Hello everyone, I have been feeling more and more emotionally recently, and I have slowly understood a lot of truths while I am alive. Especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, after so many years of ups and downs in the world, I have gradually realized that whether it is with relatives, friends, colleagues or strangers, as long as you remember the following 4 sentences, you can resolve many troubles and frictions in life.
The first sentence is: learn to forgive others.
No one in the world is perfect, and everyone will make some small mistakes. If we dwell on the slightest mistake of others, it will only bring endless troubles to our own lives and become a stumbling block that restricts our own progress.
For example, when we deal with the relationship between relatives, if we are obsessed with some small mistakes of our parents, it is easy to have estrangement and misunderstanding. Obviously they have good intentions, but you want to compare your heart to your heart and think that they are neglecting. This will hurt the harmony and make them feel indebted.
When we deal with colleague relationships, if we are obsessed with the momentary negligence of our colleagues, the atmosphere of cooperation in the team will also be destroyed. Everyone will be afraid of messing with the wrong person, and work carefully, which will naturally be inefficient.
So we need to learn to be magnanimous and be more tolerant of the small faults of others. No one is perfect from the beginning, and they all need to be slowly tempered in the experience of life. As long as the other party does not mean to hurt, we should be considerate and forgiving. In addition, you should also humbly examine whether there is any fault that has caused the other party to be unhappy. If you resolve differences with tolerance and kindness, you will have a smoother path in life.
The second sentence is: learn to appreciate others.
We live in a world full of amateurs, and everyone has their own strengths and shining points. If we rest on our laurels and only recognize the flaws and inadequacies of others, we are short-sighted.
For example, when we get along with our loved ones, it is easy to find fault with some of their shortcomings and shortcomings, and ignore the good in them. In fact, the love of your relatives for you is selfless and unconditional, which is worthy of your appreciation.
When we get along with our friends, we should look beyond the unique talents and brilliance of our friends. Each one is a masterpiece of nature, with their own different charms and endowments. You have to learn to use a clear eye to discover the valuable qualities in your friends, so that you can appreciate and affirm them. Friendships are built to last and last.
When dealing with strangers, we should also be open and tolerant and look at each other with an appreciative eye. The world has become rich and colorful because of different people and different cultures. Only with an appreciative eye can you discover that life is full of surprises.
Therefore, no matter who we get along with, we should learn to take the initiative to discover the valuable and gratifying qualities in the other person, rather than blindly finding faults. Appreciating and affirming others will naturally make your life more beautiful and positive.
The third sentence is: learn to be grateful to others.
When people get along with each other, there is nothing that warms each other more than being grateful. Because gratitude can dissolve suspicion and mustard between people, change the atmosphere, and enhance feelings.
For example, when we get along with our loved ones, we should always have a grateful heart. Loved ones have given too much to get to where we are today. We should know how to be grateful for the nurturing grace of our parents and the love of our relatives at all times. With a grateful heart, the family will be warmer and more happy.
When we get along with our friends, we also need to be grateful for their friendship and help. Friends can lend a helping hand when you are most helpless and show you the way when you are most lost. With this friendship, we will not be so lonely and lonely on the road of life.
We should also be grateful to strangers and people from all walks of life. Because everyone has given us some help and guidance at different times. Only with a good attitude and knowing how to be grateful and give back, the sunshine of life will become warmer and brighter.
Therefore, no matter who you get along with, you must always have a grateful heart and know how to thank and cherish the people in front of you. With gratitude, people will be able to tolerate each other, see each other's ups and downs, and the relationship will become stronger and more beautiful.
The fourth sentence is: learn to be tolerant of others.
As I live to this age, I have come to realize that tolerance is a kind of wisdom and a profound attitude towards life. We should be more tolerant and tolerant of everyone around us, and less prejudiced and paranoid.
When we get along with our loved ones, we need to learn to respect and tolerate each other's independent personality. Everyone's personality is different, and they also have their own pursuits and outlook on life. We should not demand that our loved ones live according to their own ideas and ways, but we should have a broad mind to tolerate them.
When we get along with our friends, we need to be more tolerant. No two people are exactly the same, and everyone has some flaws and strange habits. We can't criticize and exclusive just because we make a big fuss. You may not be used to the other party's approach, but this is where the diversity of human nature lies. Only by being tolerant can you and I get along happily.
We also need to be tolerant when dealing with strangers. Because everyone grew up in a different environment, their concepts and ways of doing things are also different. We should not stick to our own opinions, but should know and understand with a more inclusive and open attitude. With a tolerant mind, the world will not seem so narrow and out of place.
So no matter who we get along with, we should always be tolerant.