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The most embarrassing thing in my life was being kicked out of the house by my mother-in-law on my wedding day, and everything that happened that night is still vivid in my mind after more than 20 years.
My husband and I were both factory workers, and I just fell in love with his honest relationship, and the two of us walked together, which became the beginning of my nightmare.
I was coaxed by the sweet words of their family and chose to marry my husband, but who would have thought that on the night of the wedding, their family's fox tail would be exposed.
My mother-in-law had no fear of forcing me to return the bride price, and she took off my wedding ring despite her husband's obstruction, and told me arrogantly that when I entered their house, I had to listen to her, and that these things would be waiting for my brother-in-law to marry his daughter-in-law.
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At that time, the economic development of the south was indeed better, many small commodities and clothing trade were made here, and many northern girls also went to work in factories in the south.
Here I met a local boy, the two of us talked very speculatively, and he also took care of me, and after going back and forth, we developed feelings for each other.
At that time, I was still young and ignorant, and I didn't know what to pay attention to emotionally, I always felt that if he could be good to me, then he would be good to me for the rest of his life, and the two of us were the ones who could stay with each other for a lifetime.
However, what no one expected was that from the moment I was with him, I really walked step by step into the abyss of hell, until the day I regretted it, only to realize that everything was too late.
One of the things that stands out to me is that when we first started dating, he invited me to the cinema to watch a movie, and I can't remember exactly what the movie was playing in the cinema at that time.
But all I know is that it's a romance movie. This was quite a trend for our young people at that time, everyone secretly held each other's hands in the dark-lit movie theater, and their faces could be red from their necks to their ears.
But to my surprise, he didn't feel shy, but stiff, dull and deliberate, and I thought at first that everyone was not the same when they were shy.
But looking back now, maybe from that time on, he didn't really take me seriously, just to complete the mission of getting married and having children.
At that time, the two of us fell in love together, and after talking for a while, his mother couldn't wait to find me, and my mother-in-law was very happy to see me, the future daughter-in-law.
She kept complimenting her son to me, showing off between the lines that he was obedient and a filial person, and it seemed to imply that I was not worthy of her son.
In fact, at that time, my requirements for the other half were not particularly high, it was enough to have a stable income, be able to support the family, and be a kind and filial person at the same time.
Because I began to receive education since I was a child, that is, my parents want me to become a kind person, a filial person, at that time, to be able to respect the old and love the young, to be able to be filial to my father and mother is already a very good condition of their own.
At that time, I was deeply attracted by my mother-in-law's mouth, but now it seems that the filial piety in my mother-in-law's mouth is actually not so simple, in today's words, he is a pure mother-in-law boy, all words are subject to his mother's orders, and when he encounters contradictions, he will only let his daughter-in-law learn to endure.
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But at that time, I didn't know it, I always thought that he was a good man, a man worthy of being entrusted for life, and then I subconsciously went astray and married him.
This made me never expect that in the end, I actually fell into such a fate, when we got married, the banquet was a beautiful scenery, but when I divorced, I also walked a lonely vicissitudes.
Because at that time, my husband and his younger brother, as a college student, were assigned to work in a government unit, and then at the same time, he fell in love with him, and there was also the daughter of a director.
His brother is very handsome and very eloquent, probably because of my mother-in-law's inheritance, their family's mouth is like a machine gun, it is full of sugar-coated shells, and the dead are all said to be alive, so it is not for nothing that I fell into it at that time.
In order to be able to show her welcome to my daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law took me to pick out gold and silver jewelry and bought me a large diamond ring.
even took out tens of thousands of yuan as a bride price, in fact, the average bride price at that time was not much, and the bride price was relatively low in that era, but I didn't expect him to take out nearly 50,000 yuan.
This can be said to be a great joy for me, a rural girl, and at the same time flattering, I have even secretly sworn that in the future, when I enter the house, I must treat my mother-in-law as a mother.
I must honor her well, just like my mother, this incident also made my reputation in my whole village, at that time the people in our village told my parents that their daughter found a good family, and she will definitely be able to live a happy life in the future, and she will definitely be able to become a rich wife.
