Marriage, for us ordinary people, it is a lifelong event. When the two walked into the cave house of red and white ceremonies, what they hoped for was to be able to trust each other, respect each other, and work together to build a happy and happy home.
It's a pity that there are so many poems and distances in real life. Not long ago, a housework in Wenzhou, Zhejiang Province brought the problem of hiding private money in marriage to the forefront again.
1. Winning the jackpot but hiding it from his wife, where is this like a word?
"Wife, let me tell you a great joy, we won the grand prize of 10 million!"
But this old guy didn't say that, but hid this great news from his daughter-in-law, and quietly stuffed 2 million of the bonus to his own sister, and paid more than 700,000 yuan to his ex-wife to buy a house.
By the time the wife knew the truth, the relationship between the two had long been tense, and finally the divorce lawsuit went to court because of this matter. looked at the usual housework, but exposed the crisis of trust in the current marriage. As a straightforward old media person, I just feel a fire in my stomach when I look at this!
The act of hiding private money in marriage is not only a betrayal and injury to the other half, but also a complete negation of the entire marital relationship. It undermines the most basic trust between husband and wife and sows the root of the breakdown of marriages.
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Hiding money is a desecration of the promise of marriage
Article 3 of our country's "Marriage Law" clearly stipulates: "Husband and wife have equal status in marriage and family."
The essence of marriage is that two people promise to bind each other's lives, property, and future destiny tightly together in a sacred vow. Husbands and wives should respect each other, trust each other, and love each other wholeheartedly.
However, once one party starts to hide private money, especially like this one, and hides such a large amount of lottery winnings from the other half, isn't that the original intention of marriage has been abandoned? They put their own interests above their marriage and don't take the feelings of their other half to heart at all. This practice is clearly a desecration and betrayal of the promise of marriage!
Hiding money exposes the fragility of contemporary marriages
From this case, we can see that even couples who have been in love with each other for many years will still hide their private money when they are suddenly faced with the temptation of huge wealth. This reflects the fragility of contemporary marital relationships.
On the one hand, the allure of material wealth is too great for people to begin to waver in their fidelity to marriage; On the other hand, there is a lack of good marriage education and family concepts in society, and people do not have enough understanding of the sanctity of marriage, and regard it as a relationship rather than a lifelong commitment.
Therefore, this case is like a wake-up call, reminding us that we must pay attention to marriage education, enhance the sense of responsibility of both husband and wife for marriage, adhere to the essence of marriage, and don't be blinded by monetary interests.
Hiding money from private houses exposes the serious problem of lack of social integrity
According to the 2022 China Family Wealth Report, property disputes in marriage have been on the rise in recent years.
Honesty is the cornerstone of social development. But in this case, the old man's behavior has exposed the serious problem of the lack of integrity in the current society. Not only did he conceal the truth, but he also secretly transferred his property to others, seriously undermining the trust foundation of the marriage.
If there is a lack of basic integrity between even the most intimate couples, how can trusting relationships in other areas of society be maintained? Lack of integrity will inevitably lead to the breakdown of interpersonal relationships and the chaos of social order. Therefore, we must pay attention to this case, rebuild social integrity, and maintain the harmony of marriage and family.
Hiding money from private houses exacerbates family conflicts and harm
In this case, the old guy not only concealed a huge bonus, but also transferred part of the bonus to his sister and ex-wife. This kind of behavior has undoubtedly exacerbated family conflicts and brought huge mental trauma and economic losses to the wife and children.
The harmony of a family depends to a large extent on whether the husband and wife treat each other sincerely and respect each other. As soon as there is concealment and deception, it can seriously undermine the harmony of the family. Worse still, the damage often carries over to the next generation, negatively impacting the development of children.
Therefore, we must take this as a warning, cherish the marriage and family in front of us, maintain family affection with integrity and love, and don't let concealment and deception eat away everything. Only in this way can we truly build a harmonious and happy family relationship.
Hiding money reflects the utilitarian tendencies of contemporary people
It has to be said that this case also reflects the utilitarian tendencies of some people in contemporary society. For the old fellow, he may have been selfish and wanted to dispose of the prize money alone and satisfy his own desires. As for my sister and ex-wife, they may also have taken the initiative to accept this non-share of wealth out of interest considerations.
This utilitarian value is very worthy of our reflection. Money is important, but it should never take precedence over affection, friendship, and marriage. The blind pursuit of material interests while ignoring the noble qualities of human nature will only lead to estrangement and contradictions between people.
We should advocate noble spiritual pursuits and unite relationships between people with love and integrity. Only in this way can society be harmonious and orderly, and everyone's life can attain true happiness and meaning.
epilogue
Overall, this family dispute case is a reminder that the core of marriage is mutual respect and trust. Once there is concealment and deception, it will seriously undermine the foundation of the marriage and bring family conflicts and harm.
As the public, we have the responsibility to disseminate the correct concept of marriage and family, and call for attaching importance to marriage education and enhancing the awareness of integrity. Only by maintaining family affection with love and understanding, and resolving contradictions with tolerance and tolerance, can our family be truly harmonious and happy, and can society be harmonious and stable.
Let's work together to build a beautiful marriage and family relationship.
Resources:
Article 3 of the Marriage Act
China Family Wealth Report 2022
News report on family dispute cases in Wenzhou, Zhejiang