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Editor: Ao Ao Camellia Society
At sunrise in the early morning of May 8, a surprising news instantly shrouded the whole bright day in a haze, that is, Gao Yalin, the familiar "national father", was accused of cheating and domestic violence by his ex-girlfriend Wei Jia. Wei Jia and Gao Yalin's love and love for the past, the ups and downs in life, and the new life they have nurtured, make it a little difficult to accept this sudden change.
Interestingly, Wei Jia's pursuit is not only to recover the wounded emotion, but more to that precious Beijing hukou. Judging from the chat records she made public, the two seem to have come to an end, but it is like floating a gourd and pressing a scoop, Gao Yalin's other old love Xu Zijun unexpectedly danced in front of the public. Wei Jia and Xu Zijun were entangled in grievances, and they thought that there would be a vigorous battle between each other, but the development of things was beyond people's imagination. Xu Zijun's statement was vague and incomplete, and even led people to question her conduct.
Gao Yalin, who has always been regarded as an elder by her and can be trusted and relied on, how could he sleep with her? She said that "we used to be boyfriend and girlfriend relationships", and said "I and you are not beyond the emotional relationship of friends", what kind of relationship is this? The last sentence is even more laughable: "I accept the transfer you have shown me favor, it does not mean that I accept your "feelings", and it does not mean that there is any improper relationship between me and you." "Translated, it means that I took your money, and I shared a bed with you, but I didn't accept your feelings. This necessitates a re-examination of the relationship between them.
Someone explained for her, what she meant was that when Gao Yalin pursued her, he concealed the fact that he had a girlfriend and a child, and she accepted the transfer, but she didn't think she had become a junior. But if that's the case, why didn't she return the tens of thousands of yuan that Gao Yalin transferred to her after discovering the truth of the facts? This drama in the entertainment industry doesn't seem to have an end yet. We scrutinize each link, and in each of these links, every reversal of the plot is like a kind of magic that makes it impossible for people to break free from this dramatic situation.
The ridicule and skepticism in public opinion are difficult to contain, and it has become a rather satirical feast of words. There are countless questions about Xu Zijun, and after she claimed to have omitted her innocence, it made people feel that she was entangled in contradictions and was in a situation where she couldn't extricate herself. Interestingly, the power of Xu Zijun's remarks is that she can always see her intricate heart from her expressions. From "you and I used to be boyfriend and girlfriend" to "I don't have a detached emotional relationship with you", this change clearly marks her sense of detachment from speech, making people feel as if she is engaged in an increasingly intense one-man show.
Xu Zijun's embarrassment can be imagined. Although she went to great lengths to defend herself in her statements, her credibility was constantly undermined by sloppy statements and contradictory arguments. While she said that the money she received did not mean accepting the other party's feelings, she ignored the fact that she was Gao Yalin's lover. This makes people wonder if her innocence is as innocent as the "money" she used to show up. Some netizens analyzed more deeply, even if Xu Zijun's words are true, that is, Gao Yalin concealed the existence of him, his girlfriend and children in the process of pursuing her, then there is a problem with the "overture money" she accepted. Does the fact that she should have returned the money as soon as she learned of her status as a third party and that she did not actually do so mean that she was inclined to accept these extravagant favors?
Her actions have caused widespread public controversy, and her handwriting is simply impossible to look at. The original supporters turned to greet her, and the praise and criticism of her on the whole network poured in like a tide, and her act of hiding her emotions was even caricatured as an embarrassing plot of being alone in the world. And in this world of complicated emotions and driven by interests, everyone has become an actor in this big drama, or a director behind the scenes, and the truth is often hidden in the shadows under the spotlight, gradually blurring until it disappears. However, it is undeniable that in this protracted emotional game, the ensuing wave of discussion is also invisibly influencing the public's views and value judgments.
The public's attention to Xu Zijun's case is not based on her personal interest, but out of concern for the deeper social issue of how to grasp one's own behavior in complex interpersonal relationships and how to stay sober in the face of the reality of money and emotion. Like the twists and turns of the romance and transaction between Gao Yalin and Xu Zijun, they reflect the mixed elements of modern relationships. And the emotional threads that once entangled between this pair slowly emerge as a unique social phenomenon, that is, how to find a balance between the private sphere and the public image. Sometimes, however, equilibrium is an illusion, and its ability to protect the dignity and reputation of the individual is not as indestructible as imagined.
The public's attention is constantly wandering around the story of Gao Yalin and Xu Zijun, and it seems that they are full of curiosity and speculation about their relationship. A play has not yet ended, and the world is looking forward to the ending, but it is full of doubts and uncertainties about this ending. In real life, a similar script seems to be staged, and people are constantly choosing between emotions and reason, and have learned to consider the boundaries of personal privacy protection and emotional expression in the Internet age. In this society that is overly striving for perfection and packaging, everyone is forced to learn how to bring out the best in themselves while hiding the pieces of imperfection as much as possible.
This world of countless stories is also a reminder that everyone has the right to embrace who they really are, and not to be limited by other people's standards. Just like the relationship between Xu Zijun and Gao Yalin, perhaps their true appearance and motives are not as obvious as they seem. In the end, what the public can experience may only be the tip of the iceberg - in the depths of the complex human heart, there are always more unknown stories.
Grasping every opportunity in life, just as we pay attention to these stories of love and hatred, its deep meaning is far more than the superficial entertainment effect, but provides a window into the complex emotional entanglements and human patterns of the current society. In these intertwined stories, we may find intriguing lessons and revelations.
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