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Hospitalization and actively cooperating with treatment is the right way to go, and causing extraneous complications will only complicate the situation. Since being sick and hospitalized is a bad thing, it must be prevented from spreading thousands of miles from the root.
First, the money is easy to repay, but the favor is difficult to repay.
Sick and hospitalized to tell outsiders, hearsay outsiders will come to visit, out of human sophistication, naturally will not be empty-handed, while causing a negative impact on rest, will also owe a debt that is difficult to repay. And gifts are not practical and will take up limited space in the ward.
Netizen message: During my hospitalization, I was simply unaware, so as to avoid being sent to the hospital, not only did not have to owe favors, but also recuperated in the ward with peace of mind. I know very well that among the various kinds of personal debts, the personal debts owed by being sick and hospitalized are the most difficult to repay, after all, we can't expect outsiders to get sick, and if outsiders are sick, if they hide their illness, it will be far away to pay off the personal debts.
Comments: Hospitalization is already anxious, and it is inappropriate to record it with a gift list, which leads to confusion. Even if you think about it, there will be omissions, and the spirit will suffer more than the physical pain.
Second, apart from parents, there are very few people who really show concern.
When the news of illness and hospitalization is known to outsiders, different outsiders will react differently, some outsiders will sympathize or pity, and some outsiders will gloat or add fuel to the fire.
Netizen message: I have heard and witnessed the leakage of patients who are sick and hospitalized, and I have finally seen that people who are hot are not afraid of big things. Outsiders who have had grievances with patients in the past and have a grudge against patients in recent days will wish that the patients are hopeless. Even if the patient's condition has improved, they will chase after the wind and create rumors, either that the patient is critically ill or that the patient has passed away.
Comments: Hospitalization means an accident, no matter how big the accident is, it is at best a story for outsiders, and people who care about it will build their happiness on the pain of the patient, and use the pain of the patient to contrast the relative happiness.
3. What cannot be seen directly, except for the sun, is human nature.
Hospitalization requires a stable mentality and internal worries to eliminate external problems. If you tell outsiders, when the experience of the tree falls and scatters, it will hit the spiritual pillar hard, whether it is the fox friends and dog friends who avoid it, or the wine and meat friends fall into the well, whether the human relationship is warm or cold, or the world is hot and cold, it will be harmful to the recovery of the body.
Netizen message: I have seen the evil of human nature, some people are sick and hospitalized, and they originally needed money, but they didn't want to pay back their foreign debts. The debtor wishes that the creditor will die of illness, and then it will become a dead account, not to mention the betrayal and separation of relatives and friends, in the final analysis, they are either afraid of being borrowed, or they are afraid of being borrowed, and they will do whatever it takes to draw a clear line.
Comments: Even if you let outsiders pay off their debts, you will hide your illness as much as possible, trying to test the humanity of outsiders, nine times out of ten you will not get warmth, but indifference, if the mentality collapses, the precarious body will be worse.
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