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Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

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Friendships between girls are the most delicate.

For example, the relationship between Daiyu, Baochai, and Xiangyun in "A Dream of Red Mansions" can be written as a paper.

Is Shi Xiangyun and Baochai on a better relationship, or closer to Daiyu?

Xiangyun first got close to Daiyu, then got close to Baochai and alienated Daiyu, and then got close to Daiyu and alienated Baochai.

The relationship between these three people not only has the conflict between the two worlds of the elder and the underage girl, but also projects the subtle difference between the two types of women from the families of the ministers and nobles such as the Jia Shi family and the two families of Wang Xue, the military generals and merchants, in the society at that time.

Baochai was already 15 years old at the beginning of the novel, and at that time he was already a child, an adult, and could get married. And Daiyu is smaller than Baochai, and Xiangyun is smaller. If Baochai is compared to the current freshman student, then Daiyu is still only a freshman in high school, and Xiangyun is even younger, and may only be in the third year of junior high school.

Daiyu and Baochai's righteous knot Jinlan is made by giving bird's nest; The spiritual resonance between Daiyu and Xiangyun arose because of the couplet. Xiangyun's "Poetry Preface Kunzhong" is said to be the conclusion of poetry with Daiyu at this time; And Daiyu said that "the wine is still there", which is also talking about the sisterhood between the two after the Mid-Autumn Festival.

In terms of life experience, Xiangyun and Daiyu are very similar. However, due to the different personalities of the two, they show completely different mental outlooks. The mustard that used to arise because of Jia Mu, Baoyu and Baochai has disappeared with the growth of the two girls. In this clear realm, the two have become bosom friends of the mountains and rivers.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

The perfect Xue Baochai has always been regarded as an idol by Shi Xiangyun.

Every time she appeared in the first half of the story, she would praise Xue Baochai to the sky, and every sentence was from the bottom of her heart, without any deliberate flattery.

In her world, her sister Bao is the most perfect and amiable sister in the world, don't believe you, "These sisters, none of them are better than Sister Bao." It's a pity that we're not a mother. If I have such a sister, even if I don't have parents, there is no hindrance. ”

Xiangyun's admiration for Baochai is from the heart, Daiyu laughed at her for being a tongue-clipping, and she retorted: "You dare to pick on Sister Bao's shortcomings, even if you are good." I'm not as good as you, why is he not as good as you? ”

Although Xiangyun is very arrogant, he is not stupid, even if he knows that if he praises Baochai, he will offend Daiyu and make the second brother unhappy, he still can't help but praise it.

It can be seen that in Shi Xiangyun's heart, Xue Baochai is sacrosanct.

Even if he saw Xue Baochai overstepping the rules and sitting in front of Jia Baoyu's bed who was taking a nap while sewing belly pockets to catch mosquitoes, Xiangyun, who was about to laugh, immediately stopped and hurriedly pulled Daiyu away, lest Daiyu, who was unforgiving, would talk nonsense and ruin Xue Baochai's reputation.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Shi Xiangyun's psychological activities are clearly described in the original work," ...... suddenly remembered that Baochai had treated him kindly, so he hurriedly covered his mouth. Knowing that Lin Daiyu didn't let him, he was afraid that he would make fun of him, so he hurriedly pulled him over......"

Xiangyun really wants to be a good sister with Sister Bao, praises her all the time, maintains it everywhere, and is determined to get closer to this good sister. even asked to live with him in the Wuyuan, and he couldn't stick together all the time.

Xiangyun, a girl, is particularly easy to be heartbroken with people, which is a bit sad.

Xiangyun, whose parents died when he was a child and lived with his uncle and aunt, is open-minded by nature, but after all, he is just a child and has a natural desire for family and friendship. Attacking people is just a minion, and serving whoever has only someone in her heart is just her duty to be a minion. But Xiangyun regarded her as a friend who had nothing to say. Xiangyun set up a marriage, and the attacker congratulated her for being shy, and the attacker said: This son knows that she is ashamed, how did she say it at the beginning? It can be seen that Xiangyun once said everything to the attacker, even the most secret girl, and shared her vision for the future with the attacker.

But Jia Mu let the attacker ambush Baoyu again, and the attacker only had Baoyu in his heart. Because Xiangyun came, Baoyu rushed over early in the morning to freshen up at Daiyu's place, and everyone who attacked them would be jealous and shake their faces. Not only attacked people, but even Baoyu and Jia's mother loved Daiyu even more, Xiangyun was disappointed, envious, and jealous: "Second brother and sister Lin are together every day, I finally came, don't accompany me."