On the night of the wedding night, my husband and I had just entered the new house, and after pouring tea for my mother-in-law, I wanted to turn back to the room, but my mother-in-law suddenly asked me where I put the bride price.
Before I could react, I listened to my mother-in-law continue to say, "Hand over the bride price, old daughter-in-law, our family Min Hao is still waiting for this bride price to go on a blind date with Huihui." ”
After I heard this, the whole person was stunned, this bride price was not given to me, I should be allowed to take it to my parents, why should I take the bride price back?
As a result, what I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law actually threw a time bomb on me, "You take the hardware and diamond ring, and then you have to lend it to your brother to bring it, otherwise when the time comes, who will support the façade of your brother and Huihui?" ”
Isn't it obvious to anyone who hears her say this, what is really going on? Where is the wedding bride price for me? This is obviously for my little brother-in-law, but now that I am married to my husband, I will lend it to fill the row.
03
At that time, my parents were afraid that I would be wronged, so they told my mother-in-law the bride price for me to bring back and use it with my husband and wife, but I didn't expect this thing to happen.
I was originally a temper tantrum, so I couldn't bear to face this, so I quarreled with my mother-in-law, I accused them of cheating on marriage, but my mother-in-law told me confidently that now I am a member of their family, even if I am divorced, it is not good to remarry.
At this time, the husband came out to stop the mother-in-law, but he didn't expect the mother-in-law to yell at him, and even slapped him twice, but the husband was silent and silently retreated to the corner.
Seeing my husband being wronged, I was also very uncomfortable at that time, I thought that he was usually not treated well at home, so I didn't want to be embarrassed, after all, the life would be the two of us in the future.
As long as we work hard, can we still live a good life? So I gave her all the things my mother-in-law wanted, and then pulled my husband out, wanting to work hard with him in a rented house.
As a result, he chose to stay on the grounds of taking care of his mother, hoping that I could tolerate it, and I was also the kind of stupid girl who was not deeply involved in the world, so I agreed, but who would have thought that this would once again push me deeper into the abyss.
After I married into this family, in addition to taking care of the elderly in the family, taking care of the family's three meals a day, cleaning, I also had to work, and I also had to serve my brother-in-law and my concubine.
This made me feel very resentful, but I was always fooled by my husband and mud, and I found more and more that he obeyed his mother's words, and even quarreled with him many times because of this matter.
It wasn't until I almost fainted during a quarrel that I found out that I had been more than three months pregnant, but I gave birth to the first child in my family, but because I was a girl, I was once again looked down upon by the whole family.
This time, I became the target of everyone's accusations, and when I couldn't bear it, I left this house with my three-month-old daughter in my arms, completely drawing a line with this family.
I relied on my own efforts to raise my daughter to adulthood, watching my daughter get married, and walking together with the person I liked, when my daughter was wronged, I rushed forward to protect her as soon as possible, so that she felt that I was the most solid backing as a mother.
It is said that women are weak, but mothers are strong, and I have been wronged at the age of my daughter, and I don't want my daughter to suffer again.
In my eyes, there has never been such a thing as patriarchy, maybe because I am only the mother of a daughter, but even if I am a mother of a boy, I will still love my daughter-in-law as my own child.
Because I know that every child is a piece of flesh that falls from a mother's body, and a child is all the sustenance and hope of a mother, and we can't bully their children because of our own selfish desires.
We can't just take care of our own children, don't love those children who give everything for our family, everyone should be loved, everyone should be concerned, after all, people's hearts are mutual, only the heart can get the best return.
I treat my son-in-law like my own son, he always has endless words to say, and there are always endless sufferings, he tells me the difficulties in life, and I will work with him to solve these problems.
He always thanked me for being there for him, because I had been wronged in this area, but I must now make my children feel that I can give them motherly love and care.
I don't let them think about it so much, let alone worry about it so much, because only in this way can a family be more harmonious, and the relationship between children and parents can be more peaceful.
Only a harmonious family can make everything go well.
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