Song Jia heard Chen Long's slightly nervous answer - "I think you are very kind, as if I have seen you somewhere", she couldn't help laughing out loud and responded mischievously: "Your way of accosting you is really old-fashioned!" Then, she left without looking back, leaving Chen Long standing alone in place, deep in thought.
This brief episode has become a precious memory of their first acquaintance. As the filming progressed, the two gradually got acquainted, and in a conversation, they unexpectedly learned that they were alumni of the same school, no wonder they had that sense of déjà vu.
Song Jia suddenly realized that all her previous guesses were superfluous. The life of the crew makes them often inseparable, and Chen Long's meticulous care makes Song Jia have a deep attachment to this warmth. He will carefully cook a "love meal" every day, and in his free time, he will not forget to serve fragrant milk tea and delicious snacks, and take care of Song Jia meticulously.
As a native of Shanghai, Chen Long knows where the most romantic atmosphere is, so he always takes Song Jia around. In the face of Chen Long's fiery "pursuit offensive", the simple and kind Song Jia finally couldn't resist and developed a deep dependence on the boy who had been in love for a long time.
After the series was successfully completed, Chen Long finally mustered up the courage to express his love to the goddess in his heart, and Song Jia nodded implicitly, and a love story full of sweetness and warmth began. They accompanied each other and spent countless wonderful times together, smiling and satisfying.
The world is unpredictable! This first love, which should have been sweet and beautiful, ended the relationship with Chen Long helplessly because of Song Jia's unswerving pursuit of career ideals. Although this relationship has become a thing of the past, Song Jia still retains her enthusiasm and longing for love.
The wheel of time has turned to 2007, and it was a truly unforgettable year. She was lucky to meet the popular director Zhang Li, and then embarked on an emotional path that seemed to have to go through twists and turns without hesitation.
Zhang Li, a master figure in the love field, fell in love at first sight with this energetic and enthusiastic girl. Although the age gap between the two is as much as 23 years old, Zhang Li used his unique "love field mastery" to quickly capture Song Jia's heart.
At that time, Zhang Li had already experienced five marriages and had a son. And Song Jia is an uncarved "blank paper", in the "love trap" carefully designed by Zhang Li, she quickly lost herself.
It all started because of the filming of the TV series "Once Upon a Time in China". Zhang Li, as the behind-the-scenes director of this drama, was deeply attracted by Song Jia's lively and cheerful personality when they first met.
Zhang Li cares about Song Jia very much, and often prepares various well-planned surprises for her. Faced with the enthusiastic pursuit of this "love master", Song Jia soon became intoxicated.
However, Song Jia never expected that Zhang Li would be a person who "eats in the bowl and looks at the pot". When her ambiguous relationship with Zhang Li was revealed, she suddenly realized that she had already been deeply involved.
These turmoil soon reached the ears of Zhang Li's wife Liu Bei, and in the face of her husband's betrayal, Liu Bei bravely chose to divorce, giving the green light to their cohabitation life.
Since then, Song Jia and Zhang Li have officially come together, although she has the notoriety of "little three" because of this, she doesn't care. After five years of cohabitation, Song Jia has looked forward to entering the palace of marriage with Zhang Li many times, but each time she was rejected by the other party.
Zhang Li has experienced five failed marriages, and he doesn't want Song Jia to suffer the same pain again, so the relationship between the two is stagnant.
As soon as the news of the breakup came out, Song Jia once again endured the fierce attack of public opinion. The pain of the breakup coupled with the pressure of public opinion made her fall into an endless haze for a while.
Song Jia, an actress who was once praised by Zhang Li's wife Liu Bei as "truly in love", is often regarded by the outside world as a representative of the immoral behavior of "knowing three things" because of her bold attempts in the emotional world and her courage to challenge the world. However, in the midst of many criticisms, Song Jia never chose to defend herself, but bravely took all the responsibilities and accusations.
After experiencing a painful breakup process and strong pressure from public opinion, Song Jia once fell into an emotional trough, however, with strong willpower, she quickly adjusted herself and devoted herself to the development of her career. In her acting career, she has created many unforgettable classic roles with her superb acting skills, such as "Xian'er" in "Breaking through the Guandong", "Gu Qiuyan" in "Cliff", "Yu Fengzhi" in "Young Marshal", etc., and various honors and awards have also come one after another.
At first glance, Song Jia seems to have found a new direction in life, however, she has never been able to get rid of the temptation of love.
Xie Tianxiao, an outstanding talent in the rock music scene, has become Song Jia's next emotional sustenance. As a very representative rock singer, Xie Tianxiao's unique personality charm made Song Jia fall in love with him.