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Perhaps, this is related to Xiangyun's life experience.

She was raised by her uncle and aunt who were just face-saving since she was a child, and she needed to do some needlework from time to time, and she was very tired at home. When Xue Baochai chatted with her about family life, her eyes suddenly turned red.

Xue Baochai said: "Thinking about its appearance, it is natural that children do not have the suffering of their parents since childhood. I looked at him and didn't feel sad. ”

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

This kind of care must have touched the softest corner of Shi Xiangyun's heart.

In the days of living with Baochai, those growing pains can't be the hidden pain of people, and there is no sadness of parents...... Xiangyun must have confided in Baochai, and Baochai's comfort must be like a spring breeze, warming Xiangyun's heart.

She has an innocent temperament and is very arrogant, but deep down, she still longs for family affection and care, and longs for a sister like Xue Baochai who knows cold and hot and cares about people.

Baochai is a few years older than them, and has experienced family changes, but he is even more calm. The biggest advantage of Baochai is that she is sensible and measured, steady and knowledgeable, in a complex family like Jiafu, she and everyone maintain a cordial and generous and decent attitude, which is unabashed, and Xiangyun has a big boy personality who is unabashed.

Baochai is tranquil and generous, open-minded, demure and elegant, and very enthusiastic about helping others, does not like extravagance and waste, is born rich and noble, but is not addicted to wealth, and her knowledge is much higher than others, which makes her exude a different personality charm, which makes Xiangyun deeply impressed.

Since there is no innate bloodline, it can be cultivated through getting along with each other.

So she supports Xue Baochai everywhere, eager to exchange sincerity for sincerity, and get a girlfriend who is not a sister but a sister.

After all, girlfriends are relatives who are not related by blood of our own choosing.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart
Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

However, Xue Baochai did not give much response to Shi Xiangyun's enthusiasm.

She didn't even take Shi Xiangyun's gift too seriously.

That time, Shi Xiangyun came to see the attacker and gave her a ring. Unexpectedly, the attacker said, I already have one, and it was given to me by Miss Bao.

The red stone ring is not worth much, but Shi Xiangyun's heart is priceless.

As soon as she got the good things, she remembered the sisters of Jiafu, and first sent someone to send a batch to the girls.

When it was time for him to come to live in the house, he wrapped four more in handkerchiefs and prepared to give them to the four maids in the house with heads and faces, including the attackers.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

This plot has been watched by many readers.

Because it is quite rude to give gifts to others.

For the giver, this is blatant neglect and contempt, evidence of not being taken to heart. Even when others look at it, they will be resentful of it.

Xue Baochai turned around and gave this stone pattern ring to his subordinates, and quietly borrowed flowers to offer Buddha, which not only attracted people's hearts with small favors, but also did not need to pay substantially.

Or, she didn't expect that Shi Xiangyun also specially prepared a gift for the attacker, and shook out his small movements in front of the gong.

But at that time, Shi Xiangyun didn't care.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Unlike Daiyu, she is not a sensitive and suspicious girl. Xue Baochai's behavior was not interpreted and thought by her over and over again, she only felt that this was one of Xue Baochai's "generous" performances.

Shi Xiangyun is still young after all, she doesn't understand that no matter how much she really likes it, no matter how fanatical her infatuation is, she can't make the other party your confidant. A true confidant needs to be similar in cultivation, have similar interests, and know each other at the same height.

Hairpin Dai formed a golden Ranchi, Daiyu was grateful for Baochai's affection, and Baochai's answer was: What is in the mouth. It's just that everyone in front of me will miss the wait. In Baochai's heart, there is no difference between these girls, they all need her to take care of the tired interpersonal relationships.

A few girls started a poetry club, opened a society in the second and sixteenth years of junior high school, went to Li Kun to compose poems, and usually could also be a Dongjia club, and Tanchun first did a dong, which was nothing more than a matter of a few melons and fruits. Shi Xiangyun is a little girl who has not been out of the pavilion as a guest, and she wants to be a host for a while, and she originally planned to have the same pattern as the spring explorers, but after discussing with Baochai, things are different: since you want to have a treat, you have to invite them all, and you can't miss anywhere, where does the money come from? So this matter fell on Baochai's head: there were new crabs in her field, and they were brought to Xiangyun to save the emergency.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

This incident reflects the great difference between Baochai and Xiangyun and the girls in the garden:

What Daiyu likes is that the friendship of gentlemen is lighter than water, and her nature likes to scatter and not like to gather; Xiangyun's favorite literary style is a real celebrity and self-style; And Baochai is thinking about making better use of resources, even if it is a gadget, it must be considered thoroughly, and everyone is satisfied. In the end, this crab banquet was in the limelight because of Baochai, although it was Xiangyun who invited the guests, everyone only remembered the crabs of the Xue family, and even Jia's mother praised Baochai for her ability.

