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In the distant year of 1983, Nigmaiti quietly descended into a rich cultural family in Urumqi, Xinjiang. His father worked as a senior editor at a well-known newspaper, and his mother was an excellent voice actress for the local television station.
Nigmat grew up in a television station at an early age, and at nightfall, his mother would always take him to his place of work, where he could concentrate on completing his studies, and then share a warm dinner with his mother.
Although Nigmat is naturally introverted, he has an incomparable love and longing for the hosting industry. Whenever he witnessed the host talking freely under the spotlight, his eyes always sparkled with the light of dreams.
When the recording of the show is over, his mother will gently hold his tender little hand and lead him back to the warm home for a short rest.
In the spacious hall of the television station, Nigmat always sat quietly in the corner, watching everything in front of the stage with a curious gaze. In order to make sure that her son does not run around at will, the mother will repeatedly tell him to follow the rules.
However, even so, Nigmat could not resist the temptation of the warm atmosphere of the scene, and even appeared a little nervous when he spoke on stage, let alone directly looked at people.
With the passage of time, Nigmaiti gradually overcame his inner shyness and moved steadily on the road of hosting. One day, the teacher brought him a golden opportunity to participate in the city's host selection competition.
Faced with this sudden challenge, Nigmaiti was full of apprehension, but his teacher inspired him to take this crucial step bravely in a unique way of teaching.
Amazingly, Nigmaiti not only stood out in the municipal selection competition and won the championship, but also achieved a proud record of third place in the following national competition.
At this moment, he is full of firm confidence in the future, and is determined to devote all his efforts to the host career, without the slightest hesitation or retreat.
With his outstanding talent and perseverance, Nigmat has overcome obstacles and quickly risen to become a well-known and famous host, and his light is like a bright star, illuminating his long journey to chase his dreams.
In 2012, at the age of 29, Nigmat embarked on a journey to the beautiful island of Bali. This is a precious short opportunity for him to take a short break from CCTV, so that he can temporarily put aside his heavy work burden and enjoy his physical and mental pleasure.
When he adjusted a little on the plane, he unexpectedly heard a familiar dialect - a voice from his hometown Xinjiang, which made his heart surge with a long-lost closeness.
Nigmat searched carefully in the crowd and finally locked on the good-looking girl. I saw this girl coming from the vast sea of people and sitting straight on the seat in front of him.
With a deep love for the native dialect, Nigmat gently patted the girl on the shoulder and started a cordial conversation with her in an authentic hometown accent.
"It's a great honor for me to meet my relatives from my hometown here!" Hearing this, the girl's face was full of joy, her eyes were blazing on Nigmaiti, and she said half-jokingly: "Someone once told me that you look like a famous host."
"Oh? Who said that? Nigmat asked curiously.
"It seems to be called Nigmaiti, and he is also from Xinjiang." The girl replied in the affirmative.
Seeing Nigmaiti's somewhat surprised expression, the girl hurriedly comforted him: "Everyone has their own unique life trajectory. After some in-depth exchanges, Nigmat finally frankly admitted his identity.
"It's really you!" The girl was amazed and overwhelmed with emotion, and praised Nigmat without hesitation. From this moment on, Nigmat had a deep affection for this lively and cheerful girl in his heart.
They took the same flight to Bali. On this sunny island, the two met late and got together frequently. Nigmat was gradually attracted to Pasha Guli's sunny personality, but due to his introverted personality, he was never able to express his heart to her.
In order to cherish this rare fate, after returning to Beijing, Nigmat invited Pasha Guli many times to enjoy movies or go out. However, in the face of this deep-seated feeling, he never mustered up the courage to confess, but made Pasha Guli mistakenly think that he was not interested in him, so he took the initiative to keep his distance from him.
After marriage, Nigmaiti has developed rapidly and has become the mainstay of CCTV. He is often assigned by leaders to serve as emergency rescue missions on important occasions, and with his excellent hosting talent and strong on-the-spot adaptability, Nigmat has quickly risen to become a well-known host.
What is particularly noteworthy is that when he and his close partner Sa Beining work together, the two show an extremely unique and deep tacit understanding. Nigmaiti's sunny appearance and steady and sophisticated typhoon complement Sa Beining's witty and humorous words, making them show an incomparably brilliant charm on the big stage of CCTV.
