Text/Flying Fish
50 years old is actually not old for men, although half of life has passed, but many men's careers have begun to stabilize after the age of 50, and have even succeeded and achieved financial freedom.
For men, when their careers and wealth are accumulated, in fact, desires also begin to emerge, and it is also possible for some men to want to satisfy their desires by finding passion outside of marriage.
For most ordinary men, in fact, the emotional need has always been there, after the age of fifty, maybe they don't have a partner, maybe their wife and they have divorced, and if you want to find it again, the right to pursue happiness is still possible.
At this stage, some men no longer want to remarry, so they want to raise their children to grow up and grow old alone.
For many men who want to find a woman after the age of 50, or get married, or be lovers together, it is nothing more than these three reasons, which are very realistic.
1. Emotional needs, longing for the warmth of the family.
After the age of 50, men still want to find a woman to be a companion, a big reason is that they are very lonely in their hearts, and they want to find someone to live with and run a warm family together.
When a man meets a woman, sees that she is very gentle, very virtuous, and takes care of children, he knows that this woman can bring him the warmth of the family, this kind of emotion, in fact, men crave, so they want to find another woman to manage the marriage together, hoping to get warmth for the rest of their lives.
After the age of fifty, if there is no woman around him, he is actually very lonely in his heart, and there is no one who can tell him with peace of mind about many things, and no one knows the cold and the hot, and there is no woman in the house, all of them are cold and have no temperature.
Therefore, the warmth that men desire in their hearts is to meet a woman who treats each other sincerely and sincerely, to enter into marriage again, and to live a down-to-earth life together.
Shakespeare said, "In old age, the body may become cold, but the mind is still on fire." ”
Fifty-year-old men, they long for someone to be by their side, they can share their joys, sorrows and sorrows with them, and manage the sweetness and warmth of life together, which are the norm of life.
Second, self-worth affirmation, women need to worship themselves.
In fact, after some men reach the age of 50, they have money, career, house, and many assets, and their partners at home don't understand themselves at all, and even can't get along with themselves, and their feelings have become very cold, and there is no passion in life.
A man with money and career, even after the age of fifty, still wants to find a young and beautiful woman, that is, to conquer his own desires, there is a woman who can rely on himself, be gentle with himself, and admire himself, then he feels a sense of accomplishment.
But at the same time, the relationship after marriage actually has a price, once you let your partner know, maybe your money and career are gone, the family is scattered, and the young woman finally leaves, which is really realistic.
3. He is lazy and wants a woman to take care of him.
There is a kind of man who can't do without the care of a woman, even if his wife dies, it won't take long for him to find a woman as a partner again, and he won't miss his deceased wife at all, he just wants a woman to take care of his three meals a day in his life, someone makes meals for himself, and someone warms his bed, which is the most important thing.
Men just want to find a woman who can take care of themselves in the name of marriage, even if they don't love it, it doesn't matter, just like Lao Ding in "Parents Love", he actually doesn't love Dehua, after the death of his wife, he found Dehua to marry, in fact, he knows that Dehua does housework well, can cook, can take care of him, and can also take care of his children, so he marries her, let her be a housewife, take care of this family, not because of love.
In Lao Ding's heart, he longed to find a woman like the "White Lotus", knowledgeable, gentle and beautiful, but in the end he found an ordinary woman like Dehua, in fact, he just wanted someone to take care of him for the rest of his life.
Of course, every man has the right to pursue his own happiness, but in the face of feelings, he still has to maintain a sincere heart, people are mutual, and only by treating each other sincerely can he exchange for true affection.
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