Baochai Xiangyun's personality is even more judgmental, and these differences will always show up at a certain moment:

Baochai "cherishes Fangzi and covers the door during the day", and is a person who "doesn't open her mouth if she doesn't care about herself, and shakes her head when she asks", Jia's mother said that she is "rare and stable", and even Aunt Zhao has to praise her. And Xiangyun will say whatever he thinks, straightforward and simple, and he will lose a little temper at every turn. She will barbecue venison on a snowy day, and she will get drunk and lie on the peony bush, just like a famous person in the Wei and Jin dynasties. She is a "poetry maniac" and will talk about Wen poetry with Xiangling in the middle of the night, but Baochai thinks that writing poetry is not a serious matter, and even less poetry should be done, and knitting women are the big thing for girls. Xiangling, who followed Baochai's side, didn't dare to bother her when she learned poetry, so she was willing to seek the near and far and worship Daiyu as her teacher. In Sister Bao's eyes, the poems and songs full of fragrance are just "exquisite naughty".

The three views are different, and there is no need to force them.

So, the two didn't become good girlfriends after all.

This point is also clearly pointed out by others, "Look at Miss Bao, how much is it deserted when you go out of a Xiangling?" Left a cloud girl alone. ”

As soon as Xiangling left, Shi Xiangyun was left alone?

But there is obviously Xue Baochai in the Wuyuan.

The meaning is deep, and the officials can chew it carefully.

In fact, the day after the raid of the Grand View Garden, Baochai hurriedly returned to Li Kun and moved out of the Grand View Garden. She went alone, without informing anyone in advance, and without saying goodbye to the sisters in the garden. Xiangyun insisted on living with Baochai at the beginning, but the building was about to collapse, and everyone was in danger, Sister Bao just stuffed her to Li Kun without saying a word.

It can be seen that although Shi Xiangyun lived with Xue Baochai as he wished, he did not really get close to him, and he did not become a good sister with a caring heart.

From beginning to end, it was just wishful thinking on her part.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart
Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Grand View Garden is a veritable "daughter country".

Except for Jia Baoyu, almost all of the young girls in the garden are there. They love to play, write poems, love to laugh, all of them are innocent and romantic, quite a bit of a middle school campus.

It stands to reason that Xue Baochai, who is supported by everyone, should have a group of girlfriends, talk about everything with the sisters, and get along with everyone like a sister.

But the opposite is true.

Xue Baochai, who is very popular, has no girlfriends in the real sense, and even Lin Daiyu, who "dissects Jinlan with Jinlanqi", can only be regarded as half a good sister.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

In the chapter "Golden Ranchi", Baochai ran to send warmth to Daiyu, and Daiyu was so moved that she couldn't even say the words "I am the most thoughtful person, only when you hide a traitor in your heart".

However, why does Daiyu, who "has more heart than work", feel that Baochai is "hiding adultery"? What kind of traitor is hidden? Perhaps the key is not in "adultery", but in "hiding".

"Golden Ranchi" This time, Baochai's performance towards Daiyu was considerate and benevolent, but after saying a lot of words that cared about the other party, she still covered herself tightly, and did not involve half a word in her heart - what did she think of Daiyu? With so many bits and pieces of rhetoric on weekdays, is she a little dissatisfied? There is no love for no reason in the world, Baochai is not a saint, Daiyu is her biggest rival in marriage, why is she so affectionate and friendly to Daiyu?

Except for the time when she gave Lin Daiyu bird's nest, Baochai rarely opened her heart to others, and rarely resonated with others, and smiled because of her common interests and three views.

It seems that he is close to everyone, but in fact he is estranged from everyone.

Xue Baochai's intimacy is treated equally, which makes people unable to detect the distance between half of the relatives.

So this good is the same, but it seems raw and polite.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Such interpersonal relationships are superficial, just a strengthened version of politeness and routines. If you look closely, there is not much sincerity to speak of.

Because Xue Baochai himself is a person wearing a mask.

