A happy marriage, like a bright star in the journey of life, can give people endless courage and strength to face all kinds of life bravely.
When there is a loved one by your side to walk hand in hand, share the joy and bear the pain together, even if the road of life is bumpy, you can be fearless.
However, if a person no longer feels any positive response in his marriage, and does not have the slightest desire, it means that marriage is dispensable for him.
Did you know ladies? If a man has the following behaviors, it means that he is about to get married and has long been out of love.
Silent and no longer communicating with his wife
When two people truly love each other, they will blend into each other's world without hesitation. Even if there is a quarrel, even if there is a confrontation, I want the other party to know how much I care about her and this relationship.
When a man no longer loves, he becomes indifferent to everything. He and his wife, no longer arguing, no longer communicating.
Even if his wife didn't understand him, he didn't care.
The man seems to be calm, but in fact he has no love. He has completely closed the door of his heart, and he has pushed his wife far away, erecting an insurmountable barrier between them, which cannot be shaken.
No matter what ups and downs his world is experiencing, he doesn't want to confide in his wife.
After countless disappointments, he had become unusually silent. In life, even the existence of his wife is often ignored.
For him, marriage has become a kind of conviction, a bond that is difficult to break free and cannot be broken. He gave up struggling and spent the rest of his life in this empty shell marriage.
Tolstoy said, "Only love can make a man dare to give his life for the one he loves." ”
But when love is no longer there, marriage loses its original color.
Put your energy on your career and endure everything
Lin Yu in "Prosperous World", soon after marrying Su Yao, was depressed every day and was extremely dissatisfied with his wife.
With the help of his friends, he began to devote himself to his work, trying to achieve success in his career as a way to comfort himself.
He also thought about divorcing Su Yao, but put it on hold for the time being because he considered that the child was still young, and he didn't want to affect the child's growth due to the change in marriage.
In front of the children, he and his wife still maintained the illusion of a happy marriage, enduring his wife's nagging and dissatisfaction.
Every time his wife communicated with him and he didn't respond, his wife would get angry and want to reason with him, and Lin Yu had to compromise.
He maintained a marriage in name only, trapping himself in it because he couldn't let go of his career.
Men are extremely disappointed in their marriage and their wives, but they don't want to affect their career development, so they can only continue to settle in their marriage. Some men, if they don't love each other, won't get divorced.
Instead, he will focus on his career, maintain the stability of his family on the surface, and endure all the helplessness and suffering.
He will use all his strength to pursue his career goals, so that he can go to the next level and take a more brilliant road.
The man is no longer in love and can't leave decisively because he can't let go of his career in his heart.
The only reason for him to continue to settle in marriage is his dedication to his career and his desire to have completely different achievements from the past.
Take care of everything and have no dependence on marriage
Once, while I was waiting for a flight at the airport, I met a man sitting next to me. While waiting for the plane, he sat alone and looked lonely.
I curiously asked him why he didn't have his wife by his side, and he had a wry smile and helplessness on his face.
The person next to him called his wife and informed him that he was at the airport for a business trip and asked her to take care of herself. In the end, the woman did not show up either.
The man said: "I don't count on her anymore, I handle the affairs of the family by myself, and I am used to it." ”
The man seemed very calm, saying that he had already accepted this reality and knew that she was unreliable, so he no longer relied on her, and it was better to have no hope for her than to be troubled all day.
Balzac said: "The work of genius is irrigated with tears." ”
And marriage, how can it not be carefully cared for and managed.
Marriage, in the final analysis, is to integrate the strength and resources of two people to pursue a better life. If a man takes care of everything in his marriage and is no longer dependent on his wife, it means that he is no longer in love.
When a man is no longer in love, he will slowly regain his dependence and trust in his wife and shoulder the burden of life by himself.
In marriage, there is no longer a dependence on the woman, and there is no longer a need for her to share in the burden. Between each other, they no longer support each other, and marriage has no meaning in his heart, only the future.
When marriage can no longer give each other warmth and strength, the relationship also comes to an end. Ladies, at no time should you easily ignore feelings.
It was only when the partner was completely disappointed that he realized that he was negligent in his relationship.
Manage the relationship with heart and cherish the contribution of your partner. Try your best to meet her expectations for marriage, so that the time spent with each other will become the most eternal warmth in her heart.