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The "accident" of a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province stemmed from a seemingly insignificant number - 28,800.
This is not a lavish bride price or dowry, but a so-called "drop-off fee", but at a critical moment, it becomes an insurmountable gap between the couple and the two families.
On the wedding day, the bride slowly got out of the car in anticipation, which was supposed to be one of the happiest moments of her life.
At this moment, the bride's best friend suddenly stood up and asked the groom for 28,800 yuan for getting off the bus.
This sudden request made the atmosphere of the scene freeze instantly, the groom and both families felt caught off guard, and the bride seemed to be affected by her best friend's words, and insisted on getting the money before she could get out of the car.
In his astonishment, the groom tries to communicate with the bride and his girlfriends, hoping that they will understand that this is a festive occasion and that the wedding should not be made unpleasant because of money.
The bride and her best friend were unusually resolute in their attitude, refusing to get out of the car without getting the money, and when the two sides were at a stalemate, the groom made a surprising decision - he decided not to continue with the wedding.
This decision shocked everyone present, and the originally festive wedding scene became silent.
The bride and her best friend didn't seem to expect the groom to make such a choice, and they froze in place, at a loss.
Afterwards, the bride seems to realize her mistake, she regrets her impulsiveness and her best friend's misdirection, and decides to bring her parents to the door to apologize to the groom.
The groom and his family did not accept the apology, believing that the bride's behavior at the wedding had seriously hurt their feelings and dignity and could not be remedied by a simple apology.
The groom's family also made a request to return the bride price and three gold medals previously given to the bride.
This request was very difficult for the bride and her family, who knew that they were at the expense of the bride price, but the return of the bride price and the three gold also meant that the wedding was a complete failure, which would have a great impact on the bride's reputation and family.
The "accident" of this wedding quickly attracted widespread attention on social platforms.
Netizens have expressed their opinions and comments, and some think that the bride and girlfriends are too much to make such a request at the wedding.
Others believe that the groom's decision is too impulsive and that the bride should be given a chance to correct her mistakes.
In the "accident" of this wedding, we can't help but think about a question: why does a small drop-off fee cause such a big storm? What kind of social phenomena and human weaknesses are hidden behind this?
We have to see that the "accident" of this wedding is not accidental, in today's society, money and material interests have penetrated into all aspects of people's lives, and even become the standard for measuring the depth of interpersonal relationships and feelings in some cases.
In this context, some people may act irrationally out of momentary greed or vanity, hurting the feelings and dignity of others.
We must also see that the "accident" of this wedding reflects the entanglement and contradiction of people in the face of choice.
On the special occasion of a wedding, the bride and her best friend may be overly demanding because of the impulse; And the groom, when faced with such a request, may also overreact because of face and dignity.
This kind of entanglement and contradiction will not only make the parties feel pain and confusion, but also make the bystanders feel regret and helplessness.
We also need to recognize that the "accident" of this wedding has a profound impact on the parties and the families involved.
For the bride and groom, they may lose their trust and affection for each other because of the failure of this wedding, and for both families, they may have conflicts and estrangements because of the failure of this wedding.
This impact can not only cause pain and remorse for the person concerned, but also cause serious damage to their family and social relationships.
In the "accident" of this wedding, we may be able to draw some lessons and inspirations from it, and we need to make it clear that money and material benefits are not the only criteria for measuring the depth of relationships and feelings.
We should focus on cultivating healthy, equal, and respectful interpersonal relationships, so that feelings can become the bond between people, and we should learn to remain calm and rational in the face of choices.
We should weigh the pros and cons, avoid making irrational decisions on the spur of the moment, and recognize the impact and consequences of our actions on others.
In the face of the "accident" of this wedding, we can't help but think deeply: how to find that balance in the interweaving of interpersonal relationships and emotions? When money and emotions collide, how do we choose?
As the bride's best friend, you should have given the bride blessings and support in her happiest moments, instead of embarrassing the whole wedding because of personal greed.
If I am the bride's best friend, I will communicate with the bride in depth beforehand to understand the customs and family situation of both parties, and avoid making excessive demands at the wedding scene.
Even if there is a custom or need, I will communicate with the groom and his family in a gentler and more rational way to negotiate a mutually acceptable solution.
As the groom's family, in the face of the excessive demands of the bride and best friend, they chose not to compromise and upheld their dignity and principles.
This kind of persistence is worthy of recognition, but in the process of processing, it can also be more rational and tolerant.
If I were the groom's family, I would try to communicate with the bride and her girlfriends to understand their true thoughts and motivations and see if I could find a mutually acceptable solution.
I also take into account the feelings of the newcomer and avoid putting the newcomer through too much stress and pain because of the impulse.
Although the "accident" of this wedding caused great pain and loss to both parties and both families, it also brought us a profound enlightenment: in interpersonal relationships and relationships, we need to be more rational, tolerant and respectful of others.
Only in this way can we establish healthy, equal and harmonious interpersonal relationships and make our lives better.
In the face of the "accident" of this wedding, we can't help but think deeply: how to find that balance in the interweaving of interpersonal relationships and emotions? When money and emotions collide, how do we choose?
As the bride's best friend, you should have given the bride blessings and support in her happiest moments, instead of embarrassing the whole wedding because of personal greed.
If I am the bride's best friend, I will communicate with the bride in depth beforehand to understand the customs and family situation of both parties, and avoid making excessive demands at the wedding scene.
Even if there is a custom or need, I will communicate with the groom and his family in a gentler and more rational way to negotiate a mutually acceptable solution.
As the groom's family, in the face of the excessive demands of the bride and best friend, they chose not to compromise and upheld their dignity and principles.
This kind of persistence is worthy of recognition, but in the process of processing, it can also be more rational and tolerant.
If I were the groom's family, I would try to communicate with the bride and her girlfriends to understand their true thoughts and motivations and see if I could find a mutually acceptable solution.
I also take into account the feelings of the newcomer and avoid putting the newcomer through too much stress and pain because of the impulse.
Although the "accident" of this wedding caused great pain and loss to both parties and both families, it also brought us a profound enlightenment: in interpersonal relationships and relationships, we need to be more rational, tolerant and respectful of others.
Only in this way can we establish healthy, equal and harmonious interpersonal relationships and make our lives better.