Last month, Xiao San began to provoke Ms. Wang restlessly again. The more Ms. Wang thought about it, the more angry she became, and she couldn't hold back, so she took her two younger brothers to Xiaosan's house to make trouble. Ms. Wang told me that she sprinkled all her anger on Xiao San's body that day, and she cut off a lot of Xiao San's hair, her whole face was swollen by Ms. Wang, and a large piece of her clothes was torn off.
At that time, Ms. Wang was cool, but then Xiao San reported to the police, and Xiao San also went to the hospital to check her injuries, and she vowed to sue Ms. Wang down. Later, the matter was resolved through the mediation of the man.
The man was very angry and said to Ms. Wang: "Look at you shrew, you beat people like that, if it weren't for me, you would have gone to jail right now." Can you stop looking for trouble in the future? Why are you so stupid? Brainless? ”
After hearing this, Ms. Wang said to the man, "Then why did I go to her for trouble?" She, a vixen, if she didn't destroy other people's homes, would she be beaten up this time? If you want to say that, the next time I beat her, just put a sack on it so that she can't find who hit her? Believe it or not, I really did it. ”
When the man heard this, he scolded angrily: "If you dare to do that, I will definitely do it."
You get divorced. I won't allow anyone to hurt her again, and this time I'm just looking at the child's face to help you. Hello for yourself. ”
Of course, I know how much I want to tear up the junior, but our country is a country ruled by law, and derailment is contrary to ethics and morality, but it is not illegal. And if you go to beat the mistress and insult the mistress, this is a crime against the law.
In fact, we have a lot of ways that are not illegal, but can solve the problem of the mistress, but most of the original partners only have the idea of tearing the mistress, but it is difficult to deal with the man's extramarital affair through normal methods and channels.
The first point is that it is illegal for you to beat a mistress, but you must not forget that the law itself also protects marriage. The angle from which you solve the marriage problem should not always be on illegal things, but should use the law as your weapon to protect your marriage.
For example, if you insult men and mistresses every day, and want them to separate, it is better to find tangible evidence of their cheating, and it is better to find out how much of the joint property of the husband and wife is used by the man on the mistress.
You must know that in addition to exchanging physical value, men and juniors are exchanging psychological satisfaction value and monetary resource value. For most cheating, the value of monetary resources is the basis for realizing the value of physical exchange and psychological satisfaction.
If you make it impossible for a man to spend money for the mistress, the mistress will naturally doubt the man's sincerity and ability. In this way, there is a gap between them.
When a man discovers that even if you don't beat the mistress, you still have the ability to affect his relationship with the mistress. Men naturally dare not look down on you, let alone despise you.
The second point is that playing the junior is not the point, cleaning up the man is the point.
I'll tell you the truth, a man dares to cheat for several years, and he rightly scolds his wife for being stupid, and whenever his wife is dissatisfied, he says that his wife has nothing to do. Such a man looks down on his wife in his heart.
Only if you first make men dare not look down on you and dare not despise you, can you negotiate on an equal footing.
If in the eyes of a man you are the one who is supported by him, and he thinks that you have nothing to do except insult the mistress, then the man will not care about any of your feelings at all. It doesn't matter how uncomfortable you are for a man. Not to mention those old feelings and your dedication to the family, as long as you can't show the ability to deter men, he can be invisible to your efforts.
Secondly, a man cheats on the mistress and is so good to the mistress, it is impossible for you to expect the man to return with his conscience. So don't be too tolerant of cheating men.
The biggest mistake made by many original partners is to only play the junior, and don't dare to really find trouble with your husband, which invisibly exposes a hole card, you don't want to divorce! So you can't find trouble with a man, which makes the man understand that he has the confidence to cheat. You must not say that you tear and beat men and make trouble for men.
Those petty fights can't choke the interests of men at all, at most they just make men upset for a while, as long as he endures it, he can continue to have a threesome. In other words, you didn't have enough money to clean up men, and you went in the wrong direction. If you can really hit the man's seven inches, let the man start to weigh the pros and cons himself, and let the man squeeze his head and want to return to the family, then you can be considered a winner.
Let me tell you, for the original match, tearing the mistress by hand is not a skill. If you let the mistress be hurt by a man because of this derailment, it will make the mistress feel at a loss, feel exhausted, and feel that all men in the world are bastards. At that time, you can stand at the upper reaches of the chain of contempt and watch Xiao San's life being poked into a hole by a man. This is the real relief.