Marriage, like a well-painted picture, needs to be carefully cared for by both husband and wife. And in this picture, women are sometimes "lazy", but they can make men care more about you. This kind of "laziness" is not real laziness, but a kind of wisdom, a strategy, and an art of overcoming rigidity with softness.
1. "Lazy" to argue and save face for men
In married life, there will inevitably be disagreements and quarrels between husband and wife. However, a wise woman understands that being "lazy" in an argument is not to run away from problems, but to retreat. They don't blindly argue with men, but choose to be silent at the right time to save face for men. Such a woman makes men more grateful for their tolerance and understanding after calming down. And this gratitude will translate into more care and cherishment for women.
Lin Yue and her husband Li Hao are a loving couple. However, no matter how loving a couple is, there will be times when they quarrel. Whenever they had an argument over trivial matters, Lin Yue always chose to be "lazy" to argue. She would quietly listen to Li Hao vent her emotions, and then say softly: "Let's calm down and talk about this topic later, okay?" Her way of dealing with it made Li Hao always calm down and reflect on his behavior after being angry. Over time, he cherished this marriage more and cared more about Lin Yue's feelings.
2. "Lazy" to work hard and cultivate a man's sense of responsibility
In marriage, women often play the role of taking care of the household and children. However, overwork does not necessarily earn a man gratitude. On the contrary, being "lazy" and involving men in household chores can develop a sense of responsibility. When men experience the tediousness and hardship of housework, they will appreciate the woman's contribution more and care more about the marriage.
Chen Ting is a typical good wife and mother. She is so busy with housework and children's education that she has little time to take care of herself. However, her husband Zhang Wei is accustomed to this, and sometimes even turns a blind eye to Chen Ting's efforts. Later, Chen Ting learned to be "lazy" and hardworking. She began to invite Zhang Wei to participate in housework and take care of the children together. Gradually, Zhang Wei realized the hard work of housework and the difficulty of taking care of children. He began to cherish Chen Ting's dedication more and cared more about this marriage.
3. Be "lazy" and entangled, and maintain your independence
In marriage, women sometimes become too entangled in the man's words and deeds, and even lose herself in order to cater to the man. However, women who are "lazy" and entangled can remain independent, they have their own lives and interests, and they do not rely too much on men. Such a woman is more likely to attract a man's eye and make them care more about you.
Liu Yun is a woman who loves life. She enjoys drawing, reading, and traveling. Even after getting married, she continued to maintain these interests. Her husband, Zhao Yang, admires her independence and self-esteem and never interferes in her life. Whenever Liu Yun was immersed in her interests, Zhao Yang would always silently support her on the side. This marital relationship of mutual respect and support allows them to cherish each other even more.
Fourth, "lazy" is calculating, and tolerance is exchanged for happiness
In marriage, thinking too much will only lead to endless quarrels and contradictions. And a woman who is "lazy" and calculating can exchange tolerance for happiness. They know how to tolerate men's small shortcomings and shortcomings, and resolve conflicts with love and understanding. Such a woman makes the man feel the warmth and tranquility of home, so that he cares more about the marriage.
Wang Li and her husband Chen Gang are a happy couple. Wang Li always faces Chen Gang's small shortcomings and deficiencies with a tolerant attitude. Whenever Chen Gang lost his temper due to work pressure, Wang Li always patiently comforted him and encouraged him. Her tolerance and understanding made Chen Gang feel the warmth and support of home. Therefore, he cherishes this marriage more and cares more about Wang Li's feelings.
In short, "lazy" is not really laziness or evading responsibility, but a kind of wisdom, a strategy, and an art. A woman who is "lazy" to argue, work, struggle and calculating can often make a man care more about you and cherish the marriage. Therefore, learn to be "lazy" in marriage! Let the man care more about you, and make this marriage more happy and happy!