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My name is Lu Zhiguo, I was 25 years old in 1989, and I had been teaching in a rural primary school for several years.
After graduating from the Normal College, I was assigned to the county to which I belonged, and the final work unit was a remote mountain village elementary school.
Although I was also born in a rural area, I still feel that the surrounding environment of this mountain village primary school is quite backward, the whole village is surrounded by mountains, closed to the outside world, there are almost no shops, and the only small store is just outside the school.
Even the stability of the power supply cannot be guaranteed, so power outages occur at night, and it is often in a state of black lights and black fires.
When there are many mosquitoes, I can't sleep all night.
I only think that backward conditions are the most tempering people, and taking root here to engage in education work is also the meaning of my life, and I don't feel so hard and tired.
The most important thing is that the local leaders are quite sympathetic to the difficulties of us primary school teachers in the mountain villages, and from time to time they send us some daily necessities and add some allowances to our salaries.
I have a cousin who is in the county education bureau, and I applied for the teacher college and finally went to school, and it was he who proposed, so to speak, he changed the trajectory of my life, otherwise I would have been a farmer for the rest of my life.
After I graduated and accepted the assignment, he once told me that although I am now going to teach in backward mountainous areas, such a resume is quite valuable for my future life development, and maybe I will know one day.
I believed my uncle's words, and I taught at this elementary school in this mountain village for several years, until 1989, when I was twenty-five years old, my parents began to be anxious about my marriage.
The total number of teachers in this mountain village elementary school where I live is not large, so it is suitable for the female teachers I am targeting, and among these teachers, some of them also helped me to make introductions, but in the end, they all failed on blind dates.
Facing the pressure of such an age, in fact, I am quite hesitant and confused in my heart, which others cannot experience.
After all, in rural areas, twenty-five years old is an older youth.
If I returned to the village and was asked about marriage and replied that I didn't have a partner yet, I would definitely be laughed at by the villagers, after all, in their opinion, I was quite promising, and I was admitted to the teacher's college, and I was already considered an intellectual.
In this closed and backward area, I am engaged in teaching work every day, moving between canteens, teaching buildings, and dormitories, feeling the passage of time day after day, and not knowing where my future partner is, which is actually quite heartburning.
I know that fate can't wait, and if it goes on like this, my youth for a few years is estimated to be spent as peacefully as in previous years, so the matter of becoming a leftover man in thirty unmarried is almost a certainty.
Whenever I finish eating after work, I feel lonely in the dark night in the countryside.
Fortunately, next to my dormitory, there is an old teacher with whom I can talk very well, he is 52 years old, and his life experience is quite ups and downs, as far as I know, he used to be the secretary of a certain leader in the county party committee, but later he could only be a teacher in this primary school until he was 52 years old.
His name is Yang Qingmin, a school leader who is about the same age as him, and he is called Lao Yang, and our young teachers, of course, call him Teacher Yang, but this is indeed a bit demeaning about him, because with his qualifications and ability, as well as his teaching level, he can definitely be the director or even the principal.
However, he is just an ordinary teacher, and he can't even be rated for his title, and even some juniors who are younger than him have also become superiors in the school, above him.
But he did not appear to be passive and slack because of the ordinary rank, but went to work happily every day, always with a happy smile on his face, it seems that in his heart, as long as he is engaged in education and can teach students well, no matter what kind of position he is, what kind of position, he will feel that this is a very happy thing.
Soon after I came to this primary school, I only felt that Mr. Yang Qingmin and I could talk very well, because everyone taught Chinese, and his level and attainments were far from what I asked myself.
In the past few years, I have been benefiting a lot from communicating with him, and I just feel that the friendship with him is like regenerating father and son. It is estimated that the children he has cultivated must be quite good.
However, Mr. Yang Qingmin lived alone in the school's dormitory.
His lover passed away more than a decade ago, but he has a daughter, according to him, who was admitted to a political and economic university, and it takes four years to graduate.
He once joked to me that when his daughter graduated in the future, he would let her come here to meet me, maybe I and his daughter can meet each other, but his daughter is very beautiful.
However, due to the remote location of this mountain primary school, it is quite inconvenient to take a car from the outside, so I really need to wait.
