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In the second season of "Brother Who Overcame Difficulties", which will be broadcast in 2022; Zhang Zhilin, who is a contestant, confessed to his wife Yuan Yuyi through the show during a performance;
The two had a romantic wedding on stage.
Confessing to a wedding in front of the camera is not the first time for the couple Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yuyi.
Although this time they were also questioned for hype, more people still sighed:
This is really a fairy couple.
In the more than 20 years of marriage, Anita Yuen and Zhang Zhilin have always been close to each other, and the media has taken pictures of their intimate travel.
For this old husband and wife, everyone seems to have become accustomed to them sprinkling sugar publicly.
But when the same thing is done many times, it is always inevitable that there will be controversy.
Since the wedding was held on the stage of Phi Ge, all kinds of speculation about the couple have also followed, some people say that they have long been inseparable from each other, and the continuous show of affection is also for business needs.
Some people also say that the loving couple is the character carefully created by these two artists.
In fact, from the time the two of them announced their relationship, the voice of not optimistic about them has always existed.
But even so, they have been happily married for more than 20 years.
If the love between them is all performed, then this kind of performance is too real and too long.
A golden man and a girl who became acquainted with the play
Marriage to someone in the circle is not uncommon for celebrities, but many celebrity couples are going around and around but are their own companions after all, and there are very few who have been together for many years but are still in love.
Yuan Yuyi and Zhang Zhilin are a couple.
At the beginning, these two also fell in love because of the play.
In 1992, when filming a drama, Yuen Yuyi, as the heroine, met Zhang Zhilin, who was a supporting actor.
In fact, before this, Yuan Yuyi had seen Zhang Zhilin on TV, and she also sighed that this boy was so handsome.
After getting acquainted because of work, the two had more contact, and there was no distance between them, and the intimate feeling was like knowing each other for many years.
But it's a pity that they both had beautiful women by their side at that time, and even if the two had a good impression of each other, they could only hide it in their hearts.
It wasn't until they each ended their relationship at that time that they slowly moved closer to each other, and the two people who both had feelings and righteousness came together in this way.
In 1993, Zhang Zhilin made this relationship public at the concert, and Yuan Yuyi on stage was also moved to tears.
It's just that at that time, most people were depressed about this relationship.
Of all the cacophony, the harshest is their status mismatch.
In 1991, Anita Yuen debuted as the champion of Miss Hong Kong, and her career has entered a booming stage since then.
Only two years after her debut, she won the very important Academy Award for Best Newcomer.
Subsequently, he also won the Golden Statue for two consecutive years, and this honor was only one at that time.
Compared with Yuan Yuyi, whose career is developing smoothly, Zhang Zhilin belongs to the relatively weak side.
Also in 1991, Zhang Zhilin officially debuted as a singer, although his first song won the bronze award of the most popular newcomer award, but compared with Yuan Yuyi, he was at a disadvantage.
So when the two came together, some people speculated that Zhang Zhilin did this to make himself more popular and purely eat soft rice.
Such gossip once affected their feelings, but it failed to break them apart.
In 2001, the two officially registered their marriage.
But at that time, in order not to let media reporters lead him by the nose, Zhang Zhilin did not choose to hold a grand wedding in public, and it was said that the two exchanged rings on the way to travel.
Such a hasty confirmation of the relationship between husband and wife also made Yuan Yuyi cry and laugh.
But such a "casual" wedding tied them to each other for more than 20 years.
23 years of marriage
But is their relationship consistent?
Even after the two got married, rumors about their marriage change continued, and at that time, Zhang Zhilin's career gradually kept up, and the two were indistinguishable, but Zhang Zhilin's lace news was also increasing.
As Zhang Zhilin's wife, Yuan Yuyi cannot be completely indifferent, but Zhang Zhilin will patiently explain to her that this is just a trick hyped by the media.
In fact, he and Yuan Yuyi have never had two hearts in all these years of marriage, and he has put almost all his thoughts on his wife.
Anita Yuen also knows her husband's personality, so she would rather believe what others say than the person next to her.
So later, when talking about Zhang Zhilin's various scandals of "recruiting peach blossoms", Yuan Yuyi could also laugh and ridicule.
In addition to her husband being too attractive, another factor that everyone was worried about at that time that their marriage would not last long was that Yuan Yuyi's temper was notoriously stinky.
It is said that when Yuan Yuyi was still a newcomer, she offended director Wang Jing and scolded her, and Wu Junru, who has always been quite good, also admitted that she wanted to beat Yuan Yuyi at the beginning.
Not only that, when Anita Yuen first entered the filming, she was late to the set because of her bad attitude;
let Jackie Chan wait for a long time and rot his reputation, and as soon as he became famous, there was a scandal about playing a big name, and Yuan Yuyi can be regarded as a murderer.
It is precisely because everyone understands his temper that many people feel that Zhang Zhilin cannot tolerate such a wife after marriage.
