Text/Flying Fish
I believe that many people are full of expectations from the beginning of marriage, wanting to be happy in this life, and also believing that they have found the right person, can pamper themselves, and give themselves a lot of love and happiness.
But time is passing, people are gradually changing, nothing is eternal, love also has a shelf life, maybe after middle age, your partner will start to not love you.
After middle age, in fact, we should not put too much expectation on the other party, do not overestimate our position in the heart of the pillow person, do not overestimate your pillow person, maybe the other party has been planning for a long time and wants to leave you.
Whether before or after marriage, we must remain independent, even financially independent, do not discard our own value and ability to make money, do not lose ourselves, do not always revolve around our partner, but have our own work things.
After middle age, don't overestimate the person next to your pillow, there are two things you have to keep an eye on.
1. When people reach middle age, the people next to them are very busy.
In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, at this stage of middle age, anyone who has a job will actually be very busy.
And those who have nothing to do at home, of course, are very idle.
When your pillow person is very busy with work, but always goes home on time, will not miss all the anniversaries with you, and is not easy to miss family days, parent-child days, it means that it is a very good partner.
Once your partner is abnormal, you suddenly find that he doesn't like to go home, or always makes excuses not to come back for dinner, and starts to come home late, all you say is socializing, all overtime, all busy work.
But in fact, he is still busy with work, but he can still come back on time, and when he compares it, he finds that something is wrong.
Some people are actually looking for work as an excuse to spend their time and energy on others, instead of going home to accompany you and your children, then you have to see clearly, maybe your pillow person is already outside, so it will become more busy, often do not go home to eat, often make excuses to come back very late, so that you don't have to wait for him to sleep.
After people reach middle age, don't overestimate your relationship with the person next to you, even if you are a husband and wife, you may fall in love with someone else because of a long time and a weakened relationship, thus betraying yourself.
When a person's heart is no longer with you, and his mind is no longer on you, you have to pay attention to it.
Second, when you reach middle age, the person next to you does not communicate and share with you.
When people reach middle age, in fact, the relationship between husband and wife will enter a stable period, so that two people will believe in each other more, and have regarded each other as the most important person around them, no matter what they encounter, they will consider each other's feelings, and they will discuss with each other, what good things they have, or what things at work will be shared with their partners, such a married life, in fact, will live a very happy life, and it also shows that each other is true love, and will go through this life together.
But there are also couples after middle age, they begin to have nothing to say, and there is no sharing and communication, only themselves, only think about themselves, and when they encounter things, they also make their own decisions, without discussion, which will make people feel that there is an emotional crisis between husband and wife.
There are many people who end the relationship between husband and wife in less than seven years, because after a long time, the relationship cannot stand the test, there is nothing to say between husband and wife, and a marriage without communication and sharing is difficult to maintain in the end.
After people reach middle age, some people have begun to get tired of their partners and live a very boring and boring life, so that once they meet a different person, they begin to change their hearts, and finally put their feelings on others, holding their mobile phones to communicate with others, sharing, but maintaining no communication with their pillow people, and the relationship between husband and wife has reached such a situation, indicating that the relationship has come to an end.
People's hearts will change, once you are no longer in the heart of your pillow, then you have to pay attention, but also keep a heart eye for yourself, keep your property, maybe the other party has been planning to leave you for a long time and take away all your property, so you have to be cautious.
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