After giving birth to a baby in 83, a woman encountered a "title" turmoil: she was called "milk" when she took her child out, and she was recognized as "mother" when she went out with her husband
In this day and age, age seems to be becoming more and more of a sensitive subject. Especially for women who have already entered their prime, or even later to become mothers, they also have to face some unexpected "title" challenges while enjoying the joy of a new life. Recently, a woman born in 83 shared with us the "title" turmoil she encountered after giving birth to a baby, let's listen to her story together!
This woman's name is Xiaoli, and she is a typical post-80s hot mom. Although she has passed her prime, her mentality is still young and full of energy. Last year, Xiaoli gave birth to a lovely baby, which made her feel extremely happy and satisfied. However, with the birth of the child, Xiaoli also began to encounter some unexpected "salutation" problems.
Once, Xiaoli took her children for a walk in the park. On the way, a child saw Xiaoli holding the child, so he asked curiously: "Grandma, is this your grandson?" When Xiaoli heard this, she was stunned. She quickly explained: "Little friend, you misunderstood, I am the mother of this child. However, the little boy did not seem to believe her words, and looked at her with a puzzled expression.
This is not the first time something like this has happened. Since having a child, Xiaoli has found that she is often mistaken for the child's grandmother or grandmother. Especially when going out with children, this kind of misunderstanding happens more frequently. Xiaoli said helplessly: "I don't know why, maybe it's because I'm dressed more mature now, or because I'm more peaceful, so I look older than my actual age." ”
In addition to being called "milk" when taking children out, Xiaoli often encounters the embarrassment of "calling" when she goes out with her husband. Once, Xiaoli and her husband attended a friend's party together. At the party, an unknown person saw Xiaoli and her husband together, so he walked over to say hello and said, "Oh, I haven't seen you for a long time, is this my son?" He looks so handsome! When Xiaoli heard this, she immediately cried and laughed. She quickly explained: "You misunderstood, this is my husband." However, the man still didn't seem to believe it, and looked at them in surprise.
These "titles" misunderstandings made Xiaoli feel a little helpless and embarrassed. She said that she doesn't mind what others call her, but hopes that they can respect the facts and not speculate and misunderstand. At the same time, Xiaoli also called on everyone to abandon the stereotype of age and look at every woman with a more open and inclusive attitude.
In fact, Xiaoli's experience is not unique. In real life, many women will face a similar "salutation" problem after giving birth. Behind this is a reflection of society's stereotypes about women's age and roles. Many people believe that once a woman has passed a certain age, she should play a certain role, such as becoming a mother, grandmother, etc. However, this perception ignores women's diversity and independence, and also limits their choices and possibilities in life.
In this regard, we should look at every woman with a more open and inclusive mind. No matter what age they are in, they should be respected and understood. At the same time, we should also abandon stereotypes about age and not associate age with specific roles or images. Every woman has her own life trajectory and life choices, and we should respect their choices and rights.
For Xiaoli, she can choose to face these "title" misunderstandings with a peaceful mind, or she can try to reduce the occurrence of misunderstandings by changing her dress. But more importantly, she should insist on being herself and not be constrained by the eyes of the outside world. After all, age is just a number, what really matters is mindset and attitude.
Finally, let us call on everyone to respect the choices and rights of every woman, abandon the stereotype of age, and let everyone live and choose freely. Only in this way can we build a more harmonious and inclusive social environment.
Xiaoli's story may be a bit laughable, but the social phenomenon reflected in it is worth pondering. In this era, we should look at every woman with a more open and inclusive mind, and respect their choices and rights. At the same time, we should also abandon the stereotype of age, so that everyone can live freely and choose freely. Let's work together to contribute to building a more harmonious and inclusive social environment.