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At the age of 41, it stands to reason that you are also pessimistic about marriage. In life, some people are suitable for families, some people are suitable for single, you have to ask your heart, since you can go so far, it proves that you have made the final choice deep in your heart. Life doesn't have to be married to be truly happy, if you get married and your marriage is unhappy, it is also very painful! Let's take a look at the comments, shares, and suggestions of netizens, and maybe you will suddenly realize!
Enjoy life at the age of 41, don't worry about things like being single, go out to travel and enjoy food, life is a process of living, sooner or later you will leave this world, marriage is a life choice, not getting married is also, happiness and freedom are the essence of life. I wish you happiness.
To tell the truth, it's just that it doesn't attract people's attention. [Like]
What's wrong with 41?? I think the biggest thinking inertia of Chinese people is that they like to frame the scope and do what they think they should do within the range, do you think that 41 life is almost over halfway through it, so there is no need to toss anymore? In fact, 41 is not a matter at all, she can have many choices in life, and life is about tossing.
Don't be too rigid, there are still people who pursue love at the age of 80, 40 years old is only half over, why should she be lonely for half a lifetime, her parents will accompany her to 60 years old at most, and the rest of the days are lonely.
Isn't it fragrant to live alone? Leave your parents alone? Run to take care of the old man, and your stepchildren inherit your property, can't you spend it yourself?
Most of the leftover women who can persist until the age of 41 and not get married have already seen through the red dust.
The most amazing thing for me is not that she is 41 years old, but that she is 41 years old, and her parents will be sick in a hurry? I thought that after the age of 35, the parents of the older leftover girl should be completely rotten and give up her idea of getting married [covering her face]
You have also forgotten the characteristics of the Chinese, gossip [cover your face]
The advice is too pertinent.
I feel the same way, I am 38 years old married and 39 years old to have children, sometimes calm down and think that without the help of parents, you can't both go to work and take care of children, this is to honor your parents or trouble them, so it's not that children sometimes feel that it's really good to live alone, and you don't have to accommodate others to do it rashly, so there is no winner in life and it's best to live peacefully.
This is the mentality of many older leftover women, a little bit of a Q spirit, and it is human nature to find a lot of reasonable reasons for what they do. Whether the marriage is good or not, time will be witnessed.
Objectively speaking, you don't have to be so angry, just because you are still relatively young, you are angry because someone is urging you, if you are in this state for a few years, when your parents are a hundred years later, after the cause of your original family is destroyed, you will feel extremely lonely, you will feel deeply empty, and then you will probably doubt your life for a long time.
Marriage is one of the most important experiences in life, and you keep talking about what it can bring you, I think this is typical just want to get and don't want to give, too selfish! You're right not to get married at the moment, don't harm others [Like]
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