Countless audiences were fascinated by these two unique combinations, praising them as "the best partners on the TV screen" and "crosstalk artists of the new era". Whenever they co-host those high-profile large-scale programs, they can always bring unique surprises and joy to the audience.
Haruka remembers the shy and introverted teenager who stuttered nervously under the spotlight, and it is really unimaginable that he has grown into such an outstanding host now. However, for Nigmaiti, all these brilliant achievements are due to his strong belief in his dream and unremitting struggle for his career.
In the long career journey, Nigmat has poured countless hard work and hard work. He always aspires to be in the spotlight and use his own unique way to convey and share happiness and positive energy.
He prepares well before each show is recorded to ensure that every detail of the show is perfect.
Sometimes, even if he needs to stay up all night, he will not hesitate to give the audience an impeccable and wonderful performance. It is with this enthusiasm and dedication to his work that Nigmaiti has won high praise from the leadership and colleagues.
The leaders are well aware of his hard work and dedication, and at the same time, they are always concerned about his physical and mental health. Whenever Nigmat was found to be overtired, they were always considerate enough to give him a short break to relax.
It was during such a precious vacation that Nigmat met his wife, Pasha Guli, and finally entered the sacred temple of marriage, opening a new chapter in his life.
Since then, Nigmaiti's life has changed dramatically, and he will face unprecedented trials and challenges. However, no matter how tortuous and bumpy the road ahead is, he will bravely explore and struggle in his own way, bringing more laughter and emotion to the audience.
Despite his career successes, Nigmat has never been able to take time out of his busy schedule to take care of his family. As an outstanding host, he is frequently invited to participate in many major events, and his work pressure can be described as unusual.
Sometimes, he had to fight all night to record a show, and when the exhausted Nigmat was finally able to make his way home, his wife, Pasha Guli, remained quietly at home waiting for his return.
Whenever he saw his wife's gentle and virtuous back, Nigmat always felt a deep sense of guilt in his heart. He told his wife with concern: "Please don't hold on for me anymore, if you feel hungry, you can always fill your stomach by yourself."
Pasha Guli, however, always responds in an affectionate tone, preferring to share every warm dinner with him.
Hearing these touching words, Nigmaiti's heart was as warm as a spring breeze. To have such a considerate partner by his side is undoubtedly the greatest happiness and pride in his life.
However, the heavy work pressure makes it difficult for Nigmat to give his family full care and companionship.
As a result, the original birth plan has been postponed again and again. In the blink of an eye, Nigmat and Pasha Guli have entered the ninth anniversary of their marriage, but the major issue of childbirth is still unresolved.
Both parents are worried about this, and they are afraid that they will miss the best opportunity to have children.
Sometimes, Pasha Guli also falls into deep thought, wondering if she has made the wrong decision in the first place. She understands her husband's love and dedication to work, but deep down she also longs for the early arrival of her children and looks forward to a new chapter in their small family.
Whenever Nigmat returned to his hometown to visit his parents, his father would always pull him into the hut and pour out his guilt for his ancestors in front of a portrait. "Our family has not been able to add new Ding so far, the ancestors are above, we are really ashamed of you!" Looking at his father's teary eyes, Nigmaiti's heart was filled with endless sorrow, but he couldn't do anything about it.
In order to flourish in his career, he can only bury all the bitterness and pain deep in his heart and bear the burden of life alone. Sometimes, in the silence of the night, he would reflect on himself whether he should take a break from work and prioritize family problems. But he hesitated when he thought that if he stopped the high-intensity work, it might lead to the loss of his previous efforts.
This is undoubtedly an extremely difficult decision, both forward and backward is challenging, and we need to weigh the pros and cons with utmost caution and prudence. However, fortunately, Nigmat did not choose to escape from reality, on the contrary, he actively adjusted his mentality and pushed forward, hoping to find the ideal state of perfect balance between career and family.
It is also admirable that Pasha Guli has always shown great tolerance and understanding, she did not focus all her energy and attention entirely on fertility and reproduction, but was more keen to pursue her personal interests and live a life rich in her own unique tastes.
She regards the innocent and lively cat at home as her best friend, and devotes herself to the care of her, enjoying the warm feelings of a loved one.
However, as the news spread that they had announced that they would postpone their birth plans for the next five years, an invisible gap seemed to have formed between the couple and their relatives and friends, as well as the audience.
