Are those second-married couples happy?
In this busy city, everyone has their own story. And Wang Ting and I are one of the many second-married couples. Our marriage, like a unique scenery in this city, has both ups and downs and happiness, which makes people feel both emotional and curious.
I remember that it was a summer evening, and Wang Ting and I met by chance on a park bench. At that time, we had both just ended a failed marriage, and our hearts were full of confusion and loss. However, when we look at each other, it is as if there is an inexplicable force that binds us together. We started chatting, sharing each other's experiences and feelings, as if we had found a long-lost soulmate.
As time went on, the relationship between us gradually warmed up. We started dating, watching movies, having dinner together, and enjoying the sweetness of love. However, when we decided to enter the palace of marriage, the voices around us began to get complicated. Some people say that second-married couples are difficult to be happy, and some people say that we just look for comfort in each other. These voices made us feel pressured, but we still firmly chose each other.
Our wedding is simple and warm, with no luxurious venues and expensive dresses, only the blessings of friends and family and sincere wishes. At that moment, we felt happiness and satisfaction like never before. However, life after marriage is not as smooth as we think. We need to face the shadow from the previous marriage, the expectations of both families, and the run-in problems between each other.
Once, Wang Ting and I had an argument over a trivial matter. We are all stubbornly sticking to our views and refusing to budge. At that moment, it was as if we were back in our previous marriages, and we were exhausted by the endless quarrels and cold wars. However, after calming down, we realized that going on like this would only lead to further distancing from each other. So, we decided to sit down and communicate well and be honest about our thoughts and feelings.
We benefited a lot from that communication. We learn to listen and understand each other, and we learn to remain calm and rational in the midst of arguments. We began to cherish our feelings for each other more and strive to make this marriage better. We travel, go to the movies, go to friends' gatherings, and enjoy each other's company and love. We also play our respective roles in the family and share the responsibilities and obligations of the family.
In the process, we have gradually gained the understanding and support of the people around us. They saw our efforts and dedication, as well as the happiness and sweetness between us. They began to change their prejudices and misconceptions about second-married couples, and began to believe that as long as we truly love and support each other, we will be able to create our own happiness.
Now, we have been married for a few years. We will still face challenges and difficulties, but we are no longer afraid and retreating. Because we know that as long as we hold hands and connect hearts, we will be able to overcome difficulties and welcome a better future.
Looking back on the past days, I am deeply fortunate to have met Wang Ting, a person who understands, loves and supports me. Although our marriage has gone through many twists and turns, it is these experiences that make us cherish each other's feelings and happiness even more. I believe that as long as we keep persevere, our marriage will become better and happier.
And those second-married couples who are still hesitant and confused, I want to tell you: don't be afraid of failures and setbacks, and don't give up the pursuit and desire for happiness. As long as you truly love each other, support each other, and work together, you will be able to create your own happiness and beauty. Because there is no greater and more magical power in this world than love!
The sweetness and challenges of second marriage: our happy story
The first paragraph: the spark of reunion and the warmth of first acquaintance
In the journey of life, we sometimes meet someone unexpectedly, at that moment, as if time stands still, all the experiences become the background, leaving only the person in front of us and the sudden heartbeat. Xiaohui and I are such a couple.
My encounter with Xiaohui was on an ordinary weekend afternoon. At the time, I was wandering the bookstore alone, looking for a book that would soothe my wounded heart. Xiaohui, on the other hand, happened to be sitting in the café not far away, holding a book on psychology in her hand, looking focused. I was fascinated by her temperament, so I mustered up the courage to strike up a conversation.
We talked very speculatively, from books to life, from the past to the future, as if there was endless things to say. During the conversation, I learned that Zhihui had also experienced a failed marriage, but she did not give up the pursuit of love, but knew how to cherish and be grateful more. I was touched by her strength and optimism, and I couldn't help but feel a warm current in my heart.
From that day on, we began to date frequently, watching movies, shopping, eating, and enjoying each other's company. Our relationship heated up quickly, as if we had returned to the time of our first love. However, when we decided to enter the palace of marriage, we were questioned and opposed by those around us. They thought it would be difficult for them to be happy as a second marriage, but we firmly chose each other.
Our wedding is simple and warm, with no extravagant pomp and expensive dresses, only the blessings and sincere wishes of family and friends. In that moment, we felt happiness and satisfaction like never before. However, life after marriage is not as smooth as we imagined.
The second stage: the challenge and growth of the run-in period
Soon after we got married, we began to face various challenges. The first is the difference in living habits. I like to go to bed early and wake up early, while Xiaohui likes to go to bed late and wake up late; I like to eat light food, while Xiaohui prefers heavy flavors. These seemingly trivial things often cause us to quarrel and contradict.
In addition to differences in living habits, we also need to face the shadows left by each other's exes. Xiaohui's ex-husband had caused her deep hurt and made her fearful and uneasy about her marriage. I, on the other hand, was hurt in my last marriage and became cautious about my feelings. These experiences make us more sensitive and vulnerable in our relationships.
However, we did not choose to run away or give up. Instead, we chose to confront and solve the problem. We begin to learn to listen and understand each other's needs and feelings, and try to put ourselves in each other's shoes. Together, we have gradually overcome these challenges and difficulties.
In the process, we also began to realize the strengths and weaknesses of each other. I began to appreciate Xiaohui's kindness and thoughtfulness more, and she also appreciated my sense of responsibility and responsibility. We encourage and support each other to grow and progress together.
The third paragraph: the secret of happiness and the prospect of the future
After experiencing the challenges and growth during the run-in period, we cherish each other's feelings and happiness even more. We learned how to be independent and autonomous in marriage, and how to support and love each other when we needed it. We have also learned how to remain calm and rational in the midst of quarrels and conflicts, and how to resolve conflicts and differences with love and tolerance.
Our married life is getting sweeter and more harmonious. We travel, go to the movies, go to friends' gatherings, and enjoy each other's company and love. We also plan for the future together and work hard to achieve our dreams together.
In the process, we have gradually gained the recognition and support of the people around us. They saw our efforts and dedication, as well as the happiness and sweetness between us. They began to change their prejudices and misconceptions about second-married couples, and began to believe that as long as we truly love and support each other, we will be able to create our own happiness.
Looking back on the past days, we are very fortunate to have met such a person who understands me, loves me, and supports me. Although our marriage has gone through many twists and turns, it is these experiences that make us cherish each other's feelings and happiness even more. We firmly believe that as long as we keep persevering, our marriage will become better and happier.
Finally, I would like to say to those second-married couples who are still hesitant and confused: don't be afraid of failures and setbacks, and don't give up the pursuit and desire for happiness. As long as you truly love each other, support each other, and work together, you will be able to create your own happiness and beauty. Because there is no greater and more magical power in this world than love!
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