"You are a part of my life, you are always in my heart. We may grow old, our lives may change, but our love will last forever. - "Love Before Midnight"
In the hustle and bustle of modern society, people urgently need a power that can heal the soul. "Love Before Midnight" is a masterpiece that touches our hearts.
It shows us that on the journey of love, everyone can find their own warmth.
"Love Before Midnight" is a cross-border romance film that tells the story of a strange man and woman who meet on the streets of New York late at night, and their fates are entangled and they experience an unforgettable romantic night.
The main character of the story, Jesse, is an American writer. He took part in a book sale in Paris and then got on a train to Vienna. He met Vanessa, a French scholar, on the train. In Vienna, they got out of the car at the same time, instantly attracted to each other and decided to spend a night together.
"Love Before Midnight" directed by Richard Linklater is just one of "Love Before Midnight", and the other two "Love at Sunset" and "Love Before Dawn" I believe many people have heard of it.
These three films are only released once every nine years. It's like the director and the audience have reached some kind of agreement, and the quality of the film also meets the audience's expectations.
In the 1995 movie "Love Before Dawn", Jesse and Selena met on the train, and the two hit it off at first sight, agreeing to meet again at the train station six months later, but unfortunately, after nine years, the two separated again.
In "Love at Sunset", Jesse and Selena have a lot of fun in Paris, and then reunite in the sunset, and now nine years later, the two live together again and have twins.
In "Love Before Midnight", the two people also returned to life, returned to the firewood, rice, oil and salt that every couple has to go through, began to quarrel and complain, many people think that in this movie, love is like disappearing, but this is not the case, love has been integrated into life and has become life.
Jesse and Selena are like normal people in this movie, arguing over work, for raising children, and it's a great movie. It's a real life, not perfect, but real!
Every stage of love is different, when you are young, everyone thinks that you will get fairytale love, and occasionally face the test of reality, but in middle age, love has become a part of life, love and marriage are very different, love is wind and snow, and marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt.
This movie doesn't have much drama, but it is full of love, which also makes many people watch these three movies over and over again.
If in the first part, they were young and beautiful, then in this part, they are already old. The conversation between the two is no longer like the first movie, exchanging opinions with each other and looking forward to the future.
Rather, they are practical decisions that are closely related to the interests of life, such as whether to move to Chicago, how to deal with gender differences, how to view potential affairs, how long love lasts, how to treat children, and so on.
Speaking of which, if you are an ordinary young person, you may find these things very boring and difficult to make people interested.
With children, everyone's life will become busy, not only to fall in love, but also to consider the child's upbringing, but also to consider the burden of family income, but also to consider personal achievements, but also to consider relationships, but also to consider what others think of themselves and their families.
All this has had a great impact on their feelings. This is no longer a simple love when you were young, but a simple love, at this stage, the complexity of feelings is inevitable, and this complexity is different from the simple imagination of human beings about love, so it is difficult for people who love each other to get along.
There are many interesting scenes in the movie, which are all small details in life, which is also the director's deep understanding of human nature. Back to the script, the hero and the heroine quarreled in the car, entered the hotel, and after a few words of chat, they quieted down, but in the end they quarreled.
Then, on the way to the hotel, they seemed more comfortable and calmer, but when they arrived at the hotel, the quarrel began to reach a climax, and finally, in the café by the water, everything turned out to be good.
Many people have had this experience, but it is difficult to have a romantic ending like being at the beach.
Maybe a movie is just a movie, it is impossible to reconcile every quarrel, and after a quarrel, two people will become strangers.
Instead of relying on the story of the future to impress the heroine and rebuild the trust between the two, the male protagonist racks his brains to come up with this joke in an attempt to salvage the relationship between the two.
It is an unconditional devotion. In general, there are two reasons for quarrels, one is a difference of opinion, a difference of opinion, and this situation can usually be resolved through communication.
On the other hand, there is a conflict of interest, which cannot be resolved through communication. Therefore, even if many couples or couples learn more communication skills, they will still get stuck with the second type of problem because it cannot be solved with communication.
It can be seen that Selena says Jesse's jokes are boring at first, but when Jesse tells her that she will love her unconditionally, the heroine understands that she has really changed her mind.
It is well known that in intimate relationships it is very difficult to do this, but difficulties are often the most important. In love, many people compete for control of each other, and more people take the form of withdrawal, but this does not make them love each other more.
Love is not a game, nor is it a game, and those skills of playing for profit do not help each other's trust in any way, so if you encounter emotional problems, you might as well try the end of this movie, which is to love each other unconditionally.
You probably don't have Ethan. Hawke is so dashing, maybe not as Julie. Delpe is so artistic, but when it really comes to that point, the two people only have each other in their eyes, and there is no comparison, who cares about this?
Only by giving wholeheartedly can we re-establish mutual trust, better understand each other's ideas, and communicate better.
In other words, when two people are in love, the previous problems are often not problems and are easier to solve, but if there is no closest person together, then what's the point?
One of the important issues that Jesse and Selina have to face in the film is how to hold on to each other's emotions in trivial lives.
After getting along for a long time, they know that time is the enemy of love. However, in the face of such a grim reality, the two still chose to cherish this moment and cherish every minute and second they have with their hearts.
This film reminds us that in love, we may not be able to turn back time, but it can make us know how to cherish the beauty of the moment.
When we understand this more deeply, we will find that every ordinary moment in life shines with the brilliance of love. This realization undoubtedly brings us powerful healing powers.
In love, we must have the courage to face all kinds of troubles in life. Only in this way can we grow together, understand each other, support each other, and the relationship will be stronger. This courage is also a healing power.
Overall, "Love Before Midnight" brings a romantic and moving feeling to the audience with its superb acting skills, beautiful pictures, and affectionate plot. The film is not only about a relationship journey, but also about life, about love, about self.
Audiences, whether they are single or in a partner, will be moved by this unique and precious love after seeing this movie, and begin to think about the meaning and possibility of love before midnight.
In the end, the film is special, realistic, and dramatic, with Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpe acting very well, like a couple who have been married for more than a decade.
Many years ago, they gave the audience the sweetest encounter, and many years later, they gave the audience the most real and interesting quarrel, and their love, condensed in three days and nights, is enough to make countless people reminisce for a lifetime.
There is no perfect marriage, only two people who love each other with their hearts. Because of love, we face the test of fate together until the white head.
True love is about making you and me an inseparable part of each other.
True love is to accept everything that the other person has, be familiar with each other's every action, and connect life together.