Submission Conditions
A 38-year-old lady in Zhejiang recorded a video!
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disclosed to the society her five blind date conditions for her future partner. She considers these conditions reasonable and normal, and even says that if even these basic requirements cannot be met, then marriage is meaningless. First of all, she insisted that the man must pay a bride price of 300,000 yuan.
In traditional Chinese culture, the bride price is a payment made by the man to the woman's family during marriage, symbolizing gratitude to the woman's family and commitment to the future wife. However, the woman's conditions did not stop there, she also stipulated that she must return home by 10 p.m., and if she violated the rules more than five times, the parties would part peacefully and the bride price would not be returned.
In addition, she also proposed that if the man cheated in the marriage, that is, had sex with other people after marrying her, she asked the man to pay an additional 100,000 yuan as a mental damage fee in addition to asking the bride price not to be returned. As for the man's mother, if she is sick, she will not take care of it, this is her bottom line. In addition, she demanded that the man's salary must be handed over, and she only kept 1,000 yuan of pocket money every month. She also made it clear that she doesn't like socializing very much, and she doesn't want to go to parties or relatives and friends' houses, and the man can't force her to go, and if she has to force her to go, then she can only break up.
According to the woman, these conditions are not harsh and are her basic expectations for her future life. However, many people were shocked by her request, and some netizens even jokingly said: "Yuan Shikai didn't dare to sign this treaty!" "In modern society, the essence of marriage should be the emotional union of two people, mutual understanding and support, not a contract full of requirements and restrictions. Marriage is a process of two people walking hand in hand, facing the ups and downs of life together, and working together to create a better future.
Netizens are hotly discussing and reflecting
As the blind date video of the first lady circulated on the Internet, netizens exploded. Some people think that her demands are too high, almost harsh, and difficult to accept; Some people left messages on her social media, jokingly saying that she was signing a contract rather than looking for a partner.
The heated discussions among netizens are like a surging wave, hitting this lady wave after wave. Some people are sarcastic, some people laugh at it, and some people understand what she does, thinking that she is just honestly expressing her expectations.
The woman's video and the heated discussions among netizens have triggered an in-depth reflection on the concept of modern marriage. In the eyes of many people, marriage is no longer a simple emotional connection, but mixed with too many material things and conditions. However, does this phenomenon really represent a healthy, harmonious marital relationship? Isn't the essence of marriage mutual understanding, respect, and deep affection between two people?
Reflect on the concept of marriage
With the fermentation of the Internet, the 38-year-old lady's blind date conditions have triggered a wide discussion of the concept of marriage from all walks of life. Many have said that while understanding her need for security and security in her marriage, such conditions seem too materialistic and ignore the importance of the emotional and spiritual aspects of marriage. Behind this phenomenon, it reflects the contradictions and confusion of people in modern society in the concept of marriage.
On the one hand, marriage, as a social institution, carries multiple meanings such as law, economy, and culture. Material conditions such as bride price, real estate, and vehicles reflect the socio-economic status of both families and their investment in marriage to a certain extent. However, on the other hand, marriage is the union of two souls, a long journey of emotion, trust, respect, and companionship. Excessive material demands can overwhelm what should be a heartwarming journey and turn marriage into a calculation of interests.
In this discussion, one begins to reflect on the nature and purpose of marriage. Marriage is not just a matter for two people, it also involves the union of two families. It should be a safe haven for both parties to grow together and support each other, not a contract full of conditions and terms. In this process, love, trust, and understanding become indispensable elements in the marriage.
Find true love
In modern society, people are often susceptible to material conditions in the process of finding a partner, and ignore the importance of feelings. However, true love is the foundation of marriage and the motivation for both parties to face life's challenges together. When looking for a partner, we should pay more attention to the other person's personality, values and attitude to life, rather than just looking at material conditions.
The 38-year-old lady's blind date conditions made people rethink the nature of marriage. Marriage is not just a matter for two people, it also involves the union of two families. It should be a safe haven for both parties to grow together and support each other, not a contract full of conditions and terms. In this process, love, trust, and understanding become indispensable elements in the marriage.
