I thought that I had been in love with my girlfriend for two years not long ago, but the innocent fat cat that cost as much as 510,000 yuan was just a special case.
Until today, I saw a guy again, who had met five times in three years of love, spent 330,000 yuan, and was constantly abused, and his spirit was PUA.
A few days ago, a young man in Wuhan entrusted a lawyer to tell his "love story". This is almost the same as the fat cat, and the woman's hatefulness is even more than the same experience, which has aroused the attention and discussion of many netizens.
It is reported that in 2020, the guy met and fell in love with a woman two years younger than him through a blind date. At that time, the guy was 26 years old and the woman was 24 years old.
Because he is not young, it can be said that from the beginning, the guy has held the purpose of marriage and devoted himself wholeheartedly to the woman.
The young man's family background is not good, it is a rural family. He himself works on the construction site and earns hard-earned money.
Due to work reasons, coupled with a relatively honest personality, the guy's love experience is almost zero. Only know how to be obedient and give unconditionally.
The woman undoubtedly grasped this point of the young man, from the beginning of the tentative small gift, small transfer.
Little by little, it developed to ask for money during the festival and receive gifts every day. The number of transfers has increased from tens and hundreds at the beginning to thousands or tens of thousands.
Almost every day, women send countless links to their products, asking men to pay for them. At its peak, there were 22 in a day.
And for payment, the woman asks for second payment. If the guy didn't see it because of his work, didn't reply in time, or said that he didn't have enough money, he hadn't paid his salary, etc., he would be scolded by the woman.
In the words, mixed with all kinds of vulgar swear words, not to say, is the PUA man a dead man? That's it? The donkeys of the production team are more capable than you! If you don't have any money, it's better to die and so on.
At first, the guy would retort a few words, saying don't scold him like that. But in exchange for more intense insults from the woman, she gave up.
And that's not all, women not only ask for all kinds of large gifts, tens of thousands of bags. He would also ask the man for money anytime and anywhere in various names, and the man would let him borrow it if he didn't have it. Even if it's early in the morning, I can't help but think of a way for her now, otherwise we will break up.
In the case of large-value transfers, not only the amount is required, but it must be more than 3,000. At the same time, it must also have a meaning, such as 3344, 5200. If the number is not enough, or the meaning is not enough, it has to be reissued. And, I have to note that for love!
In this way, the guy paid a total of 330,000 unilaterally for the woman in three years!
On the other hand, the woman asked for money and gifts when chatting, and insulted PUA. But when it comes to meeting and getting married, they are silent.
spent 330,000 yuan in three years, but only met five times. Every time he said something good, he prevaricated for various reasons. Even the mobile phone that the guy specially bought was picked up when she went downstairs to throw out the garbage.
For the guy's reasonable requests for normal meetings, dating, etc., the woman refused on the grounds that she was not available, and you were too poor to take a shot.
As for getting married, you can, but you have to take 280,000 bride price to see the strength first, otherwise you don't have to talk about it. That's it, because the guy really couldn't take out the money, he was permanently blocked by the woman!
The point of view says:
After watching this series of experiences of the guy, I only felt extremely suffocated and depressed.
What the hell is this about falling in love? Or did you talk about an uncle, a creditor? Is the guy a boyfriend, or is it a pure ATM that doesn't even deserve his name?
Some netizens sighed with emotion, thinking that the fat cat was an example, and Tan Zhu was also an example. Unexpectedly, both sides represent a group!
In this group, boys are generally simple, with little scheming and love experience. However, the girls are all step-by-step, calculating, with the purpose of hollowing out and squeezing out the boys!
They only have endless demands for men. When you find that there is no use value for any day, kick it away. It's as if the other party is just an item, just a credit card with a limit, and that's it.
In the process, in order to achieve his own purpose, he kept the spirit of PUA. For fear that the man will wake up and be unable to control it.
Seriously, is this really love? Is there even the slightest trace of emotion in this? No!
At present, the guy has sued the woman, and the court has also given a judgment that the guy needs to return about 270,000. But the woman has not returned it so far, and no one can be contacted. According to the court, the woman also has no enforceable property in her name.
It is conceivable that the long road for money in the future will be very difficult.
However, this incident also made a reference for the fat cat incident. First of all, through legal means, it is possible to get the money back, and secondly, it also warns those who don't use their hearts, be good people, and don't use their own cleverness to challenge the bottom line of the law.