Before you turn your face, be sure to read this sentence
At dusk, the afterglow of the setting sun shines on the old streets, illuminating the bluestone pavement in gold. The breeze blew, with a hint of coolness, and also brought the faint smell of cooking smoke from the alleys in the distance. As I stood in a corner of the city, looking at this picturesque landscape, an inexplicable thought surged in my heart. In this turbulent era of the Republic of China, the relationship between people is complex and delicate, and turning faces seems to have become commonplace. However, whenever I stand on the verge of turning my face, I always think of that sentence, the one that makes me think calmly and avoid impulsiveness.
"The green mountains can't cover it, after all, it flows eastward." I whispered this verse, and I couldn't help but feel a ripple in my heart. This poem not only depicts the scene of nature, but also implies the impermanence and changes of life. In this era of rapid change, people often make bad decisions on the spur of the moment, which eventually leads to irreparable consequences. And I, too, have lost my way in this torrent of impulses.
It was a stormy night, and my friend Xiao Li and I had an argument over a trivial matter. We were originally confidants who talked about everything, but we got into trouble because of a small misunderstanding. At that time, my heart was full of anger and dissatisfaction, and I felt that Xiao Li had betrayed me and betrayed our friendship. I rushed to him in a fit of rage, ready to turn my face with him.
However, just as I was about to explode, the phrase popped through my mind: "Before you turn your face, be sure to read this sentence." "I stopped, took a deep breath, and tried to calm myself down. I'm starting to think back to the moments we had, the happy times we had together and the hard times we had supporting each other. I realized that our friendship was so precious and difficult that it could not be easily given up on the spur of the moment.
I turned around and looked at Xiao Li's face distorted by anger, and the anger in my heart gradually subsided. I walked over, patted him lightly on the shoulder, and said, "Xiao Li, let's calm down." He froze for a moment, as if he didn't expect me to say that. I continued, "I know you're angry right now, but we should all calm down and think about it." ”
Xiao Li looked at me, and a trace of doubt and incomprehension flashed in his eyes. I continued: "Our friendship did not come easily, and we cannot give it up easily because of a small thing. We should cherish this friendship and not let it be ruined by impulse. ”
Xiao Li was silent for a while, then nodded and said, "You're right, we should calm down." So we sat down and started discussing it calmly. After some communication, we found out that we both had misunderstandings and prejudices. We apologized to each other, understood each other, and finally resolved the misunderstanding.
After experiencing this incident, I deeply realized the meaning of that sentence. It reminds me to remain calm and rational in the face of conflict and disputes, and not to make decisions lightly. Only when we calm down and think rationally can we find the best way to solve the problem.
"There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor." I often think of this poem, and it makes me cherish my friends and relatives around me even more. In this era of uncertainty and challenges, we need more understanding and tolerance to maintain our relationship with each other. When we encounter contradictions and conflicts, we might as well calm down and empathize with the other person's feelings and needs. Only in this way can we better understand each other, resolve conflicts, and grow together.
At the same time, I am also aware of my own shortcomings and shortcomings. I know that sometimes I make bad decisions on the spur of the moment, resulting in unnecessary loss and injury. Therefore, I always remind myself to stay calm and rational and not to be swayed by emotions. I learned to take a deep breath and think calmly before making a decision when faced with conflict and disputes. In this way, you can not only avoid unnecessary contradictions and conflicts, but also better protect your own interests and those of others.
"Before you turn your face, be sure to read this sentence." This sentence is not only a motto in my life, but also a commitment to my friends and loved ones. I hope that in the years to come, I will continue to uphold this commitment and maintain our relationship with understanding and inclusiveness, and work together to overcome this era of challenges and opportunities.