A girl like Baochai, who is both talented and well-versed in the world, has a deep understanding of the weaknesses of human nature and the complexity of human feelings at a young age, can figure out every subtle fold of the human heart, and can avoid all the contradictions that may be involved, but she does not know what sex and spirit are.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

When we saw that Daiyu was obsessed with poetry, in the room, "there was a pen and inkstone on the table under the window, and the bookshelf was full of books"; In the spring exploration room, there are all kinds of celebrity law stickers and dozens of treasure inkstones, and the pens inserted in the sea of pens are like woods. On the other side, there is a large Ru kiln flower sac, and a bag of white chrysanthemum ...... full of crystal balls is inserted, you can experience their full self-pursuit and life interest.

And Baochai's snow-cave boudoir has nothing, which may be deliberately showing people in a simple posture - after all, she has also read the West Chamber, and she has also been rich and leisurely, but since she has decided to be a model lady, when she is alone, she just reads a few "serious" books and becomes a female celebrity. is so well-read, but none of the poems and books in her belly nourished her, making her gain and enjoy. But the discipline in those books of female virtue is enshrined as the highest standard, because otherwise you can't show your identity!

has been violating his nature for a long time to play the perfect self, and he has deceived himself. As a result, the spirit is obscured, and the heart is withered.

The transcendent emotions and acquaintances between Bao Dai, their pursuit of anything other than the "career economy" is a realm that Bao Chai cannot appreciate at all. Her strategy, her dedication, and her perfect personality are not of any use here, but have completely become disadvantages. The character may allow her to win everything that can be seen, but she can't win true love. worked hard to manage a self that was praised by 10,000 people, but lost his true self.

Her goodness comes from her "self-respecting identity", but it has caused her a huge blind spot, and also created her heavy shackles, allowing her to live in a shell of "human design" for the rest of her life.

She hides her true self, always restrains herself, never offends others, and never conflicts easily.

On the contrary, Lin Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun will quarrel and have a cold war, but they will get back together later, holding hands and singing poems by the lake, which can not only tell each other's hearts, but also comfort each other.

As you and I know, that's what girlfriends look like.

In front of her, you can say what you have and send fire when you have it, instead of always holding your identity and decency, politely greeting each other and politely giving gifts.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Xue Baochai has always been a controversial figure in Dream of Red Mansions.

She is not as pure as Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu is like a pool of quiet spring water, clear and unstained with dust, joy, anger and sorrow flow on the surface, and her temperament is pure and innocent.

Xue Baochai is just the opposite, she is young and old, mellow and transparent, and her joy and anger are invisible.

This erects a barrier in front of the reader and the characters, and many times it is necessary to push through the barrier according to the various descriptions in Dream of Red Mansions, and boldly guess and approach her inner world.

Is Xue Baochai "hiding traitors" in his heart?

My opinion is: Baochai may be a cold-hearted, sleek and sophisticated person, but he is not yet a traitor.

The word "Tibetan adultery" is in the forty-fifth chapter of the book, which comes from Lin Daiyu's mouth, "Daiyu sighed: 'You treat people every day, of course, it is excellent, but I am the most thoughtful person, only when you hide adultery in your heart. The day before yesterday, you said that it was not good to read miscellaneous books, and you persuaded me to say those kind things, but I was very grateful to you. In the past, I was wrong, but now I am wrong. ’”

With Lin Daiyu's cleverness, can't she see Xue Baochai's true personality?

Daiyu is very perceptive and often sees the truth in the subtleties.

For example, in the sixty-ninth episode, after Sister Feng earned Second Sister You into the Grand View Garden, she arranged for Sister Shan to take care of her daily life.

On the surface, Sister Feng treated the second sister well in front of everyone, but behind the scenes, she tortured her to death. "The sisters in the garden and Li Kun Yingchun and others are all well-intentioned for Sister Feng, but Bao Dai and the others are secretly worried about the second sister."

This reflects from the side that Daiyu has a keen perception and can get a glimpse of the truth.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Xue Baochai is actually a very complex character, she can't be as free and easy as Daiyu, her brother is talentless, her mother is weak, and she has the heavy responsibility of the family on her shoulders.

Years of experience have obliterated her girlish nature and restrained her true temperament, and she has learned to hide her heart and observe her words.

Daiyu used to regard her as a rival in love, and this level of understanding led to Daiyu's understanding of Baochai always being biased, until Baochai taught her not to read miscellaneous books, Daiyu suddenly saw the truth about Sister Bao's behavior.