After listening to him say this, I just thought he was coaxing me to be happy.
Because in my opinion, his daughter must be very good, and she is a college student, and she will definitely go to some very important departments when she is assigned in the future, and I am just a secondary school student who graduated from a teacher college, and I am assigned to teach in such a mountainous primary school, where can his daughter look up to me?
After listening to my words, Mr. Yang Qingmin told me not to feel inferior, because his daughter has been taught by him for many years, and in choosing a partner, she will definitely focus on character and will not care about some superficial conditions, because all this will change.
In Mr. Yang Qingmin's heart, I am a young male teacher who is very worthy of his appreciation.
Therefore, if I could be his son-in-law, he would be very happy in his heart. It's just that it depends on whether his daughter really likes me and can talk to me.
I thought to myself, of course I also want to be the son-in-law of Teacher Yang Qingmin, but since his daughter is a college student, just like this, it is already unattainable for me, so I can't deserve it, if her daughter is beautiful, it makes me even more unthinkable.
Later, slowly, I completely forgot what Mr. Yang Qingmin told me about his daughter, and I didn't know when his daughter would graduate and whether she would come to this mountain village primary school.
The days are still going on day after day, and in the blink of an eye, I am already twenty-six years old, and no one has introduced me to a blind date, which makes me more and more anxious about my marriage.
I had to go out on my bike on Sundays or other holidays, all the way out of the mountain village to a nearby town, thinking that it might be easier to meet the so-called fate in my heart.
However, for several weeks, I was just lonely, and in the evening, I was extremely frustrated, and I pedaled my bicycle and went back to school.
One Sunday, as I had done in the past, I pedaled my bike to town, and then when I turned back in the evening, I was on the road and encountered a situation that I rarely usually saw.
I saw a bicycle parked somewhere on the side of the road, and next to the bicycle was a young and beautiful woman, who looked about twenty-five years old, wearing glasses, looking mature and virtuous, exactly the type I liked, and I looked at it for a while.
And this woman is wearing a white shirt, black trousers and a women's suit, looking like a female cadre, which makes me feel that her identity is not simple at all.
However, at this time, such a beautiful eldest sister frowned, because she was supporting an old woman from the countryside beside her, who seemed to have accidentally stepped on the pothole on the side of the road, thus spraining her foot, and moaning in pain.
I hurriedly pedaled my bicycle over, and the eldest sister, who looked like a female cadre, said to me, "This gay man, are you from here?" I just saw this old lady fall on the side of the road, she was injured and had to be sent to the nearby health center immediately, do you know how to get there? ”
Hearing her question, and seeing her big beautiful eyes looking at me, I couldn't help but think that although I didn't know where the town's health center was, I could find it if I just sent it to the town and asked someone.
So, I said to her, "Well, let's send this old lady to the town immediately, and I guess the health center is in this town." ”
She nodded immediately and helped the old lady up, and I walked over and went with her to help the old lady.
I realized that her figure is the same as her appearance, reaching a very good and beautiful level, this curve is really quite good-looking, and her skin is also quite white, with her good-looking facial features, full of feminine charm.
Eventually, I helped the old lady to the back of my bike, and although she sprained her foot, she still had the strength to hold her up and sit properly, and as long as I pedaled in front, I could send her to town.
The beautiful eldest sister, she wanted to also pedal the bicycle, so as to escort the old lady in the back to prevent the eldest lady from falling, but I said to her: "This lesbian, now the eldest lady is sitting alone on my bicycle, there is no problem, if you have something important, you can be busy." ”
She obviously didn't expect that I would be so thoughtful, and that she would be busy right now, so she might not be able to send the old lady to the town's health center with me.
In the end, she said to me: "Then it is up to you, comrade, to send the old lady over there alone, but I just want to ask, how to go in Nanchong Village, and in which direction?" ”
When I heard her question, I thought to myself, what a coincidence? She was going to Nanchong Village? The primary school where I am located is Nanchong Village Primary School.
I pointed in the direction and jokingly told her that I had come from there, so if she went there, maybe I would be able to meet her again when I returned, depending on whether the heavens had given us a fate.
When she heard this, she let out a smile and her face turned red.
