As the saying goes, "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", but as long as the family works together, everyone has each other in their hearts, what difficulties can't be overcome?
As far as the definition of family is concerned, even the other half who joins later is also a part of the family. However, in the eyes of some families, once there is a conflict between the husband and wife, and the husband and wife quarrel, then the family of the man, may subconsciously help their relatives.
This time the story started because of the conflict between husband and wife, and what is surprising is that this time the whole family has to drive the woman away. How could the poor girl be treated like this when she married into their family?
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The three aunts and six mothers-in-law are relatives, and it is understandable that they are helping to speak, but if the help of the three aunts and six mothers-in-law is to help one of them, then for the other party, this kind of help falls on their own heads, which is somewhat of a taste of bullying themselves.
If the woman's family is not far from the family where she was married, then the woman can go back to her mother's house, but if the woman is married far away, it will be very sad for the married girl to encounter this kind of thing.
The conflict between husband and wife may be just a trivial matter, or it may be a trivial matter of firewood, rice, oil and salt, or a misunderstanding that has not communicated well with each other. But if there is, it can't be easily exported, because once it is exported, it will be difficult for people to let go.
For example, this time, the sister-in-law emphasized in front of the woman that the house was bought by her mother. The sister-in-law's mother is equivalent to the woman's mother-in-law, and she emphasizes it so much, she can also put her words on the bright side, telling the woman that this house is not hers, and this home belongs to their family.
How can such words be willing? No wonder the uncle who came to mediate also said that before the divorce, no one is qualified to drive the girl away, not even the girl's husband.
This incident quickly aroused discussion among netizens, and some people thought of the bride price when they got married, and emphasized that if the bride price was more before, then they would also weigh and consider it more before driving each other away when they quarreled.
Although the statement of netizens is a bit far-fetched, this thinking is also understandable. After all, when a woman marries, she is breaking away from her original family and entering a new relationship, which should be taken care of by the other party's family, but who can guarantee that the other party will be good to the woman for the rest of her life? What should happen if two people have a conflict?
Of course, the issue of bride price should not only be a guarantee of the woman's rights, but also a show of the extent to which the man cares. It's just that the problem that this woman encountered is not only whether she is cared about by the man, but when the man's sister can say in front of her that the house was bought by the woman's mother-in-law, it already explains a lot of things.
Therefore, it is really no wonder that some young girls emphasize the need for an independent house before getting married, after all, if it is only a husband and wife who live together, without the mixing of three aunts and six wives, maybe the small contradictions can be repaired soon. However, when the man's family is defending the woman, and even does not hesitate to drive the woman away in order to protect the man, such a "concerted effort" will make the woman deeply understand a fact.
Even if the follow-up relationship can be repaired, the words spoken by the sister-in-law at that time will definitely make the thorns in the girl's heart grow, and maybe it will make her feel cold for the rest of her life!
I have to say that good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in summer. Some things are true, but there are some things that really shouldn't be said in public!