Title: Regret! The man doesn't smoke or drink, but he doesn't want to go out to work, and his wife: I feel hopeless
My name is Zhang Qiang, I am 40 years old and I was born in a remote mountain village. My wife's name is Wang Fang, and she is a hardworking rural woman. We have a sixteen-year-old son named Zhang Wei. Life in our family has always been difficult, but despite this, I never smoke or drink, which is the minimum I ask of myself.
When I was a child, my family was very poor, and my parents were ordinary farmers. They get up early and work late at night, but they are still living in poverty. I watched their hardships and made up my mind that I must live a good life when I grow up. However, due to various reasons, I did not finish my studies and entered the society early.
Wang Fang and I were introduced to each other, and she took a fancy to my honest personality and felt that I was a person worth relying on. After we got married, she was diligent and thrifty. In order to make a good life for my family, she has always persuaded me to go out to work, but I am reluctant to leave my hometown and am afraid of facing an unfamiliar environment and interpersonal relationships. I always felt that I had no education, no skills, and I couldn't find a good job when I went out.
One night, Wang Fang looked at her sleeping son and said to me: "Qiangzi, you see that your son has also grown up, and our family's life is still the same." You always say it's hard to find a job outside, but what can you do at home? We can't let our son suffer with him. ”
I lowered my head, not daring to look at her, and whispered, "I'll find a way, there will always be a way." ”
However, as the days passed, I did not find the so-called "solution". Wang Fang became more and more disappointed in me, she felt that I was hopeless. And I was full of self-blame and pain for myself.
One day, I was wandering under a tree at the head of the village and met my elementary school classmate Li Yong. He now has a small restaurant in the city, and business is booming. He looked at me, smiled and said, "Qiangzi, why are you still here?" I've heard people say that you're idle at home, why don't you come out and look for a job? ”
I smiled bitterly and said, "Yongzi, I also want to come out, but I don't know anything, what can I do when I come out?" ”
Li Yong listened and said solemnly: "Qiangzi, how can you think so? You can't learn it! I opened this little restaurant in the city, and I didn't know anything at first. However, I am willing to learn, I am willing to work, and now I am not living a good life. You have to believe in yourself, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will be able to find your own place. ”
I looked at him with doubts and hopes. Can I really? Will I really be able to find my place?
When I got home, I looked at Wang Fang's busy figure, and my heart was full of guilt and gratitude. I decided, I'm going to go out and look for a job, I'm going to make a good life for this family.
I found Li Yong, who warmly invited me to help out at his restaurant. I started a new life, and although it was hard, I felt fulfilled and happy. I studied hard, starting with the basics, and gradually, I was able to take charge on my own.
A few years have passed and my life has changed drastically. I became Li Yong's right-hand man and even saved some money. I bought a small house in the city and took Wang Fang and my son over. Our lives are getting better and better, and Wang Fang is also impressed with me.
I know I still have a lot to fall short, but at least I've taken the first step. I understand that there is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely be able to find your own position.
The story ended when I finally mustered up the courage to walk out of the house and find my place. I used my hard work and perseverance to make my family live a good life. I understand that there is no regret medicine in life, but as long as you are willing to change, you will definitely be able to find your own happiness. I hope that my story can bring some inspiration and help to those who have been confused like me, so that they can understand that happiness is actually in their own hands, and as long as they are brave enough to pursue and cherish it, they will definitely be able to find true happiness.