A mother posted a video crying, the current child is too difficult to manage, now it is only junior high school, my son is now in love, what should I do if he still wants to get married?
The post-80s mother complained: I have a son, I am only in junior high school now, and now I am hopelessly brainwashed by love, I feel that I am a family with girls, and girls come first in everything.
The teacher called and said that he had an intimate act with his female classmates at school, and he held hands, without considering the impact on the school at all, and he had already invited his parents before, and he told me that he would separate, but now the teacher's call made me feel very heavy all day.
The mother in the video is really helpless.
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There are many enthusiastic netizens on the Internet who replied really pertinently.
It is recommended that children feel what life is, and only after experiencing it can they understand.
Let him face the reality, go to see the woman's parents, house, car, bride price, let him support himself, and he gave up within two days.
If a girl is in love, you can take her to experience labor pain if you have the opportunity, sometimes it is better to say that it is more reasonable than a pain.
Some netizens suggested that they should find loopholes in their appearance and demeanor, and boys should look at their faces, after all, little girls and boys still think they are cute, and they must find their bottom points.
Fortunately, they broke up, otherwise your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would have a big conflict in the future.
The son shared by this netizen is so good, he likes to be excellent, he has become even better, and he is very stable, just like it silently.
Parents are also good friends with their children to talk about everything, so as to grasp the direction.
Respect him, treat him equally, know his little secrets and don't train him to analyze the pros and cons with him.
How to educate children
From the perspective of a child, it is normal to like someone in adolescence, who is young and ignorant, who doesn't have a favorite person?
Don't deal with things in an adult way, give them advice, tell the pros and cons of things, get along peacefully, you have to listen carefully to any little things he usually shares with you, interact with her, and slowly the child will get along with you more and more like a friend.
Discuss everything, don't order him with a high profile, even if he is 1.8 meters, you must always praise him, treat him as an adult, and occasionally turn into a little fan girl to worship him. In elementary school, study habits and various hobbies are cultivated, and in junior high school, there is no talk of learning at home.
Be friends with your child and don't talk to him in an adult way. Don't blame the child for being bad, what he wants to do can be properly supported as long as he doesn't break the law, if it's the object of the conversation, you can say that the object can be talked about, and you have to learn what you should learn, and don't let others know about it, and it won't have a good impact on you. The child will approve of it, and he will tell you if he has something to say.