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Lived, happy: that's the main thing. "The result?" Nothing special. There is no need for anything to come out of it at all. Silently—pretty much the most desired. - B.B. Rozanov, "The Handbook of the Soul"
2. Procrastination is the lack of clarity of the goal. There is no urgency, meaning, or priority to what you want to achieve, so you will only choose to do distracting things. You don't need to force yourself to stop procrastinating, you need to find something more worth doing. ——DANKOE
3 You have to understand that no problem exists in isolation, there must have been someone who has encountered it before, and there is already a better solution, but I don't know it yet. I shouldn't have walked alone in the dark to reinvent the wheel, maybe my epiphany was just someone else's basic skill. - Jack Trout, "Positioning"
4 The first motive force of the human brain is not to seek truth and learn knowledge, but to survive with minimal energy consumption. Therefore, arbitrary, arbitrary, one-sided, diode, and people follow the clouds, and make decisions based on feelings...... It's the norm. Only by deliberately training the ability to think in a complex way can we have a little confidence in our "rationality". - Papa Bear Meows
5 Only after the relationship of money can it be truly consolidated. Whether it is a family, a lover, a friend, a partner. Because money is everyone's most sensitive point, rubbing back and forth at this point can see each other's character, the bottom line of people, and whether every city and pool do not miss each other's considerations, so that trust can be consolidated and the emotional foundation can be truly laid deep and solid. What you love more than love is trust. - Wang Caiyue Baozi
6 I firmly believe that spending money and time on hobbies is never a waste, but psychotherapy. The more tired I am, the more I want to pick up the things I love again, because I don't want to forget the feeling of happiness, I want to remember why I was so excited that I covered my mouth and screamed, why I was moved to tears, why I loved. It's my hobbies that keep me alive.
——Knowing the book boy Guo Maimai
7 A relationship is not about how long it lasts. It's about whether it can help both parties grow, be happy, and become better people.
8 A personal observation is not necessarily accurate. A person's moral bottom line is often very uniform, and the bottom line is low in one thing, and the bottom line will not be high in other similar things. It is almost impossible to have a low moral bottom line in a certain matter, but a relatively high moral bottom line in similar things. For example, a person who is arrogant to a service worker who is inferior to him in public will not have much respect for his subordinates in the workplace and in the family towards family members who are not as good as his own in terms of contribution/status. So it's often possible to see a person's bottom line on one thing that their bottom line on many other things. - Chef Alex
9 Really good to your mother, then don't just on this day, usually teach her how to use the TV remote control, how to use WeChat to make phone calls and send photos, how to take the subway transfer, set up the living at home to be convenient for the elderly, help her clean up the refrigerator, see if the things used by the elderly have been fooled by scammers to buy a bunch of IQ taxes, don't let the elderly and society disconnect, take her to some places she wants to go, feel social changes, and share some popular science videos, just like how she treated you when she was a child, be patient.
10 small things you can do to love your mother:1. Encourage moms to develop their own hobbies and have their own social interactions2. It is not tacitly accepted that housework should be done by mother, housework is the responsibility of every family member3. If the mother is a housewife, don't say things like "you don't earn money", if measured by the market price of housekeeping, the mother's contribution to the family is not small4. Don't be prejudiced against single mothers5. Take your mother for regular check-ups6. Help mom deal with the problem of electronic products, increase the font size, clean up the cache, block the scam number, mom doesn't know how to teach a few more times7. Take a photo with your mom8. If mom wants to try new makeup and outfits, don't splash mom with cold water with age9. Talk to mom more10. Pay more attention to the mental health of mothers, and the depression of many middle-aged women is simply treated as a perfunctory menopause
11Oscar Wilde said, "The best way to make children good is to make them happy." And to make the child happy, the mother must first be happy from the bottom of her heart. Yes, mothers need to be happy more than "great". Gone are the days of total material and spiritual scarcity, and the era of sacrificing countless mothers to lift their children is over. I pay tribute to those mothers who have to sacrifice, and I hope that there will be no more moral kidnapping, guilt and guilt between mothers and sons in the new era, and that we can simply enjoy the connection of blood and the mystery of life, instead of being tormented by intimacy. The biggest lesson of the new generation of mothers should be to please themselves and keep growing up, so that when their children think of us, they no longer feel guilty and helpless, but warm and proud. Bless ourselves as mothers and bless our children. - My heart is refreshed
12 The book "The Nature of Poverty" tells us these four points, understanding poverty can solve poverty: 1. The dream of the poor is to hope that their children will become government employees, and this dream is unified worldwide. 2. For many parents, children are their economic future, a security policy, a storage product, and a kind of welfare lottery. 3. The essence of poverty is to stretch out your hand to the uncontrollable field, and when you have a certain amount of capital, you have to make an investment that has no chance of winning, and you have to comfort yourself - seek wealth and danger. 4. To get rid of poverty, the first step is to think about long-term goals and get used to making some short-term sacrifices for this.
13 Three sentences from a woman's perspective that describe the meaning of life: Li Juan's "Altay's Corner": "I live in a wonderful world. It's big, quiet, close, real, and so direct. The wind carried me around my skirt and carried me forward with the wind. The world in front of me is moving forward, and the colors are old and comfortable. I met the people who came to me, and I went to the last days with the same destiny. Life is always about leaving behind and going on. I think I'll finally know: why do we live like this? Chi Zijian's "The Right Bank of the Ergun River" "There are two roads in the world, a tangible horizontal for people to wander forward or backward, and an invisible vertical for the soul to ascend to heaven or hell. Only when the road is full of thorns and has no regrets can you be with the clouds on the vertical road. "Sanmao's "The Rainy Season Doesn't Come Again" "I live in a fallacy of being overly obsessed with big and small things, so I can't find solace and highlights in it. It rained for so many days, and it didn't wet me, it was my heart in the rainy season, and I wet myself. There will come a time when the earth will come to a halt and the earth will once again be brilliant, after the endless rains. I don't want to be a kappa anymore, I won't sink to the bottom of the river forever, the rainy season will pass. ”
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