It's really expensive, don't give it to anyone. Feelings are very heavy, don't be humble easily.
In a warm café, my friend Anna and I sat and chatted. She had recently experienced the failure of a relationship and was in a somewhat depressed mood.
"I really don't understand why I worked so hard and paid so much, but in the end I still couldn't get his sincerity." Anna said weakly, fiddling with her coffee cup in her hand.
I sighed softly, looked at her and said, "You know, it's really expensive, don't give it to anyone." Feelings are very heavy, don't be humble easily. ”
Anna looked up at me with a blank look in her eyes.
When I got home, this conversation kept ringing in my head. I sat down in front of my computer and decided to write about this conversation and some of my thoughts on relationships.
I began to write: "Throughout our lives, each of us longs for sincerity and for our feelings to be cherished. However, the importance of sincerity and affection is sometimes overlooked by ourselves. We often give excessively at inappropriate times, putting ourselves too low, hoping to gain approval and response from others in this way. ”
I went on to write: "However, we need to understand that sincerity is precious and should only be given to those who know how to appreciate and repay you. When you put yourself too low, you give others the opportunity to belittle you. We should all learn to respect ourselves, know our worth, and not waste our feelings where we are not valued. ”
In the article, I quote a number of psychologists and related research to explain why people show humility in their relationships and the long-term effects of this behavior on an individual's mental health.
"Protect your feelings and don't show your vulnerability." I wrote at the end of the article, "Learn to show your sincerity at the right time and in front of the right person." In this way, your feelings will not be disappointed, and your heart will not be so easily hurt. ”
When the article was done, I published it on my personal blog. Soon, many readers began to leave comments, sharing their experiences and insights. Many people said that this article made them start to reflect on their own feelings and realize some of their wrong practices in their relationships.
Through this writing, I not only helped Anna and others who were going through similar situations, but also gave myself a deeper understanding of the value of feelings. This process of helping others through words gives me a great sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.