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I am Ah Zhen, an ordinary woman who lives an ordinary life, but is played by fate. My husband's name is Wang Yong, a man who seems to be gentle and elegant, but in fact he is scheming. Our marriage is not a fairy tale, but a drama full of contradictions and challenges.
From the time we met to the time we got married, there were many beautiful moments, and I thought our love would last forever. However, as time went on, I gradually discovered another side of Wang Yong's body. He was considerate of me on the surface, but he often colluded with his mother behind my back and secretly excluded me.
My mother-in-law, Wang Yong's mother, is an extremely difficult person to deal with. She lives in her own world and is very jealous of me. She thinks I'm a woman who doesn't deserve her son and always tries to stir up a wedge between us. Every time she came to the house, she always put on a high-minded and invincible posture, making things difficult for me in every way, so that I was at a loss almost every time.
And Wang Yong is a different look in front of me. He always pretends to be gentle and considerate, but I know the darkness in his heart. He seemed to enjoy the pleasure of watching me suffer, never being on my side, choosing instead to acquiesce in what his mother did.
I came to understand that I needed to fight back to change that. Although I am not a scheming woman, I have to learn to protect myself in this family in order to survive. I decided that I would no longer be at their mercy, I wanted to show my strength and let them know that I was not a soft persimmon that they could bully at will.
I began to work on plans to prepare for various provocations from my mother-in-law and husband. As a first step, I decided to improve my self-cultivation and aura, and show a more confident and strong side in front of them.
"Mom, the dish A-Zhen made today is really delicious." I smiled at my mother-in-law, trying to keep my tone as gentle as possible.
There was a hint of disdain in the mother-in-law's eyes, and she responded indifferently: "Hmph, what's so great about a meal." ”
I felt a chill in my heart, but I still tried to keep a smile so that she could not see my uneasiness. At the same time, I also began to take the initiative to look for opportunities to communicate with my husband and try to find a solution to the problem.
"Honey, can we sit down and have a good talk?" I asked softly, placing my hand gently on his arm.
He raised his head, his brows furrowed slightly, and he looked a little impatient: "What is there to talk about?" I've got something to do right now. ”
My heart sank, but I knew I couldn't give up easily. "Something went wrong with our relationship, and I felt like we needed to talk to each other," I insisted. ”
He sighed, looking a little helpless: "Okay, you say it." ”
I cleared my throat and tried to control my emotions: "I think there was some misunderstanding between us, and I hope we can be honest with each other and find a solution to the problem." ”
He was silent for a moment, then nodded slowly: "Okay, let's try." ”
While his answer wasn't entirely positive, it was at least a good start. I know that it takes time and patience to change the status quo. I am determined to keep working hard and not let myself be defeated by them.
In the days that followed, I continued to work hard to change myself, and my relationship with my mother-in-law and husband gradually improved. I learned to stay calm, not to be easily hurt by their words, and to try to find common ground with them to get to know each other.
"Mom, I went to the market today to buy some fresh seafood, and we can cook a seafood dinner in the evening." I happily said to my mother-in-law that I hope to bring us closer through food.
A look of surprise flashed in the mother-in-law's eyes, but she quickly regained her composure: "Okay, let's start when you're ready." ”
I nodded, secretly glad that at least she hadn't rejected my offer outright. So I started preparing dinner in earnest, picking out the best ingredients and cooking them into delicious dishes.
At dinner, I put the carefully prepared dishes on the table, and my mother-in-law and husband also smiled with satisfaction. We sat around and began to enjoy this sumptuous dinner.
"Ah Zhen, these dishes you make are really delicious." I was pleasantly surprised that my mother-in-law unexpectedly complimented me.
I smiled and said, "Thank you, Mom, I just want you to try the food I made." ”
The husband also joined in the praise: "Yes, Ah Zhen's cooking skills are getting better and better." ”
Hearing my husband's praise made me feel a warmth in my heart, which is the result of my efforts and a testimony to the improvement in my relationship with them.
After dinner, my husband and I sat down in the living room and started talking about some family chores. In the exchange, we gradually got to know each other, found more common topics, and better understood each other's thoughts and feelings.
"My dear, I feel as if our relationship has improved." I whispered, looking into my husband's eyes and expressing my heart's gratitude.
He smiled and patted my hand gently: "yes, I also think it's time to communicate well." ”
Hearing his answer, my heart was filled with emotion, and the distance between us seemed to be getting closer and closer. Perhaps, as long as we are willing to understand each other with our hearts, we can solve any problem.
As time went on, my relationship with my mother-in-law and husband gradually eased, but this apparent harmony did not change their perception of me. I knew that to really change their attitude towards me, I needed to stand more firmly on my ground and show my strength and charisma.
One day, I received a job offer, and it was a very rare opportunity for me. I felt joy in my heart, but at the same time I felt a little uneasy because it meant that I needed to leave my family and face life's challenges on my own.
"Honey, I received a job offer today." I told my husband the news and hoped to get his support.
He frowned, obviously embarrassed: "This job may be hard for you, and our family's expenses are not very generous. ”
I knew his concerns, but I didn't want to pass up the opportunity: "I knew there would be some difficulties in this job, but I was willing to work hard to overcome them. I believe that as long as we work together, everything will be better. ”
He was silent for a moment, then patted my hand gently: "Well, since you are so insistent, then I support you." ”
Hearing his support filled my heart with gratitude and strengthened my determination. I know that the challenges ahead will not be easy, but I am willing to take them on because I believe that as long as I work hard, everything will be better.
Leaving my family and starting a new work life made me feel a sense of freedom and independence that I had never felt before. In the new environment, I have made many like-minded friends and gained many achievements in my work. I work hard to improve myself and make myself better and more confident.
At the same time, I haven't forgotten about my family, and I often call my husband and mother-in-law to ask how they're doing. They still have some reservations about me, but I can feel that their attitude is slowly changing. I believe that as long as I keep working hard, everything will get better and better.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, months have passed. I've made some small achievements in my work, but things at home have always been on my mind. I decided to take advantage of the holidays to go home and hope to be able to communicate with my husband and mother-in-law to solve the problems between us.
When I returned home, I found that the atmosphere at home seemed to be a little tense, and my mother-in-law's face was not very good-looking. I sighed to myself, will I make everything worse when I come back?
"Ah Zhen, you're back." The mother-in-law's voice was a little cold.
I smiled slightly, "yes, I miss home." ”
My husband came over and gently hugged my shoulder: "You're back, I'm almost missing you." ”
I felt his concern, and my heart warmed a lot: "I miss you too." ”
At dinner, I offered to help with the cooking, hoping to add some warmth to the home. My mother-in-law's expression was still cold, but she didn't refuse my help. My husband and I cook together, laughing and laughing from time to time, as if the harmony of the family has returned to the home.
"Mom, you can taste this dish, Ah Zhen's cooking tastes really good." The husband smiled and handed his mother-in-law a dish.
The mother-in-law frowned, but took the dish and tasted it. Her expression softened a little, and she seemed to have some recognition of my cooking skills.
After dinner, my husband and I walked to the park in the neighborhood. Under the moonlight, we held hands and talked about the family while admiring the night.
"Honey, I think it's working well this time back." I whispered.
My husband held my hand tightly: "yes, I feel like our relationship has improved. ”
We stopped and stood quietly on the grass in the park, looking at the starry sky with anticipation and hope for the future. Perhaps, the conflicts between families are not terrible, as long as we communicate with our hearts and tolerate with love, everything will be better.
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