It is generally recognized that most men are not eloquent, but sometimes affectionate men prefer to express themselves with actions.
To judge whether a man loves you or not, it is not about listening to what he says, but about what he has done for you.
In the same way, a man loves a woman who understands everything he wants to say, who understands him through his actions without saying it. This kind of woman can easily understand their innermost thoughts, give understanding and support, which is a quality that men value very much when choosing a lover.
When a man thinks about you but doesn't say it, he usually behaves in three ways. If you can read him, then the bond between you will be even deeper.
Performance 1: Frequently ask if you are absent
Long-distance relationships are extremely difficult, but they can also test whether the relationship is sincere. After all, pretending to love won't work.
Liang Jin and Liu Ting have been together for 3 years, but their work has caused them to be separated for a long time.
Liang Jin is a man who rarely speaks, and on the contrary, Liu Ting is more lively. Due to the difference in the personalities of the two, the friends around them couldn't help but start to doubt Liang Jin's feelings for Liu Ting.
Liu Ting knew very well that the man she chose was a person who was good at action, and that he relied on her more than anyone else.
In the days when the two were separated, Liang Jin would always find time to contact Liu Ting, greet her if she was tired, and care about whether she paid attention to her body.
Once, because of a meeting, Liu Ting forgot to tell Liang Jin, and her mobile phone was turned off. This made Liang Jin so anxious that he couldn't contact her.
A whole day has passed, and Liu Ting's mobile phone has been turned off, which makes Liang Jin very anxious. He first contacted his girlfriend's best friend for help, and then bought a ticket to his girlfriend's city. This was done out of deep concern and concern, and he wanted to find his girlfriend as soon as possible and find out about her safety.
In the end, when Liang Jin arrived quickly, Liu Ting's meeting had been successfully concluded.
When she saw dozens of calls and messages from her boyfriend, she understood that he would be worried, so she immediately returned the phone and told him not to rush.
After Liang Jin arrived, he didn't blame the person she was thinking about, but reminded her that if there was anything, she needed to inform him in advance in the future.
Since then, whenever my boyfriend sends me a message, I've always responded immediately. If anything will delay me, I will also explain it in advance.
She understands that if there is no news again, her boyfriend will be very worried. She felt a little uneasy.
Men don't express their thoughts most of the time, but if they are concerned about something, then they will take action. This is a characteristic of men.
Performance 2: Ask you out for dinner often
For couples separated from each other, the holidays are especially important. Whenever there is a holiday, Liang Jin will always rush over to spend a good time with Liu Ting and taste delicious food. Moments like this are very precious to them.
Although this will greatly increase the expenses of the two, Liang Jin still hopes to accompany his girlfriend to do more things she likes, even if he wants to be more economical. After all, such an investment will not only enhance the relationship between the two people, but also allow them to have fond memories together.
He knew that in order to buy a house and get married as soon as possible, Liu Ting often made careful calculations. Many times, even though she likes a certain food, she is still reluctant to spend money on it.
As her guardians, we should not only work hard, but also care about her current situation. This is our life's responsibility.
Liu Ting knew her boyfriend's thoughts, so she never rejected him. She knew that rejection would hurt his heart.
Both people should work together when necessary, and also have fun with each other while enjoying life to prevent friction that arises in life. It is a balanced lifestyle that aims to keep the relationship intact and healthy.
Indeed, men's self-esteem is extremely strong. You can silently support him when he is good to you, but you must never turn him down.
Otherwise, he will think that he will not be able to provide you with a good future, and he will let you endure a life of compromise. Remember, trust and respect are necessary to build a healthy relationship.
Every time he reunites with his girlfriend, Liang Jin's favorite thing is that the two can hug and snuggle up to the warm time.
In Liang Jin's words, only at this moment can he let go of all his fatigue and enjoy peace in the sense of security brought by his girlfriend.
Even when he is in a different place, he often misses his girlfriend, but he never talks about it in front of her because he wants her to feel stable and determined.
He felt uneasy, and if he expressed his lovesickness to his girlfriend, it would make her more sad and miss him more. This is because he is afraid that immature emotional expressions will lead to more distress.
As her boyfriend's inner thoughts, Liu Ting can fully understand them. Every time they met, she let her boyfriend hug her, as if this would alleviate the pain of lovesickness between the two. As a girlfriend, she wants to give her boyfriend all the support and comfort, and hopes that the two will feel endless warmth and care for each other when they are together.
Because of his girlfriend's love and understanding, Liang Jin felt a unique sense of comfort in this relationship. This feeling made him cherish this relationship even more, and he was deeply grateful for his girlfriend's warm care.
Despite occasional temporary separations, he believes that as long as he works hard, he can create a bright future for his girlfriend and give her a dream home.
You can't take a man's love for you lightly, all he wants is a tacit understanding between you and him, and that's enough.
The future of Liang Jin and Liu Ting is still difficult to predict. But it is believed that no matter what happens, Liang Jin will not give up on this female partner who knows him well.
When getting along with men, there is no need to act excessively to prove the other person's affection. Instead, quietly become the person he knows best.
For example, when he asks about your status, invites you to dinner, or hugs you tenderly, you can feel that he cares about your thoughts and feelings.