The most controversial thing for readers about Xue Baochai is that in the twenty-seventh episode of "Dicuiting Yang Concubine Plays Colorful Butterflies", Baochai "blamed" Daiyu overheard the maids chatting.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

There is also Baochai's attitude towards the suicide of Jin Chuan and Third Sister You, many readers will think that Xue Baochai is really ruthless from her words when she comforted Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue.

As the first-class maid in Mrs. Wang's house, Jin Chu'er has the same status as Mandarin Duck, Ping'er, and Raider, and is one of the four most powerful maids in Rongfu. In the thirty-first round, Xiangyun specially brought a red stone ring and named these four people, which is enough to illustrate this. Jin Chu'er is to Mrs. Wang what a mandarin duck is to Jia's mother, and Mrs. Wang later said that she is "like my own daughter", which should not be an exaggeration. And Mrs. Wang is Baochai's aunt, and they come and go with each other very frequently, it is conceivable that Baochai must be intimate and respectful to Jin Chu'er on weekdays.

However, after hearing that Jin Chu'er threw herself into the well, even the attackers shed tears, but Baochai's first reaction was to rush to the first time and "hurriedly come to Mrs. Wang to comfort":

"My aunt is a philanthropist, of course. In my opinion, he is not angry. Most of the time he went down to live, or he was stubborn in front of the well, and he lost his foot and fell. He is used to being restrained on the top, and when he goes out, he naturally has to go around stubbornly, how can he have such an atmospheric reason! Even if there is such an atmosphere, it is just a foolish person, and it is not a pity. ”

He also said, "My aunt doesn't have to think about Yuzi, it's very difficult to get by, but give him a few taels of silver and send him more, and it will be the love of the master and servant." ”

It can be seen that Baochai's coldness.

Because of this, I am afraid that Baochai will always be criticized by readers. - Baochai does not live up to the reader's expectations, she does not seem to be a person who is born with a kind heart and a compassionate heart for everyone.

After hearing that Third Sister You had died, Baochai also made a stable and politically correct statement as usual, but her emotional reaction was still completely indifferent. I wasn't even in the mood to ask for some gossip. - It's hard to believe that her usual care and consideration for the sisters in the garden is out of genuine affection. What's more, when she cares, she always doesn't forget to give the other party some moral discipline!

You're so good to me, but I just can't kiss you, and I always feel that something is wrong - this is probably Daiyu's true feelings about Baochai. Even Xiangyun, who has confessed his heart many times, was not really close to Baochai later, and when it came to the couplet under the moon, a few words of self-expression were still said to Daiyu.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Baochai is good at everything, but has no true temperament. Or rather, she hides her true temperament.

Baochai, this girl, no matter how much you look at her talent and gentleness and thoughtfulness, you can't know what she likes and dislikes? Who are you close to and who are you estranged from? What are the joys and sorrows in my heart? She is like a super-intelligent doll, with all the goodness, but the heart is a bunch of circuits and pipelines, and no one can solve it.

Who wants to be close to a perfect person who has no emotions and six desires? No matter how much praise is on the lips, the real thought in people's hearts is: only by being around a frank person with obvious defects can he feel safe.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Baochai's whole person is a "cold" word. I eat the "cold incense pill" that suppresses human nature, and I live in an empty and deserted house like a "snow cave".

However, to say that Baochai is completely ruthless, it is not. It is clear that she also loves Baoyu - in the whole book, Baochai, who has never been moody, only moves her emotions three times, and all three times involve Baoyu. Even if she doesn't value her feelings as much as Daiyu, just for utilitarian reasons, Baoyu is also her best candidate. has been in Jiafu for so many years, and I have seen all kinds of men up and down, including my own brother, which one treats women as people? Only by marrying Baoyu can happiness and respect be ensured, she has no choice.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

If you can combine Baochai's family environment, you will understand the reason why she is cold-hearted and cold-hearted.

She experienced her father's death since she was a child, and saw the warmth and coldness of the world in taking care of the family business, and such a complex environment forced her to gradually grow up to become a person who cares about the overall situation and indifferent life and death.

Baochai's attitude towards death is detached, this detachment has a taste of downsizing Hongchen, she has a very strong inner world, others can't get in, and she herself doesn't want to get out.

For others to commit suicide easily, Baochai has a rational to indifferent attitude, it is her growth environment that forces her to be calm at the first time when anything happens, and to come up with a solution, rather than easily seeking death, so she thinks that their suicide is not worth it, it is the behavior of foolish people.

