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Hong Kong film and television superstar Zheng Shaoqiu, whose reputation and charming image have long become a legend in the hearts of the audience. His handsome demeanor has fascinated thousands of female fans. However, such a male god who is regarded as a hero by the public can be called the best spokesperson for "scumbags" in his private life.
Just when Lu Huiru was pregnant and was about to welcome their common child, Zheng Shaoqiu did not show the slightest joy, on the contrary, this so-called "accident" caused him and his wife to quarrel fiercely.
In the midst of complicated quarrels, Zheng Shaoqiu made a decision that made people ashamed - using "emotional breakdown" as an excuse to ruthlessly abandon his wife and unborn daughter.
Soon after the divorce, Zheng Shaoqiu fell in love with another well-known Hong Kong actress, Sen Sen. The rapid warming of this relationship has attracted widespread attention from all walks of life. However, Sen Sen's family has an in-depth understanding of this "scumbag's" behavior and resolutely opposes them continuing to date.
In the face of pressure, Sen Sen could only propose to Zheng Shaoqiu to break up by letter. However, this "breakup letter" became the fuse for a lifelong love. At that time, Sen Sen's friend "Fat Sister" Shen Dianxia personally handed over the letter to Zheng Shaoqiu out of good intentions.
However, this move completely changed the course of her life. In the process of comforting the lost Zheng Shaoqiu, Shen Dianxia was deeply attracted by the unique charm of this "playboy", and the two quickly fell in love and became a couple.
Even, Shen Dianxia, who is over half a hundred years old, gave birth to a lovely daughter Zheng Xinyi for Zheng Shaoqiu, regardless of the huge risk of giving birth at an advanced age.
However, good times are always short-lived, Zheng Shaoqiu's "romantic nature" showed up again, and he betrayed Shen Dianxia's sincerity again. The once loving couple finally chose to divorce, and Zheng Shaoqiu also came together with his current wife Guan Jinghua and started a new married life.
Now, the "amorous" Zheng Shaoqiu seems to have finally "kept to himself" in the official family.
For Zheng Shaoqiu's eldest daughter, Zheng Anyi, she was destined to face a broken family and a life lacking father's love since she was born. As the unexpected crystallization of Zheng Shaoqiu and his first wife Lu Huiru, her arrival brought endless troubles to the young and vigorous Zheng Shaoqiu.
Zheng Shaoqiu and Lu Huiru frequently had fierce fights over the birth of Zheng Anyi, and whenever the conflict intensified, Lu Huiru would lose control of her emotions and frantically destroy many items in her home. Witnessing his wife's increasingly serious mental problems, Zheng Shaoqiu resolutely decided to leave this "harsh" family environment.
As a result, Zheng Anyi, who had just come into the world, was ruthlessly abandoned by her biological father. She can only rely on her mother Lu Huiru for her life and live a life of displacement.
Lu Huiru made a living by singing in a tavern, and did her best to raise this ill-fated child.
During the years when Zheng Anyi and her mother depended on each other, she was repeatedly bullied and coldly spoken by her classmates at school. Her classmates always attacked her with vicious words: "You're the kid without a father, aren't you?" These words pierced her pure heart like a sharp dagger.
Faced with such a harsh growth environment, Zheng Anyi developed a strong resentment and hostility towards her biological father Zheng Shaoqiu. As she grew up, she never felt the slightest care from her father.
Her childhood was spent in the haze of violence, poverty and bullying, leaving a scar in her heart forever.
The shadow of Cheng Anyi's lack of fatherly love since childhood is like a greedy parasite that haunts her heart, preventing her from forming strong emotional bonds and distorting her understanding and trust in intimate relationships.
As an adult, Zheng Anyi, although she met a boyfriend in the United States, the other party was married. She is caught in a painful love triangle, tormented by self-doubt and self-loathing every day.
With an empty heart, she longs to be cherished and loved, but she always involuntarily puts herself in a situation of neglect.
This ambivalent psychological state stems from her unforgettable hatred for her father. The trauma of being abandoned by her biological father since she was a child made it difficult for her to trust and accept the love of others with all her heart.
She seems destined not to have an ordinary and happy love, and the hole in her heart becomes more and more difficult to fill as she grows older.
Psychologists point out that the absence of fatherhood has a profound negative impact on the psychological development of children. These children are prone to a strong sense of distrust, difficulty in building deep interpersonal relationships, and have a weaker sense of self-worth and a sense of security. Once they reach adulthood, they often relive their childhood feelings in the emotional world, and they are constantly trapped in a tragic cycle of being hurt or hurt by others.
This is like the trajectory of Cheng Anyi's life, and her love triangle may be a continuation and repetition of childhood trauma in adulthood. Her life has always been shrouded in the haze of injury, but she is unable to break free, which eventually leads to a jaw-dropping tragedy.
is not only the eldest daughter Zheng Anyi, but Zheng Shaoqiu's second daughter Zheng Xinyi also failed to get her father's sincere care and love. Once, Zheng Xinyi showed her deep inner collapse and pain in a drunken live broadcast. At that time, she was in tears, tearing her clothes frantically, as if she had fallen into a state of madness.
The incident has brought a glimpse into Ms. Zheng's fragile side, and at the same time sparked deep public concern about her mental condition. Obviously, she, like her sister Zheng Anyi, has left the marks of trauma brought by her father deep in her heart.
Although Zheng Shaoqiu once showed a short-term doting affection for his daughter Zheng Xinyi when he married "Fat Sister" Shen Dianxia back then, the authenticity and durability of this father's love are questionable. When the marital relationship broke down, as a child in a separated family, Zheng Xinyi quickly experienced the cold and alienated side of her father.
She also seems to be trapped in a "fatherly vacuum" similar to her sister, and her heart is torn apart by a powerful force, which is why she has such a strong need for emotional release. To onlookers, the sisters' behavior may seem a little crazy, but this seemingly crazy appearance reflects the pain of their long-term mental trauma.
A father's love for his children is the most precious gift, but the two sisters of the Zheng family have never had this gift since they were young, but were hurt by their father's ruthless abandonment. Their desire for family affection is burning in their hearts, but they can never find an outlet for catharsis, and can only express their inner pain in an extreme way.
Faced with the bumpy and tragic trajectory of his beloved daughter's life and the embarrassing ending, Zheng Shaoqiu, an elderly actor, undoubtedly fell into deep self-blame and remorse. In the past, he used to be a high-profile star in the Hong Kong film industry and was loved by many women, but now, even his own flesh and blood can't be cared for by him, which is really sad and ridiculous! .
The famous female singer Zhen Ni expressed a profound opinion on the incident, she angrily accused Zheng Shaoqiu of giving birth to children, but failed to take the corresponding responsibility and obligation to care for the children and their mothers. It is truly regrettable that such an act has led to the shattering of an otherwise happy family.
Public opinion generally believes that Zheng Shaoqiu made a wrong choice between pursuing his career ideals and assuming family responsibilities. He spent his precious youth in a glamorous life, ignoring the needs of his wife and children. It wasn't until later in life that he realized how much pain his actions had caused his family.
Tears rained down and dripped hotly on the evidence of sin, only to make them more difficult to erase. As a father, Zheng Shaoqiu is undoubtedly a complete failure. He could not provide any help for himself, and could only spend the rest of his life alone in the spurning of the world.