As the night darkens, the street lights flicker in the drizzle, reflecting the loneliness and confusion of the city. On such a night, Zhao Ming's heart was also full of confusion and struggle.
Zhao Ming has a happy family, a virtuous wife and lovely children, and life seems perfect. However, by chance, he meets Lin Ya, an elegant and mysterious woman. Lin Ya's appearance was like a clear stream, stirring Zhao Ming's originally calm heart.
The first time we met, it was in the evening after a rainy day. Zhao Ming was sheltering from the rain in a café on the corner of the street, and happened to meet Lin Ya, who was also sheltering from the rain. The eyes of the two met, as if there was an inexplicable tacit understanding. As the conversation deepened, they found that they shared many common interests and hobbies, as if they had found a soulmate.
During that time, Zhao Ming and Lin Ya met frequently, watching movies, visiting bookstores, and tasting food together. Their relationship grew closer and closer, and even began to develop special feelings. Zhao Ming knew that it was not right to do this, he had his own family and responsibilities, but he couldn't resist Lin Ya's attraction.
In the dead of night, Zhao Ming would lie in bed and reflect on his actions. He asked himself: Is his affection for Lin Ya sincere? Or is it just a whim-of-the-moment impulse and a novelty? This question has been bothering him and keeping him awake at night.
At the same time, Zhao Ming's wife also noticed the change in him. She found that her husband was often absent-minded and cared less about her. She began to wonder if her husband was having an affair, but she didn't dare to ask directly. This suspicion and uneasiness made the otherwise harmonious family atmosphere tense.
Finally one day, Zhao Ming's wife couldn't help but have a showdown with him. Faced with his wife's questioning, Zhao Ming couldn't deny his relationship with Lin Ya. He felt deep guilt and self-blame, but he also realized how much damage his actions had caused to his family.
At this moment, Zhao Ming finally understood that his feelings for Lin Ya were not sincere. It's just a novelty and excitement, an escape from the mundane life. The people he really loves are his wife and children, and they are the most important people in his life.
In order to save the happiness of the family, Zhao Ming decided to cut off relations with Lin Ya and return to the family. He confessed his mistake to his wife and promised not to make the same mistake again in the future. Although the wife was heartbroken, she saw her husband's sincerity and determination, and finally chose to forgive.
Zhao Ming rejoined his family and tried to make up for his mistakes. He began to care more about his wife and children, and ran the family with heart. As time passed, the family atmosphere gradually returned to the harmony and happiness it once had.
And Lin Ya was also hurt in this relationship. She originally thought that she had found true love, but she didn't expect it to be just an episode in Zhao Ming's life. She chose to leave the city and start a new life.
In this story, we see a man who is lost and struggling in an extramarital affair. He used to have feelings for women outside of marriage, but eventually he understood the importance of family and returned to the embrace of family. This story also reminds us to cherish the people in front of us, and not to hurt the people who love us the most for the sake of impulsiveness and novelty.
As for the question of whether a man's feelings for a woman outside of marriage are sincere, the answer may vary from person to person. But in this story, we see a man who finds his true heart in the midst of confusion - that is, family and responsibility. This sincerity may not be vigorous, but it is the most precious treasure in life.