Good feelings are exclusive and unique, so even if the relationship is a good girlfriend or brother, they will maintain a certain sense of boundaries in terms of private feelings.
Han Han once said: "Really bad people are not terrible, what is terrible is fake good people."
This sentence means that even if we have a good relationship with our girlfriend, we can't easily share our emotional problems with her. Because the person you talk to with your girlfriend is often prone to double betrayal, which can lead to unexpected consequences.
Although we emphasize that girlfriends should not be too involved in their love life, it is inevitable that there will be some intersections in daily life, such as women falling in love, or going to meet with their partners, always like to bring their girlfriends, thinking that they can "be bold, come up with ideas, and talk about impressions".
The woman took her best friend to go on a blind date, and the scene was very embarrassing for a while
With the acceleration of the pace of life and the fierce competition in the workplace, most of the contemporary young people have no time to take care of the social interaction in life, so blind date has become the fastest choice to get rid of singles.
A woman in Hunan delayed finding a partner because she was busy with work, so she took her girlfriend who was also single to participate in a blind date event.
According to the organizer's arrangement, the guests who came to participate in the blind date sat around different round booths, and in order to be able to take care of each other, the woman deliberately sat with her best friend.
After the blind date activity began, some bold people immediately took the initiative to move between the tables to throw olive branches to their favorite objects, while some socially phobic people sat in place and waited, hoping to try their luck and be confessed.
The woman is wearing a white top with short ear-length hair, which looks gentle and intellectual, plus the woman's skin is very white and her facial features are more delicate, so she is a more eye-catching type in the crowd, and it immediately attracted several male guests who came to confess.
Originally, the woman was chatting with a sturdy male guest wearing glasses, but suddenly another slightly chubby man came over to interrupt him, directly indicating that he wanted to get to know each other with the woman. In the face of the sudden confession, the woman was a little overwhelmed, and the one-to-one understanding had not yet been understood, and she had to adapt to the one-to-many rhythm all of a sudden, and the woman could only cover her face with her hands to hide her embarrassment.
The woman kindly introduced the confessor to her best friend, and the comments were polarized
Because she couldn't get her idea, the woman could only ask her best friend to help her for reference, so she looked at the long-haired girl wearing a mask next to her with a sincere face, hoping that she could give her some advice.
For the woman's request for help, the girlfriend is also very competent here, first greeted the two male guests one by one, and then chatted with them very enthusiastically, wanting to see whose personality is more compatible with the woman.
Thinking that there were a few suitors sitting around her, and her best friend was sitting in it and there was no one to confess, the woman had an idea, and quickly turned sideways and grabbed her best friend's hand and said to the male guests who came behind her: "What do you think of her?" ”
Originally, the woman was not too interested in the male guests who came later, and she did not refuse directly out of politeness, but now she saw that her best friend seemed to be quite able to talk with each other, so the woman immediately pushed the boat down.
In order not to embarrass her best friend, the woman deliberately turned her head and smiled and said to her: "I think you guys seem to be quite suitable, why don't you know each other and try it." ”
Originally, the woman who introduced the confessor on her side to her girlfriend was still a little unsure, worried that she would be unhappy or uncomfortable, but she didn't expect her girlfriend to say very happily: "I think it's okay." ”
Some people say that this kind of woman's practice is a bit unkind, and it feels like giving what you don't want to your girlfriend.
Some people also think that the woman is very enthusiastic and thinks about her girlfriend all the time, and at the same time, this practice has a high emotional intelligence, which not only does not embarrass the male guests, but also helps the girlfriend get to know one more person by the way.
Sentiment Analysis:
Girlfriends are helpers in their careers and comforts when they are down, but they are not assistants in love. Judging whether a man is reliable or not, whether he can become the object of marriage, the final decision can only be grasped by oneself.
We always say that girlfriends should have happiness and hardship, but emotional matters are very private, and even if the relationship with girlfriends is good, we should maintain a proper sense of boundaries.
Fortunately, the woman is just on a blind date, and the male guests are in the initial stage of acquaintance, so it doesn't have much impact on letting the girlfriend help with the idea, but if you plan to have further relationships in the future, you have to learn to understand it yourself.
In life, we often see a case of pulling girlfriends on a blind date, but the other party did not match the party, but chose the girlfriend, and finally the two people turned against each other because of this. Although the relationship is about the love of both parties, but how much such things happen will still affect the feelings of girlfriends a little, if you maintain a certain sense of boundaries from the beginning, it may be perfectly avoided.
In short, friendship between girlfriends is based on mutual respect and understanding. Even if the relationship is good, we need to maintain a certain sense of boundaries. This is the only way to keep this friendship going for a long time.
Today's Topic Discussion: What do you think of women's practices?
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