But in fact, their marriage has always been sweet and happy, they have always held each other's hands firmly, and have never had the idea of giving up.
Even in the face of the black history of Yuan Yuyi being adopted, Zhang Zhilin can respond generously, I was also very bad before, and I regret not knowing her earlier and protecting her.
Not long after Anita Yuen's debut, there were rumors of wealthy businessmen taking care of her, and Anita Yuen also admitted it to the public many years later.
When she was young and ignorant, she really thought that the other party really loved her and would take care of her for the rest of her life.
At that time, she was also greedy for that kind of princess life, even if the other party had a wife.
But such a day became sober after a year or two, and after being with Zhang Zhilin, she did not avoid or hide this history.
It wasn't until many years later that the two were mentioned again in the interview, and Anita Yuen still couldn't let go of the fact that the voices of the media at that time hurt Zhang Zhilin, and she would rather everything come to herself.
To truly love someone is to be honest with each other about everything, even those not so bright pasts, Yuan Yuyi did it, and Zhang Zhilin, as her husband, also accepted and understood the immature thoughts of the girl back then.
A model couple who don't want to be a model
Over the years, when the title of model couple has continued to accompany the two, Zhang Zhilin said that he is not willing to be such an example or example, and he wants everyone to know that his marriage with Yuan Yuyi is not perfect.
They are all extraordinary people, and they all have things that the other can't accept.
For example, Yuan Yuyi will hardly take care of him, will not cook for himself, and will not take the initiative to pinch his shoulders when he is tired.
And he also has some shortcomings, Yuan Yuyi also mentioned that Zhang Zhilin does not understand romance, and sometimes he is cold and violent.
But such a couple who have shortcomings in each other, and a marriage with trivial contradictions does not really break up their feelings.
Because there was no grand wedding that year, Zhang Zhilin also felt that he had always owed something to his wife, so he later proposed to his wife twice on the show and held a wedding with Yuan Yuyi.
Knowing that his wife likes Hermes' bags, Zhang Zhilin will prepare the limited edition bag she has in mind on Anita Yuen's birthday;
Maybe the money to buy the bag is a drop in the bucket for them, but this friendship proves the unshakable bond between them.
Being like-minded with your husband is the foundation of a happy marriage.
Yuan Yuyi deeply understands this sentence, from love to marriage to staying together for more than 20 years, they have always worked hard in one place, no matter how noisy the outside world is, they have managed that precious marriage and relationship with their hearts.
Nine out of ten of the photos taken by the media are holding hands, and they may no longer be strangers to each other's hands, but they still feel touched when they hold each other.
Marriage will bring a lot of changes to a person, and Anita Yuen has gradually changed her personality in marriage;
Although she is still hot-tempered, she also knows that looking at her husband's face, she will also become obedient when Zhang Zhilin is obviously unhappy.
In addition, she has been enjoying the care of her husband's servant for many years, which has made Anita Yuen less and less independent.
Zhang Zhilin once said frankly that Anita Yuen has to bring her own underwear when filming alone.
When she goes to bed at night, she has to hold her husband's clothes and smell his smell to sleep peacefully, which has been a habit formed for decades.
Someone once asked Zhang Zhilin, what is your fear?
Zhang Zhilin's answer was short and direct: she died.
When a person's greatest fear comes not from their own death, but from the loss of their loved one, they have reached the highest level of affection.
Perhaps because of this, Zhang Zhilin said that it was also a misfortune to meet her.
Because of Yuan Yuyi, he realized the responsibility of love and marriage, but it was precisely because of such a person that he loved deeply that he had weakness and fear.
When the two participated in the show, the program team set up a scene with only 24 hours left in their lives, and the couple thought carefully about their true feelings in the last moments of their lives.
Zhang Zhilin also smiled and said that if he really wants to leave, the most reassuring thing is Yuan Yuyi, if he can only ask the last sentence, he wants to ask Yuan Yuyi if the money is enough?
If he says it's enough, he'll be at ease.
Even if it was a hypothetical scenario, it made them really imagine what it would be like when that day came, and even after living together for more than 20 years, they still felt that it was not enough.
When love reaches a certain level, selfishness becomes selflessness, just like Zhang Zhilin said, if one day Yuan Yuyi doesn't love himself anymore, he can also accept the other party's departure calmly;
Because true love is not to take the other person for yourself, but to see her happy and happy.
For Yuan Yuyi, she is the same, after Zhang Zhilin told him that if he left first, he hoped that someone would continue to take care of Yuan Yuyi for him, but Yuan Yuyi said that she didn't want anyone except Zhang Zhilin.
There is hardly any marriage in this world that is absolutely perfect, but even if there are quarrels and contradictions, husband and wife can still firmly hold each other's hands and be determined to go on, which is the highest state of real marriage.
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Text: Liu Chuntong
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