True love is not a material transaction, but a spiritual fit. It is not affected by external conditions, but comes from a deep inner attraction and understanding. When we are looking for a partner, we should not only look at the material conditions of the other person, but also focus on the inner qualities of the other person and whether they can relate to us.
In the process of finding true love, we need to let go of too many demands and conditions, and instead use sincerity and an open mind to meet the possible love. When we meet someone who truly understands us, supports us, and grows with us, we are able to feel the power of true love.
Marriage is a long-distance race, and it requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties. We will encounter various difficulties and challenges in the journey of marriage, but as long as we understand, support and trust each other, we can get through the ups and downs together and move forward together.
Therefore, when we are faced with the choice of marriage, we should not let material conditions become an obstacle to our search for true love. Instead, we should return to the essence of marriage, find a partner who can truly understand and support us, and write their beautiful story together. Whether it is in the process of finding a partner or in the life of marriage, we should adhere to the principle of true love, let love become the cornerstone of our marriage, and let our life be full of sunshine and happiness.
Build a better future together
Marriage is not only a simple union between two people, but also a journey of mutual growth and mutual support. In this process, both parties need to work together to face the ups and downs of life together to ensure a stable and happy marriage. Building a better future together is not only a financial investment, but also a spiritual interdependence.
In modern society, many people focus too much on material conditions and ignore the emotional and spiritual needs of marriage. This tendency can lead to the breakdown of a marriage because it ignores some of the most important factors in a marriage, such as love, trust, and understanding. A true marriage is based on these factors, and they are the cornerstone of the marriage, allowing both parties to face life's challenges together.
In order to build a better future together, both parties need to learn to communicate and compromise. Communication is a bridge to understanding and resolution, it helps both parties express their needs and feelings, and understand each other's perspectives. Compromise is the art of marriage, which allows both partners to learn to let go of some inconsequential things in order to maintain the overall harmony of the marriage.
In the process of building a better future together, both parties also need to share family responsibilities. This includes taking care of the children, supporting each other's careers, and handling the day-to-day affairs of the family. By sharing these responsibilities, both parties can deepen their feelings for each other and build deeper trust and understanding.
In addition, building a better future together requires both parties to maintain love and respect for each other. Love is the fuel of marriage, and it keeps both parties alive and passionate. Respect is a basic etiquette in marriage, and it can make both parties feel valued and understood.
Overall, building a better future together will require the efforts and commitment of both parties. It is only by working together that both parties can create a married life full of love and happiness. In this process, both parties should learn to cherish each other and keep working hard to achieve common goals and dreams.
Back to the essence of marriage
With the development of society and the change of concepts, the meaning and purpose of marriage also need to be constantly re-examined and understood. In the blind date video of this 38-year-old lady, we see the contradictions and confusion of people in modern society about the concept of marriage. The role and status of material conditions in marriage has sparked extensive discussion and reflection.
Marriage is, first and foremost, an emotional bond between a man and a woman based on mutual understanding, respect and deep affection. It should not be held hostage by material things and conditions, but should be a deep emotional union based on love, trust, and commitment. In an ideal marriage, both parties should support each other and contribute to the family together, rather than trying to seek benefits in each other.
Material conditions such as bride price, real estate, and vehicles reflect the socio-economic status of both families and their investment in marriage to a certain extent. However, this does not mean that marriage is a material exchange. Marriage is more of an emotional exchange and a soul fit. Excessive material demands can overwhelm what should be a heartwarming journey and turn marriage into a calculation of interests.
We need to return to the essence of marriage and re-examine the meaning and purpose of marriage. Marriage should not be just a material exchange, but an emotional bond based on mutual understanding, respect and deep affection. It should be a process of working together for a better future. On the road of marriage, only by supporting each other and moving forward together can we reach the other side of happiness.
For this 38-year-old woman, perhaps she should rethink her concept of marriage and find a partner who can truly understand and support her, and write their beautiful story together. And for each of us, perhaps we should reflect on our understanding and expectations of marriage, find the person who can truly spend our lives with us, and create a married life full of love and happiness together.
What do you think about this?