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Air is one of the most important things in human survival, but it is too transparent and easy to get, and it is always easy to ignore. And in marriage, women who are too sensible are like air, often around men, but never let men really care.
A woman who is too "sensible" is too reassuring to men, and at the same time, men will gradually ignore her.
Bian Zhilin said: "You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people who watch the scenery look at you upstairs." ”
How can you let your loved ones see you at a glance in the vast sea of people and keep you in your heart? It is to be a woman who is "noisy" and "a little troublesome".
Even if he always complains about your loss, takes care of your daily life, reminds you of what precautions you have, supervises you to eat and dress, and smooths out your grumpy little temper for you, this is the way to really care about you.
A man who truly loves you is willing to escort you all the way forward and shield you from the wind and rain, so that love is practical. Women should guide men to learn how to love themselves, not to use humble ways to be "air" around him.
02, be a "little troublesome" woman, so that men are always uneasy
Yuan Lishu in "Shanshan is Coming" has always liked Feng Teng. She went abroad to study, came back to do business, played basketball well, danced very well, and praised herself as the "most beautiful cultural person", thinking that she was good enough to get the love of Feng Teng.
Indeed, she is very good, and with Feng Teng, she seems to be a good match, and she can also help him in his career. However, such an excellent woman gives men the feeling of being too competitive and competitive, and often makes men have no desire to protect.
Shanshan is different, she is always the woman who is "a little troublesome".
Like Feng Yue, she was all panda blood, and Feng Teng could not rest assured of her. After establishing a relationship with Shanshan, Feng Teng replaced the card with Shanshan's father's phone number for his own, symbolizing that he would take care of her father in the years to come.
And to heat up the feelings of the two people, it is Shanshan who can't get on the train with a gift knife, and he also loses his luggage and wallet, so that Feng Teng can pick her up...
In Feng Teng's eyes, perhaps Shanshan was the biggest "trouble" in his life, but this "trouble" also made him willingly fall in love for a lifetime.
The more sensible a woman is, the less she will intersect with a man. When he thinks you can do everything without him, his heroism cannot be cathartic, and there is no sense of accomplishment in the relationship.
When women are always "a little troublesome", it often affects men's hearts more. Can't put it down, always worried that she can't take care of herself, can't handle her own small troubles, and always wants to help her solve it.
03, be a "little troublesome" woman, stimulate men's desire to protect
Lin Xiaoniang in "Know It or Not" can get sheng shao's love, let him love himself for twenty years without complaint and regret, spoil the concubine and destroy his wife, because she is a "troublesome" little woman, so that men want to take good care of her for a lifetime.
Sheng Shao gave her a farmhouse and wealth, and dedicated his heart to her, even though he knew that she was not as good as she seemed, and knew that she had caused herself a lot of trouble, but he never really punished her, or he still protected her wholeheartedly.
Among the children, he was also the child who loved Lin Xiaoniang the most, Mo Lan, so that their life at home was no worse than that of the eldest lady and the daughter of the concubine.
In "Who Says I Can't Get Married", ShiYa is too "sensible", does not want to create trouble for Lin Zhongxin, and always carries everything by herself, which leads lin Zhongxin to say: "Shiya, I always thought you were a sensible girl." ”
When she completely lost Lin Zhongxin, she cried and said: "Understanding things is the biggest failure in my life." I know all about you, I know all your pain. But the result? ”
Sensible women are always easy to reassure men, and women who are "a little troublesome" can always arouse men's desire to protect.
04, be a "little troublesome" woman, learn to insist on being yourself
Qu Xiaoxiu in "Ode to Joy", nicknamed "Qu Goblin", is eccentric, sees things thoroughly, dares to love and hate, and does not hesitate to chase Dr. Zhao at first sight.
At the beginning, Qu Xiaoxiu gave Dr. Zhao an unprecedented novel experience. But after getting along for a long time, he felt that Qu Xiaoxiu had no culture, and there was a "traitorous businessman" style on his body that he did not like.
Qu Xiaoxiu also wanted to go to the study culture in order to retain Dr. Zhao's heart, and try to appear less vulgar. However, this will make you feel inferior and become no longer the lawless Qu Xiaoxiu.
The two people still broke up because the personality gap was too large, and after the breakup, Dr. Zhao realized that he had irremediably loved Qu Xiaoxiu. She does have her own unique style, and she loves, and it is precisely such a Qu Xiaoxiu.
Therefore, when Qu Xiaoxiu does not contact him, he will constantly look at his mobile phone and constantly ask her friends about her. Thoughts grew like vines, and finally couldn't help but go to her.
Be a "little troublesome" woman and learn to stick to being yourself. Insisting on being yourself, although it will make the man think you are a bit troublesome, but it can keep his freshness to you.
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Let men be a "little troublesome" woman in a way that really cares about you.
Two completely different people will have a personality collision, or it will make the other person feel "a little troublesome". But it is also this kind of trouble that makes him understand that if he truly loves someone, he will be willing to face these troubles.
It may take longer to get along, but it is also more solid and stable than the feelings that have been exchanged for pleasing each other.
Being a "troublesome" woman and not being a "sensible" woman can make men respect you more, and can also make the road of feelings go longer.
Being a woman who is "a little troublesome", making men unable to let go of you, helping you solve problems, making his sense of existence, feeling of need and protection more intense, is the way for men to remember you with sincerity.
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