I believe you have also found that in today's rural areas, the bride price is also higher and higher year by year, although some places have introduced measures to govern the high-priced bride price, and have also implemented the height limit order, but from the actual operation, there are still some people who have avoided the restrictions of the village rules and regulations, and privately discussed how to pay. This has also led to a situation in which the bride price in rural areas has become "only increasing, not decreasing".
In addition, coupled with the current rural areas, the wind of comparison prevails, and it is also rising year by year under the coaxing of matchmakers and some media, and the bride price has risen from tens of thousands to 100,000 now, or even more. If the issue of bride price is left unchecked and everyone returns to rationality, the marital situation of young people in rural areas will become even worse in the future.
Because the marriage problems in rural areas are not only high bride prices, but also the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, and after houses and cars have become just needed for marriage, young people in rural areas have also encountered "three major difficulties" in getting married.
In rural areas, there are more men and fewer women, and the cost of marriage has increased, and the current situation of young people's marriage has also become a concern for many people.
So, with the bride price in rural areas only increasing, what is the current situation of young people's marriage? Next, I will share some information with you.
First, due to the increase in the cost of marriage due to the fact that there are more men and fewer women in rural areas, the age of marriage for young people with household registration in rural areas has been generally postponed in recent years. In the past, many people would have started a family in their twenties, but now, there are many people in their thirties and forties who are not married. For older single young people, they are ready to be singles for a lifetime, which makes people feel helpless.
Second: In rural areas, there are indeed some families who borrow money in order to marry a daughter-in-law, although it is said that the marriage is married, but the subsequent debt problem also causes problems, such as; Husband and wife life because of debt can not be guaranteed, after life pressure everyone, husband and wife quarrels, etc., this kind of married life also leads to some couples can only end in divorce, this marriage problem is also common in many rural areas at present.
Third: Because the minds of young people are no longer bound by inheritance, after graduation, some people also like to live alone, and the change of marriage concept has also led to a large number of people choosing to join the unmarried group. is only in his twenties, and he plans not to fall in love or get married.
After looking at the marital status in the countryside, we also know what the current situation is, to be honest, it is not right for young people to choose not to get married, they can't make up their minds to be unmarried at the age of twenty, if they have the opportunity, they still have to work hard to find the other half of their lives, and for older young people, their situation is different from that of young people, because they faced more problems in the early days, so they chose to be single.
Some people are reluctant to marry too early because they can't afford the high wedding expenses, and then as they get older, they don't find a suitable partner for many years when there are more men and fewer women, and finally choose to be single.
In addition, there are also some older leftover men who are in pursuit of a higher quality of life, and the imbalance of young people is more inclined to start a business first and then start a family. As a result, my career didn't succeed, and I missed the best age for marriage, and I was left in the end.
In my opinion, the current situation of marriage in rural areas is influenced by a variety of factors, including economic, cultural, educational and social changes. The phenomenon of young people not marrying also reflects the complexity and diversity of contemporary rural society. In the future, if we want to promote the healthy development of marriage in rural areas, we need to start from many aspects.
First, we can start with the development of the rural economy and improve our own capabilities, and at the same time, we can also introduce targeted measures to reduce the cost of marriage and let everyone see hope.
Second, it is necessary to strengthen gender equality, balance the ratio of men and women, and ensure that men and women of every marriageable age have a fair chance to marry. Get rid of patriarchal thinking. If this does not change, the next generation will face the problem of more men than women again.
Third, continue to strengthen the construction of rural culture, enrich cultural life, and create a positive and healthy atmosphere of marriage culture. At the same time, the Internet and technology can also be used to provide more dating and marriage services for young people in rural areas, and broaden their social channels.
Well, the content of this issue is shared here for you, what do you think about the current situation of marriage in rural areas? Do you have a better suggestion? Let's talk about it.