#头条创作挑战赛#
Hello everyone~ I'm Xiaoli
It's really sad to say that you have a child who gives birth to yourself but doesn't kiss yourself!
However, it is also very common for babies at a young age to have such a phenomenon, and mothers also need to face this fact.
After the baby is born, although it cannot remember a person through the vision brain, the baby's perceptual development is excellent, and the perceptual ability to recognize people is possessed.
Linlin is a mother from Shandong, after the confinement self-report: the baby suddenly "don't want the mother", the confinement sister-in-law left after feeling helpless, crying is not good, I thought the baby was uncomfortable, but when I went to the hospital, the doctor: the baby is very healthy, and very smart.
It seems that the confinement lady is really not as good as we think, how comfortable she is during confinement, and how much she suffers after the moon, which also resonates with many mothers:
@粉丝妈妈A: It's really not worth it for the confinement sister-in-law, I feel that the child was born to her, and I also invited another month because the baby was not suitable, and it cost a few thousand.
@粉丝妈妈B: The confinement sister-in-law is under the household, the first week is particularly sinful, the baby is completely accustomed to the confinement sister-in-law, after accepting it, the baby has been making trouble, eating and sleeping badly, and the baby has to adapt to himself after a week.
Therefore, the confinement lady should not be overly dependent, and the mother should also be properly involved.
Then again, the baby suddenly doesn't want a mother, which also implies that the baby has the ability to recognize people, and such a baby is very smart.
If the baby does not want the mother, there are naturally three aspects of influence
01 Insecurity
When someone the baby is familiar with leaves him, he will naturally lose his sense of security.
If the baby suddenly does not want the mother, it also means that the baby has no sense of security for the mother, and the mother also needs the baby to adapt to herself when taking over the baby.
This kind of baby is insecure, and if the baby's sense of security is insufficient, it will also make the baby cry frequently, and the mother will be more upset.
02 The baby is in fear
The fact that the baby does not want the mother also means that the baby is in fear.
In this case, it is like a baby who has just been born into this world, and the baby perceives a kind of fear after perceiving the unfamiliar.
Of course, this phenomenon will have an impact on the baby's mental health, and mothers also need to spend more time with the baby, by meeting the baby's needs and soothing the baby, and establishing a sense of security.
At this time, the pacifier plays a very key role, which can be borrowed to establish a sense of security for the baby and go through the stage when the baby adapts to himself.
03 Affect growth and development
If the baby suddenly does not want to be a mother, whether it is milk or sleep, it will be affected.
After all, the mother is the one who accompanies the baby for the longest time, and if the mother causes discomfort to the baby, it will naturally affect the growth and development, which will cause the baby to lose appetite and sleep restlessly.
Therefore, after the baby is born, the mother becomes an important role.
Whether it is a grandmother or a father or a confinement sister-in-law, can not be overly dependent, mothers should be properly involved in it, so that the baby is familiar with themselves, which can also avoid the phenomenon that the baby does not want the mother.