As a result, a controversial "gossip romance" began between them. When Xie Tianxiao's wife learned of this, she angrily accused Song Jia of being "shameless" and "knowing three things", and these words were like a basin of cold water, ruthlessly poured on Song Jia.
In the face of his wife's severe accusations, Song Jia once again endured the fierce criticism of public opinion, and her public image suffered serious damage as a result. Although the relationship ended in failure, Song Jia did not stop because of this.
Soon after the breakup, she was captured by the media with photos of music producer Huang Shaofeng spending sweet time together. As soon as this matter was exposed, Song Jia once again became the focus of attention.
This time, however, she was not condemned and attacked too much. Obviously, the outside world has gradually adapted to Song Jia's style of acting as a "love madman", and has gradually accepted her attitude towards life.
In a sense, this is also a manifestation of Song Jia's courage to face and stick to herself.
In the face of endless pressure from public opinion, Song Jia has always maintained a tenacious attitude. She once lamented: "Focusing too much on other people's opinions will only make your life difficult." It is precisely because of this open-minded philosophy that Song Jia can get back up from setbacks again and again.
Despite being questioned and accused, actor Song Jia has always remained silent and never argued for her actions. Regarding the past that made her deeply involved in the "third party" controversy, she bravely carried all the invective reputation; She also never chose to deny or deny the gossip about married men. Song Jia deeply understands that her emotional path may deviate from the concept of the public, but she chooses to follow the true voice of her heart and be her true self.
Since leaving director Zhang Li, Song Jia has embarked on a new journey that belongs only to herself. She gradually got rid of the shackles of "pure love first" thinking and devoted herself to the brilliant development of her career. In the past, the audience witnessed Song Jia's wonderful performance moments, such as her role as a single mother in the movie "Auntie's Postmodern Life", and the energetic sports girl image in the TV series "My Physical Education Teacher", which left an indelible impression on people.
However, even though her career is thriving, Song Jia still insists on the right to fall in love. In her outlook on life, life should be free, unbound by any relationships, and at the same time full of endless fun. Song Jia has always maintained the exuberant vitality and passion of her youth, and she has never shown the slightest restraint and retreat in the face of new emotional challenges.
This brave and fearless, honest and straightforward attitude to life is precisely Song Jia's most unique personality charm. She dared to face the storm of public opinion, dared to pursue her own way of life, and was never bound by the framework of the world. It is this spirit of independence and freedom that makes Song Jia unique in the entertainment industry and has become a beautiful landscape.
Today, Song Jia, who has reached the age of 43, is still alone and has not yet set foot in the palace of marriage. However, instead of regretting it, she believes that this is exactly the way she aspires to live. For Song Jia, the shackles of marriage can deprive her of her freedom and prevent her from living happily. She worries that once she enters the siege of marriage, she will fall into all kinds of cumbersome etiquette and will not be able to devote herself to the pursuit of her career and personal ideals.
More importantly, Song Jia is afraid that she will live up to her promise of marriage and hurt the person she loves.
After years of emotional baptism, Song Jia has a new understanding and perception of love. She began to question whether marriage was the ultimate destination of love, and whether marriage must be the only goal.
In her eyes, the relationship between two people who love each other can be interpreted in a more diverse way, rather than just within the framework of traditional marriage.
Now, Song Jia dedicates her heart and soul to her beloved acting career. As an acclaimed and powerful actress, she has always remained fully committed to each new role. Whether it is playing a calm and calm female detective in "Di Gong's Case", or creating a straightforward and enthusiastic urban white-collar image in "Hello Present", all of them show Song Jia's extraordinary acting talent.
However, she did not neglect her physical and mental health because of this, but set aside herself appropriate leisure time, and even occasionally burned a fiery spark of love. For Song Jia, this state of life is exactly what she yearns for and pursues, not only to be able to give full play to her talents, but also not to be bound by any specific relationship, and to soar freely in the sky of art.
Although it may be difficult for us to understand Song Jia's "unmarried" life philosophy, she herself has a firm belief in it. In Song Jia's view, the most precious thing in life is to have free will, to pursue what you love, and to live the life you yearn for.
As long as the heart is full of joy, everything else can be seen as floating clouds.
Marriage is important, but it is not the whole of life, and it is not the only way to happiness. Song Jia's life choices may be different from the mainstream view, but this does not stop her from bravely embracing her own happiness.
The shadow of the past has disappeared, and she is writing a colorful chapter of life in her own unique way.