"Okay, then let's see if we are really destined to meet over there, I hope we can really see you again!"
After that, she stepped on her bike, then looked back at me, and said goodbye to me with her eyes, and I could feel the reluctance in her eyes.
I actually have a big entanglement in my heart at this moment.
Because what I thought in my heart was that she, the beautiful eldest sister, had already moved my heart with her appearance, and she was so kind that she had basically occupied my heart, making me want to get to know her, become friends, and see if I could develop into a relationship.
However, I had to let Heaven arrange it to see if God would give me a chance to meet her again. In case, the final result is that I can't meet her in Nanchong Village, then I will never see her again in the future, which is also a high probability.
Thinking of this, I wanted to ask her where she was from and where she worked, so that we could exchange contact information.
But the final result was that she had already stepped on the bicycle, and then kicked her legs and headed towards Nanchong Village.
I could only watch her back, full of curved beauty, slowly moving away in the sunset.
After a while, I sent the old lady to the town, then found the location of the health center, and finally handed her over to the doctor for treatment, I just wanted to be a good person without leaving a name, and soon I left on my bicycle.
The most important thing is that I just hope to hurry up and return to Nanchong Village, so as to try my luck and see if I can really meet the beautiful eldest sister just now.
It is even possible that if I can pedal the bicycle fast enough, I will be able to catch up with her on the road before she reaches Nanchong Village, so as to let her know that God has really arranged a good fate for me and her.
After having this idea, I used all my strength to concentrate my strength on my thighs, so that I pedaled the bicycle as hard as I could, so that the bicycle could rush back to Nanchong Village as fast as possible.
But the end result was extremely disappointing for me.
I didn't catch up with the beautiful eldest sister on the road, and when I returned to Nanchong Village, I went back and forth twice on the village road in this village, and I didn't touch her.
The sun had completely set and it was dark.
Although I was very unwilling, I only thought that God had not arranged fate for me to really know her, so I could only accept my fate and accept the reality.
With a very depressed mood, I pedaled my bicycle all the way back to my elementary school and back to the dormitory building.
What I didn't expect was that in front of the dormitory building, there was a bicycle parked in front of the dormitory that I had never seen before, and I could almost recognize the bicycles of all the faculty and staff in the school.
When I took a closer look, I realized that it was the bicycle of the beautiful big sister I had just met on the road.
I couldn't help but feel a surprise in my heart, just thinking, that beautiful eldest sister, the place she is going to come to is actually our elementary school?
At this time, I heard the voice of Mr. Yang Qingmin in the dormitory next to me, and he shouted at me: "Xiao Lu, come over to my side for dinner, my daughter has come to see me, I will introduce you to you." ”
My heart was beating quite violently all at once.
Just thinking about it, the beautiful eldest sister I met just now that made my heart flutter and my soul was overwhelmed, could it be the daughter of Teacher Yang Qingmin?
In the end, with great anxiety and anticipation, I walked to the door of Mr. Yang Qingmin's dormitory, and found that in addition to Mr. Yang Qingmin, it was indeed the beautiful eldest sister I met on the road.
"Is that you?" I looked at her in surprise and laughed.
And she covered her mouth, laughing uncontrollably, and her face was as red as a peach blossom in February, which made her look particularly charming.
Teacher Yang Qingmin was immediately stunned, glanced at me and his daughter, and then he asked, "Hey? Did you two get to know each other? ”
His daughter told him that just now, she had met an old lady on the road who was in trouble and needed help, but she didn't expect that I was also such a good person, and I sent the old lady to the town.
Immediately afterward, she asked me, has the eldest lady been treated now, and there is no major problem?
I nodded and said that I was sending the old lady to the health center.
At this moment, although I was extremely happy because I met her again, and sighed that God had innocently given me fate, I thought that Mr. Yang Qingmin had said that his daughter was a college student.
Originally, I thought that if his daughter looked average, I might still be worthy.
But now I found out that his daughter was simply a big beauty, as beautiful as a fairy, and very tall, very good-looking, I asked myself how could I not be worthy of such a beautiful woman?
Therefore, at such a moment, I only felt at a loss, embarrassed and nervous, and even said to Teacher Yang Qingmin, I still can't stay here and eat with them, I don't want to hinder their father and daughter from getting together.