Moreover, since the Si people have passed away, no matter how sad they are, it is in vain, how to properly appease the emotions of the living and arrange the aftermath of the deceased is the most important thing.

Her indifference made her really not care about taking her clothes to the dead Jin Chuan makeup. Who can do this in the Grand View Garden? Who can not be taboo?

In emotion and reason, Baochai is obviously rational, and rational people are relatively "ruthless", but "ruthless" makes her do everything calmly and orderly. That's why Cao Xueqin commented on her "Ren is ruthless and moving".

When she was young, she was also carefree under the protection of her parents, but the changes in life caused her to change her temperament. She was forced to fade away from her youthful innocence and integrate into the maturity and calmness of her age, she knew how to rise and fall and fate was impermanent.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

Write at the end

Later, Xiangyun finally saw the cold alienation behind Baochai's thoughtfulness, and Baochai finally left Daguanyuan, and there was no need to spend time being careless and diligent to deal with so many sisters and sisters. Xiangyun in the lonely concave crystal pavilion, finally found a confidant Daiyu, two talented, beautiful girls, life experience, but no self-pity, sympathy, in the clear moonlight, chanted out the "cold pool across the crane shadow, cold moon burial flower soul" verses, that is the most beautiful moment in the Grand View Garden, their hearts are forever young, the soul is always pure.

Between these three girls, in the final analysis, Xiangyun's treatment of Daiyu when he was a child was just a little innocuous jealousy in his heart, and the defense of his own inherent territory (Jia Mubaoyu, etc.). In general, for Xiangyun, Daiyu and Baochai are playmates who have grown up together and played together.

Later, Lin Daiyu and Baoyu's relationship tended to be stable, and they gradually understood that emotion was the only one for each other, and the friendship between Baoyu and Daiyu Xiangyun became the love of two people and their common sister Shi Xiangyun. As for Daiyu's suspicion because of the golden unicorn, it was mainly suspicious of Baoyu, and she did not anger Shi Xiangyun because of this, and later after Bao Dai and the two dissected their hearts, there was no suspicion between Bao Dai, and Daiyu and Xiangyun no longer quarreled because of Baoyu.

And although Daiyu has been nostalgic for Baochai and the public opinion of "Jinyu Liangyuan", after Jia Baoyu's confession and Xue Baochai's bird's nest on a rainy night, Daiyu and Baochai have completely released their suspicions. Later, Lin Daiyu also recognized Aunt Xue as her godmother, and directly called Baochai her sister and Baoqin her sister. Daiyu has also grown up and matured, and if the Jia family has not taken a sharp turn for the worse, there should be no suspense for Daiyu to marry Baoyu.

According to the verdict, when Baochai later married into the Jia family, the Jia family was close to defeat, and from a realistic point of view, Baoyu Baochai's "golden and jade good fate" was just an expedient measure for the Jia family at that time.

When they grow up and need to face the harsh reality and uncertain future, these childhood thoughts are not worth mentioning.

At this time, Xiangyun, Daiyu, and Baochai are all helpless against reality, they can only be lambs to be slaughtered, and only they can experience each other's difficulties and sorrows.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival night couplet, Xiangyun said: "Hate Sister Bao, sister says kiss and love every day, and has already said that this year's Mid-Autumn Festival wants everyone to enjoy the moon together, and it is necessary to start a society. The society was also dispersed, and the poems were not written. ”

It's a complaint, but it's also an emotion.

According to Xiangyun's cleverness, how could he not know that he would never come back?

She just pretended not to know, comforting Daiyu and herself, as if Baochai really abandoned them just because she wanted to reunite with her mother and brother, not because this Grand View Garden was no longer their protection.

Xiangyun said: "If they don't do it, the two of us will join forces to shame them tomorrow."

It seems that there really is a tomorrow that looks like yesterday.

And those girlfriends who are drifting away are also witnesses of their growth, forever in their memories, tacitly drifting away, not asking questions, not going to delve into it.

The flowers are gone, and we just have to remember its fragrant beauty in spring.

Magenta Mansions: The best friends who are drifting apart

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Yoyo-chan, likes to read, likes to travel, likes cats and dogs, and likes all good things. Serious lover of hot pot. It's not cold, but it's very attitude. The world may be cold, but the heart is still warm. Official account: Accompany you through the long years (ID: sunshine_phuket). Please contact the author in the background for reprinting.