01
The son said proudly, your future daughter-in-law is pregnant, it has been two months, parents, you should arrange the marriage as soon as possible.
As soon as I heard that the son of the thousand-year-old iron tree finally bloomed, if he didn't get married, he would get pregnant as soon as he got married, so he bought one and got one free, so that we could be grandparents, and I was crazy on the spot.
My husband and I hurriedly nodded in agreement, and carefully asked our future daughter-in-law and future in-laws what they wanted.
Other people's daughters are also raised by thousands of pets, so naturally they can't be slack off and wronged, not to mention that the prospective daughter-in-law still has our son's baby in her belly.
The more I thought about it, the more excited I became, and I couldn't wait to start taking action immediately, running real estate to buy a wedding house, and booking a hotel to arrange a wedding bride price. What's the matter, you can't treat your daughter-in-law badly.
02
My husband and I were so excited that we couldn't sleep all night, and the next day we couldn't hold it back, so we took our son and daughter-in-law to look around the marriage room. It's just that he has been running for several days in a row, but his son and prospective daughter-in-law have not been able to settle down.
Either they dislike the small size of the house, or they dislike the bad location, or the school district is not superior. In short, my husband and son and I are satisfied with the house and nodding our heads, but the prospective daughter-in-law still bites the bullet and does not let go.
It wasn't until I saw a big four-bedroom house with an area of 130 square meters and a good location in the school district that the daughter-in-law nodded with satisfaction. My daughter-in-law nodded, but my husband and I started to have headaches.
This four-bedroom is good, but the price is high, and if you want to buy it, you have to make a down payment of at least 600,000 yuan, plus a monthly loan of 7,000. Thinking that the combined salary of my son and daughter-in-law was only 15,000, my husband and I couldn't help but shake our heads.
03
After looking at the room, the prospective daughter-in-law went home satisfied. But my husband and I began to frown, the house is not impossible to buy, but to buy, the 200,000 bride price requested by the daughter-in-law cannot be scrapped, so we can only reluctantly give 100,000.
But my son also told us, parents, I have discussed with Xiaoqin, we plan to buy the house in full, and the pressure of repaying the loan every month is too great, and we have to repay the loan and raise the child as soon as we get married, we can't bear it.
My husband and I looked at each other: "The down payment of 600,000 yuan, we can barely afford it, and the full payment of 2 million yuan is a little difficult for us, and we can't do anything." If you don't change four rooms for three rooms, you can live comfortably, and we can pay easily? ”
The son suddenly became anxious: "Parents, I said that I would buy a four-room room, how can I change it to a three-room room, and if I change it to a three-room room, where do my parents-in-law live?" "I was a little stunned, I bought a senior house in my feelings, just to help him raise his parents-in-law?
04
In the past, my son was very Buddhist, and basically never begged us strongly, but when we saw that he was eager and pleading in order to buy a senior room for his prospective daughter-in-law, our hearts were mixed, sour and astringent, and very blocked.
My son talked about it every day, urging us to agree. Considering that it is not easy for our son to meet a girl he likes, not to mention that the other party is also pregnant with his son's child, we nodded and agreed ruthlessly.
We agreed, and our son excitedly told the good news to his daughter-in-law-to-be. So, we took out all our savings and borrowed a lot from friends and relatives to barely make up the bill.
I was about to buy a house, and my son proposed that your daughter-in-law said that her name must be added to the house, otherwise she and her parents will live under the fence and have no sense of security. In addition, I promised them that the first child will follow the mother's surname, and the second child will be my surname.
05
I almost didn't come up in one breath, and I wanted to slap my son hard. The husband also shook his head when he heard it, even if he bought the house in full, he had to add the name of his daughter-in-law, and now he had to let the child take his mother's surname, what does this have to do with the inverted door?
I asked my son tremblingly: If my daughter-in-law wants to add her name to the full payment room, how much will their family pay?
My son was stunned for a while before replying to me, buying a wedding house is a man's business, how can he be embarrassed to let the woman pay for it? If you say it, you will be laughed at.
The son went on to say: As for taking the mother's surname, most young people are the same now, the first child follows the father's surname, the second child follows the mother's surname, and they can inherit the family property on both sides, why not?
06
I asked my son rhetorically, my daughter-in-law not only wants the full house with her name, but also wants the child to follow her surname, which is a bit disgusting.
The son said disapprerovingly, we will get married and start a family soon, we are all a family, and I have no opinion on writing the name and the child's mother's surname. You are the old tradition and old thinking, always thinking that children must take their father's surname.
I took a deep breath and took a long time to recover from my son's series of excessive and unreasonable demands. Looking at the house money that was finally raised, and then thinking about the many requirements of my son and daughter-in-law, my heart was stuffed.
The husband generally asked his son, can you break up? The son jumped up on the spot, how could he break up? She is pregnant with my child, and I will not marry her.
07
Hearing my son's anxious and anxious tone, I understood that my son had forgotten his mother when he married his daughter-in-law, but before his son married his daughter-in-law, he had already forgotten his mother.
My husband and I looked at each other, and we both saw deep fear and fear in each other's eyes. Once the son marries this daughter-in-law, he will be led by the nose by the daughter-in-law, and let the son rush ahead and make all kinds of demands from us.
Thinking that my son would be strict with his wife in the future and help his daughter-in-law to gnaw on the old and suck blood, I decided to leave the stall. Since we can't buy the wedding house in full, and we can't agree to let the child take the mother's surname, let's just let the son be the son-in-law.
I made up my mind and said, you go and be a son-in-law, we won't buy the wedding house, and we can't afford to toss with you.
No matter how my son speaks, my husband and I are not willing to compromise. One step to compromise, one step to one. Giving birth to such a son with his elbow turned outward is also a failure of our parental education.