As a powerful professional host, Nigmat is in the prime of his career, and he is not willing to interrupt his career because of childbirth, however, this decision has made both parents worried, afraid of missing the best age for childbearing.
Interestingly, compared with the concern of family and friends, the majority of TV viewers seem to be more eager to see the birth of a new life for this loving couple as soon as possible. Whenever they saw Nigmat and Pasha Guli on the TV screen, they always waited with anticrative anticipation for the good news to come.
"This pair of good couples are natural, with such excellent genes, if they fail to leave an heir, wouldn't it be a great regret in life!" The audience often exclamates like this. For a while, the audience paid more attention to whether the two could have children smoothly than the parties themselves.
In the face of pressure and urging from all sides, Nigmaiti also began to have subtle changes in his heart. Is career important, or family first? Which choice can truly maximize the value of life? He knows that at this critical juncture, he must think carefully and make prudent decisions.
Once a choice is made, it will have a profound impact on the life direction of his wife Pasha Guli.
He couldn't bear to see Pasha Guli sacrifice the opportunity to have children in order to support his career, and thus regret it for the rest of his life. However, he also understands that if the arrival of a child disrupts his existing rhythm of life, then his career is likely to be stalled and all his efforts will be in vain.
This is undoubtedly an unbearable blow for him, who has always worked hard.
At this critical juncture, we need to carefully weigh the various interests. Mr. Nigmat is sympathetic to his wife's feelings and deeply understands the profound impact of childbirth on the family. However, he also couldn't let go of the career he loved.
At the prime of your career, the slightest mistake can lead to being overtaken by other competitors. As the breadwinner of the family, Mr. Nigmat was unable to make any commitments to his wife.
In the face of the expectations of his relatives and the urging of the audience, Mr. Nigmat fell into an unprecedented contradictory situation. He had to suppress his inner worries for a while and continue to move forward firmly in the journey of his career, hoping that one day he would find the best of both worlds.
"The audience seems to be looking forward to the arrival of the child more urgently than I am." Mr. Nigmat said frankly. Behind the seemingly relaxed and pleasant conversation, there is actually a heavy pressure in his heart caused by the dilemma of career and family.
However, Mr. Nigmat did not give up because of this, and he decided to endure the pain for a while, hoping that time would reveal the right answer for him.
As elites in the workplace and housewives, both Mr. Nigmat and Ms. Pasha Guli are facing the dilemma of work and life. They need to find a balance between career and family life in order to move forward.
In addition to his successful career, Mr. Nigmat also has great family responsibilities. He once confided his inner troubles to others: "The audience seems to be more eager for the arrival of the child than I am.
Naturally, I also want to have my own love crystallization as soon as possible, but at this stage of career development, I really can't stop easily.
Mr. Nigmat is well aware that if he is not careful, he may be overtaken by his peers, and all his efforts will be in vain. As the breadwinner of the family, he was also unable to make any promises to his wife.
However, he could not ignore his family's ardent expectations of him.
Faced with the urging of his family and the audience, Mr. Nigmat fell into an unprecedented contradiction. He must be thoughtful and weigh the pros and cons. Once a choice is made, it will directly affect the direction of his wife Pasha Guli's life.
Whenever you think of Pasha Guli resolutely giving up the precious opportunity to conceive life in order to realize her self-worth, can you feel the endless regret in Nigmaiti's heart? However, unlike Mr. Nehru's sad feelings, Ms. Pashagul showed great calmness and determination.
She is well aware of her husband's love and pursuit of his career, so she chooses to fully support him to move forward bravely In her spare time, she immerses herself in reading, painting and other colorful hobbies, so that life is full of fulfillment and fun.
For Pasha Guli, the family's kittens are as precious as her own flesh and blood. Every time she goes on a trip, she will take her beloved kitten with her and enjoy the family fun that belongs to them.
Although fertility issues have always been on her mind, she prefers to give her husband enough time and space to devote himself to his work without any worries.
When faced with a difficult choice between career and family, Nigmat had to weigh the pros and cons. Will he be able to make steady progress on the glorious road of his career without losing the warm haven of his family? This is undoubtedly a life puzzle that needs to be solved step by step.
As an exceptional presenter, Nigmat is bound to explore and challenge in his own unique way. No matter how tortuous and arduous the road ahead is, he will continue to bring joy and emotion to the audience.
And behind him, there must be a gentle and considerate wife who will always silently support and understand him.