Rushing too quickly can bring unnecessary anxiety, and standing still can hold people back. Only the right steps can make a person's life more fulfilling.
For men, such a life arrangement is optimal from the beginning, but real life often hinders this. Unfortunately, there are still many men who are not aware of this.
Many men, in their youth, or in their desire for pleasure, choose comfort and indulgence, which ultimately leads to nothing. This is not uncommon.
Destiny is in your own hands, and the old adage still applies. It should be borne in mind that those fickle and uncertain men are difficult to make a difference, and it is recommended that everyone take precautions and avoid the frequent replacement of these three things.
often changes women, but refuses to start a family
As the saying goes, a man needs to start a family before starting a business. But in real life, some men turn it upside down and prefer to live by starting a business first and starting a family later.
On the one hand, some people, in order to hide their weakness, will blame all the faults on women, and trumpet the prejudice that women like the rich and hate the poor.
On the other hand, out of his own heart, he always changes his female partner, but he does not plan to get married. He said that he was not yet able to give the woman the life she wanted, thus beautifying his behavior.
Ma Ge (not his real name) is an unsuccessful man who is over 40 years old and still lives a life of idleness.
According to people close to him, since the age of 18, he has brought countless women home, but none of them have ever reached the stage of discussing marriage.
At the beginning, when the son had such a good relationship with the opposite sex, the parents thought that it was due to the son's personal charm, so they were not worried that the son would not be able to marry a daughter-in-law in the future.
My parents treated the people they brought home very carefully, and they wanted them to come to get married.
As the son changes girlfriends faster and faster, the parents gradually become insensitive.
They were tired of their blame-shifting rhetoric, because every time their son blamed the woman for the problem. Such a statement can no longer gain their trust and approval.
Women should understand that such men lack a sense of responsibility and are extremely selfish. No woman would want to marry him, and that's a matter of course.
Change jobs often and only look at immediate benefits
In addition to playing with emotions and profligateness, Ma Ge's attitude towards work did not show the professionalism and seriousness he expected.
After all, he is not slower than women in changing jobs. This is because he has to maintain an advantage in his work and cannot afford to lose a little.
As long as his work does not make him happy, he will not hesitate to quit, but he has never thought about the importance of work.
In the last few decades, although Marco has done many different jobs, the longest has not lasted more than a year.
Because of this, more and more companies do not want to give him the opportunity to hire, and everyone knows that he is an irresponsible and selfish person.
Of course, if you think that you can live a leisurely life without a stable job, you are sad.
You must know that behind all the quiet years, it is because someone is silently carrying the weight for you, and the backers behind Brother Ma are his parents.
You should understand that your parents may be able to help you for a while, but they can't help you for a lifetime. And when they get older, they need your support as well. Please cherish your relationship and do what you can to repay them for their nurturing kindness.
If you don't have a steady income, how do you take care of them? Let them live their old age carefree.
What do you expect from people like Brother Ma who only focus on immediate interests, do not think about the future, and only follow their moods in their work?
As a result, many men use the latter argument as an excuse to give up without trying.
In fact, Ma Ge had many dreams when he was young.
I once wanted to become a lawyer and seek justice for those people who had no way out. But in the end, because of the pressure, they bowed to the forces.
I used to want to engage in business and use my skills to make transactions, but I ended up being cheated out of a large sum of money because I trusted the wrong person.
Later, I wanted to return to my hometown to work as a farmer and respond to the call of the three rural policies. However, I found that I could not bear the hardship, so I had to regret it.
After several failures, Ma Ge began to accept that life was one day at a time, and there was no longer any expectation.
Carefully analyze his dreams, and you will find that not every one of them is without the possibility of success. As long as he is willing to put in the effort, there is always a chance of success waiting for him.
When faced with difficulties, he did not choose to face them bravely, but retreated, refusing to endure a little bit of suffering.
He now lives an idle life and is destined to no longer create any brilliance.
Conclusion:
This passage expresses the idea that whether a man can achieve great things is not based on his ability, but on whether he can calm down and specialize.
For men, whether it's marriage, career, or dreams, success and fulfillment need to be taken with a mind.
Only when a man has a determined heart can he have a sense of responsibility, and he can act more attentively and uncompromisingly.
If you want to be a man with aspirations, you need to calm down, think carefully about what you want to achieve, and pursue it with all your might. Don't go with the flow, have your own pursuits and beliefs.
We should believe that many successful people reach their peak only when they reach adulthood. As long as you work hard, it's never too late to start. The process may be arduous, but if you take the first step with determination, you will be able to achieve your dreams.