But Mr. Yang Qingmin and his daughter strongly invited me to dine here.
In the end, I had to sit down, and after some conversation, I knew that Yang Qingmin's daughter was his only daughter, named Yang Minyun, who was twenty-four years old, graduated from college for one year, and had passed the internship period.
I can't help but sigh that although Yang Minyun is only twenty-four years old, she seems mature and intellectual, which makes her more attractive than young girls of the same age.
And when Yang Qingmin talked about which unit his daughter was assigned to and where she worked, I was immediately dumbfounded.
Yang Minyun's work unit turned out to be the Development and Planning Commission of a certain city, which is not simple, and I, a teacher in a rural primary school, only feel ashamed of myself.
In the end, I didn't finish the meal, so I hurriedly said goodbye and went back to my own dormitory, only to feel that after I knew Yang Minyun's true identity, I didn't even have the courage to look at her.
By the next day, the bicycle downstairs in the dormitory was gone.
I know that Yang Minyun, a female cadre of the Development and Planning Commission, has already left our rural primary school, and she has to walk a long way to rush back to her work unit, so she cannot stay here for too long.
I also hurried to work on this day to continue my usual teaching work.
I thought that although I met Yang Minyun this time, I guess there was nothing to do, and she couldn't look down on me, a male teacher in a rural primary school.
What I didn't expect was that when I went to the school cafeteria to eat at noon, Teacher Yang Qingmin happily walked up to me, sat down, and whispered a smile in my ear and asked:
"Xiao Lu, how is it? Do you think my daughter can? Do you have a catch? ”
My heart was beating, but I just said to Teacher Yang Qingmin helplessly: "Teacher Yang, your daughter is so beautiful and a female cadre, of course I like it, but her conditions are so good, she is so excellent, she is still a college graduate, she can't take a fancy to me." ”
What I didn't expect was that Mr. Yang Qingmin told me that his daughter left overnight last night, and before leaving, she expressed that she had a good impression of me, and felt that I, a male teacher, was very down-to-earth and very good-hearted, which was acceptable to her, so she did not care about any difference in the conditions of the two sides, and if I wanted, I could talk to her.
The main point is that she felt that since her father liked me so much, and she was a very filial daughter, she had a strong desire to talk to me, hoping that I would really become her father's son-in-law.
After listening to Mr. Yang Qingmin's words, I only felt incredulous.
Eventually, I looked at him with puzzled eyes and asked him, "Teacher Yang, you're not trying to make me happy, are you?" Is that really what your daughter said? And, does she really want to deal with me? ”
Teacher Yang Qingmin told me when he told me a false lie, and he has always been quite honest and truth-seeking.
I couldn't help but feel overjoyed, just thinking that a beautiful woman like Yang Minyun was simply the lover of my dreams, and if she was willing to deal with me, I would definitely try to win her heart so that she would accept me as her husband.
In the following years, I often wrote to Yang Minyun, and she would write back to me very quickly.
However, we can only express our love through words, and it is difficult to see each other, because we are far apart and the transportation is inconvenient, so we can only see each other by bicycle.
Eventually, I went on a long trek to her side on my bicycle, and she once stopped by our elementary school during a business trip to visit her father and have a one-night relationship with me.
But we have been in this relationship for a year, but we still haven't been able to make this relationship go any further and enter the palace of marriage.
Until one day, when Mr. Yang Qingmin was giving a lecture to the students, he fainted on the podium due to physical reasons, and after I learned about it, I picked him up without saying a word, and then sent him to the hospital for treatment.
A day later, Yang Minyun came and saw that her father was fine, she calmed down, and when she learned that it was I who sent her father to the hospital, thus saving her father's life, she was very excited, and said to me with tears in her eyes, she will not marry me in this life, so she will marry me without me proposing.
In front of Teacher Yang Qingmin, I made a vow with her, and I went to get the certificate and register every two days.
After marriage, although Yang Minyun and I were separated, the relationship between husband and wife became deeper and deeper, and she also gave birth to a son for me.
Mr. Yang Qingmin has my son-in-law, and can hold his grandson and enjoy the joy of family, he feels that he is quite happy in his old age.
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