In my lifetime, I am happy to meet you, please click "Follow", thank you for your support.
Ni Hongjie, who is 45 years old, recalls her tortuous and uncertain acting career with a calm and emotional mood. Her career path is like a thrilling adventure, with ups and downs and eye-catching.
In her youth, she rose to fame overnight with a lingerie advertisement, transforming from an unknown college student to a hot female star, and played the leading role in the TV series "Wulin Gaiden", which was popular all over the country at the time.
However, who would have predicted that this budding star would suffer a career trough in the years that followed.
The controversial underwear advertisement was like a heavy hammer, hitting the young Ni Hongjie's heart deeply, and became an indelible wound in her heart.
Since then, she has been unable to fully release herself and show her truest side for a long time.
She was always careful not to attract unnecessary suspicion and criticism again.
In fact, Ni Hongjie had no intention of stepping into the entertainment industry at first. It all started by chance, and she was spotted by an advertising director and got a job as an extra.
Who would have imagined that this naturally beautiful and charming woman would become popular so quickly, from an unknown newcomer to a high-profile popular actress!
However, just when her career was in full swing, Ni Hongjie made a puzzling decision - she took the initiative to give up the peak of her career and chose to leave quietly. There has been a lot of discussion about this decision, but Ni Hongjie has her own reasons.
She knew that her unique personality was not suitable for the bustling and hustle and bustle of the entertainment industry, so she resolutely turned to Yunnan and devoted herself to the operation of the inn business.
Since then, Ni Hongjie has entered the palace of marriage. However, fate does not seem to be kind to her, and life after marriage is full of ups and downs. In order to fully support her husband's career, she did not hesitate to give everything she had.
However, in the end, her husband's career still ended in failure, and Ni Hongjie once fell into an extremely difficult situation.
Throughout Ni Hongjie's ups and downs in life, her innermost pursuit has always revolved around two themes: moving forward bravely and being true to herself; Work hard to become an independent and strong woman.
As a young woman, her confusion and ignorance led her astray to shoot the controversial lingerie advertisement. However, she was never bound by the shadow of the past, but regained her strength with great courage, proved her strength with practical actions, and finally succeeded in achieving a counterattack in her career.
From beginning to end, Ni Hongjie's continuous image makes us deeply feel that the most valuable value of being a woman is reflected in her independent personality and independent thinking, rather than just being parasitic on the framework of others as an appendage.
It is this incomparably strong spirit of independence and autonomy that enables her to bear the weight of life on her head, and still hold her head high and meet the challenges given by fate fearlessly!
After many twists and turns, in the face of a broken marriage, she did not hesitate to choose divorce and bravely took on the responsibility of raising her children; Faced with the entanglement of family debts, she resolutely returned to the workplace and devoted herself wholeheartedly to the development of her career; When her career encountered a low ebb, she never lost confidence, but interpreted every role with her heart and sincerely.
All of this comes from Ni Hongjie's unique and profound understanding of life. She never complains about the unfairness of fate, and she never has any malicious speculation and hatred towards others. She always looks at herself, listens to her inner voice, and is brave enough to be her true self.
It is because of this that she can live a wonderful and energetic life, whether in good times or bad. In the face of adversity, she can always use a positive and optimistic attitude to move forward firmly until she gets out of the trough of life.
The profession of an actor requires them to show a variety of different aspects of life at all times. However, no matter what role she plays, Ni Hongjie has always maintained herself and never lost her way.
Her eyes are always so firm and persistent, with an unruly temperament, and at the same time gentle and elegant.
It is this unique personality charm that makes her shine in the face of adversity, and there is endless strength in gentleness. Ni Hongjie, who has entered middle age, is divorced and has a son.
Now, she is immersed in the sweetness of love, and her face is often filled with a happy smile.
When asked about this new relationship, Ni Hongjie couldn't hide the joy in her heart. It turned out that she and her current boyfriend formed an indissoluble bond because of their shared love for cats. At that time, the two worked in the same crew, and their love for cats impressed each other, so the spark of love naturally ignited.
Ni Hongjie admitted frankly that although her boyfriend's financial situation is not rich, he is willing to give everything he has for himself, even at the expense of spending more than half of his personal property. This selfless dedication touched her deeply, far more than those who had millions of fortunes but were stingy with her.
What's more, Ni Hongjie and Wang Jianwen have a very high degree of tacit understanding in terms of values, tastes and preferences, and life concepts, and the two can have in-depth exchanges and trust each other.
Such a complementary relationship allowed Ni Hongjie to regain her former vitality and self-confidence, gradually step out of the shadow of the past in the forced healing period, bravely show her true self, and enjoy a free and easy life.
However, the arrival of this relationship also made Ni Hongjie feel the pain of her previous marriage again. She had longed to marry a man who was a little older than herself, hoping that this marriage would bring her happiness and peace.
However, fate played a cruel joke on her, and her married life was full of twists and turns.
In order to go all out to support her husband's career, Ni Hongjie did not hesitate to give everything she had, and even reluctantly gave up the property left to her by her mother to sell. However, the final outcome is that the husband's career suffers a major setback, the family conflict is increasingly intensified, and the marriage is in jeopardy.
At this life-and-death moment, a son was born. Ni Hongjie has a glimmer of hope in her heart, maybe with a child, the relationship between husband and wife can be eased. However, the truth is not as she hoped, and the children did not save the marriage from collapse, but only exacerbated the problem.
After countless struggles and disputes, Ni Hongjie finally made up her mind to part ways with her ex-husband. It was a painful decision, but she firmly believed it was the only way to defend her dignity.
After the divorce, the relationship between Ni Hongjie and her son once fell to a freezing point. When she recalled those unbearable years, her eyes showed deep sadness. For a while, the son didn't even want to call her "Mommy" anymore.
As a mother, this is undoubtedly the most painful wound in her heart. Thankfully, time will heal all the wounds, and now the mother-son relationship has been repaired.
After the divorce, Ni Hongjie was supposed to embark on a new and beautiful life journey, but suffered a heavy blow: she was involved in a huge debt of tens of millions of yuan. It was like an unbearable mountain for her, weighing her out of breath and making it difficult for her to move on.
The bank mercilessly froze her accounts, real estate, vehicles, and even put her name on a blacklist of dishonest people. Faced with these cold numbers, Ni Hongjie's heart was full of despair.
In order to pay off her huge debts, she had to make a painful decision - temporarily entrust her young son to her ex-husband, who she has not been in touch with for a long time, and then devote herself to her acting career.
However, the years have passed inexorably, and she has missed the best age to become an actress, and as she sees the girls younger than herself emerge one by one, she can only receive the roles of a few inconsequential supporting roles or mother roles.
In those difficult days, Ni Hongjie even had to play the mother of actor Lu Fangsheng, who was the same age as herself, in the play. Just imagine, the former first-line actress has now fallen into the situation of playing someone else's mother, this huge psychological gap undoubtedly makes her heart tormented.
However, when I think back to this past, guilt and self-blame come flooding over my heart. Ni Hongjie deeply understands that the choices she made in the past cannot be changed, and the only thing she can do is to bravely face the reality and overcome the difficulties she is facing with courage and wisdom.
So, in the next ten years, Ni Hongjie went all out and gave everything she had. Although she often plays some insignificant small roles, she always interprets each role with the most sincere attitude.
Finally, in 2020, her hard work began to pay off. First of all, because of her wonderful performance in the hit drama "Skyscraper", she successfully portrayed the role of Zhong Jie and was nominated for Best Supporting Actress in China's Top 100 TV Dramas at the 29th Huading Awards; Then, in the popular variety show "Actors Please Be in Place Season 2", she won the warm attention and love of the audience with her superb acting skills and touching life story.
Since then, Ni Hongjie's acting career has gradually shown an upward trend. The audience often only saw Ni Hongjie's radiant side and appreciated her elegant and charming demeanor on the screen.
However, what few people know is that she has experienced countless ups and downs and tribulations behind her.
When she was young, Ni Hongjie fell into the whirlpool of public opinion because of an underwear advertisement. As soon as the advertisement was broadcast, it immediately attracted widespread attention across the country, and it was supposed to be something worth celebrating, but it was the beginning of a nightmare for Ni Hongjie.
Relatives and friends have talked about her, seeing her as "everyone's best girl", and even her family members feel that her behavior is "too bold".
This incident was like a brand deep in Ni Hongjie's heart, bringing her indelible damage, making her unable to reveal her true self for a long time.
In the face of all kinds of high pressure and doubts in society, she chose to bear it silently and avoid causing a storm of misunderstandings and gossip again as much as possible.
The fantasy and worldly prosperity displayed in the entertainment industry are very different from Ni Hongjie's nature. She is kind and simple by nature, and has always avoided pretense and falsehood.
Because of this, when her career was in full swing, she chose to quit without hesitation, and instead devoted herself to Yunnan and founded a unique inn.
However, the road of life is not all smooth sailing, and more setbacks and tribulations await her. In order to fully support her husband's career, she did not hesitate to give everything she had; In order to save her marriage from breaking down, she bravely gave birth to children; In order to pay off millions of debts, she had to step back into the workforce and temporarily entrust her beloved son to someone else.
During that time, Ni Hongjie was like a small boat drifting in the vast ocean of life, going through ups and downs.
However, she has always been steadfast in putting these negativity behind her. Ni Hongjie knows that her past decisions cannot be changed, and the only thing she can do is to face the reality and overcome the difficulties in front of her with courage and wisdom.
There are no assumptions in life, only results and endless struggles. After unremitting efforts, Ni Hongjie finally ushered in fruitful results. She has won the attention and love of the audience with her superb acting skills and touching experiences, her career is on the right track again, and her life is full of vitality.