Author: Peanut
Unexpectedly, the first big melon they ate after May Day was actually their official divorce.
On May 2, actor Guo Jinan suddenly announced his divorce on social platforms, saying that he and his wife Ouyang Yi had begun to separate two years ago, and now the two parties have decided to divorce after careful consideration and communication.
How many people pay attention to the audience in the Hong Kong circle The first reaction when they saw this news was: Ah? You're actually divorced?!
It's hard not to be surprised.
After all, the couple was really sweet before.
For those who like Hong Kong dramas, Guo Jinan must be no stranger.
Guo Jinan, who has won the Emperor of Vision three times, was ridiculed as a "fool professional", and the image of the fool he played in "Jackie Chan" and "The New Biography of Ngawang" is very deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
And his wife Ou Qianyi is also an actor in TVB.
She played the brutal Wan Lijun in "Xiucai Meets Soldiers", and played the role of Red Boy in "Journey to the West". However, more people are familiar with the theme song "There are many problems every day" she sang for the cartoon "Cherry Maruko".
The two worked together at TVB, and their fate had to start from 1999.
This year, Guo Jinan accidentally met Ou Qianyi, who was 15 years younger than him, because of work.
Perhaps it was love at first sight, and the two started their 7-year long-distance love run.
In 2006, the two registered their marriage.
And after marriage, the story of the two is also very sweet.
Guo Jinan once spent a lot of money to buy a mansion for his mother-in-law.
During the epidemic, he specially brought his wife to the show, because he was afraid that the other party would be too boring.
Even the two have always shared an account on social platforms.
This 26-year-long relationship can be called a model couple for TVB.
But no one expected that they would end up dismally.
Divorce though unexpected.
But looking back at the past between them now, there are actually traces to follow.
The two have always had a disagreement.
Guo Jinan has always hoped that the woman can take good care of the family, while Ou Qianyi hopes that she can continue to work and prove her worth in her career.
As early as 2006, Ouyang Qian, who finished filming her last drama in TVB, had an idea, she felt that she should be able to do other things besides filming.
So, Ou Qianyi, who loves food, began her culinary journey.
She began to take the time to cook, make desserts, and even published two cookbooks.
Ou Qianyi is obviously serious about this as her career, and for this reason, she also began to study nutrition.
When she was studying, Ou Qianyi's score in the entrance examination was only 5 points.
So, in order to study better, Ou Qianyi, who has a weak knowledge base, also went to the basic class and diploma course to pave the way.
When everything was ready, she went on to study for an advanced diploma in nutrition.
In an interview last year, Au happily told the media that she had obtained a master's degree in nutrition from the University of Hong Kong.
And now, if we look at Ou Qianyi's information, we will find that on a certain social media, she labels herself with all relevant information about nutrition.
It can be seen that she is not a former actor of TVB in her own position.
Not someone's mom.
Not even someone's wife.
All she wants and wants to be is nutritionist Ou Qianyi.
- How nice it is, she became who she wanted to be.
It's no wonder that everyone is not only surprised by their divorce, but also more blessings.
A woman's divorce may be news.
But what is more noteworthy in this news is that although this woman is divorced, she has found the life she wants.
Her divorce is not so much the end as the beginning of another life.
It's really good.
Divorce is good for Ou Qianyi.
But for Guo Jinan, it may not be.
Guo Jinan expressed very frankly on the show that he hoped that Ou Qianyi would take care of him at home.
In fact, "wanting someone to take care of yourself" is the main motivation for many people to step into marriage with one foot in the first step.
When this motivation is a little more utilitarian, then what it deduces is Su Min's life.
Who is Su Min?
She is the woman who was forced by her husband to choose to travel by car.
Su Min's husband Du Cheng is a typical example of "wanting someone to take care of himself".
In Su Min's memory, her husband is like this:
When I got home from work, I watched TV on the sofa, and I didn't do any housework, so I waited for my wife to cook and call him to eat.
Su Min didn't ask Du Cheng for help.
Once, the light pull switch at home was broken, and Su Min asked Du Cheng to repair it.
But Su Min urged him several times, and Du Cheng shirked and said that he would go next time.
In the end, Su Min had no choice but to step on the chair and do it himself.
You may think that he is just not responsible for housework, but in fact, Du Cheng did not shoulder the family's expenses.
Du Cheng and Su Min's expenses at home have always been AA system, and even in terms of individual expenditures, Du Cheng will let Su Min take the lead.
In 2006, their children went to college.
Du Cheng only paid for living expenses, and he asked his children to ask Su Min for living expenses, which were more expensive.
At that time, Su Min's monthly income was only more than 1,000, but she still had to give her children five or six hundred.
What makes people even more angry is that Du Cheng has never fulfilled his husband's obligations, but he has always emphasized his husband's power.
He cares about Su Min's walking posture, he doesn't let Su Min cross his legs, he asks Su Min to wear a skirt that must be above the knees, and he doesn't even let Su Min wear white shoes because he thinks it's unlucky.
Once Su Min talked to a neighbor about the family planning policy, and he also beat Su Min on the grounds that his wife had no boundaries when she spoke.
In 2020, Su Min, who couldn't stand it, chose to escape from this suffocating marriage by car.
However, when the reporter turned the camera and pointed at Du Cheng who stayed at home, the only thing he anxiously wanted to know was:
What if she really doesn't take care of me?
He wasn't thinking about his wife.
Just a hard-working, free and easy-to-use babysitter.
What he cares about is not his marriage or Su Min's safety.
It's whether there is anyone to take care of you for the rest of your life.
He treats marriage as a business, and he treats his wife as a nanny.
As his wife, Su Min is so pathetic!
But what's even more sad is that there are many Du Cheng in this world, but not all of them have the courage to travel by car.
In "Thirty Only", Chen Yu blurted out when he quarreled with Zhong Xiaoqin:
It is said that marriage is a safe haven, who doesn't get married to live a down-to-earth life?
Chen Yu's sentence disappointed his wife Zhong Xiaoqin.
She couldn't help but sneer:
Everyone wants to take shelter from the wind, who will be the port!
How many people's hearts did Zhong Xiaoqin's words speak?
Yes, who wants to be a port?
Who doesn't want to take shelter from the bottom of their hearts?
But if everyone chooses to stay in their comfort zone, then who will fight this family?
Sooner or later, it will blow the wind down!
Therefore, when you enter marriage, you should have the consciousness of being a safe haven.
The proposition of marriage should never be who gives safe haven to whom, but both parties to each other as a safe haven.
I once heard such a warm love saying:
I'm willing to love you against my instincts.
What is human instinct?
It's selfishness, it's self-survival, it's self-development, it's many, many ......
But many, many, without exception, they are self-interested and exclusive.
So this quote is heartwarming – human nature is selfish, but love makes me willing to put you first.
So here I would like to give you a piece of advice.
When getting married.
If that person makes you willing to go for the sake of the TA as a port;
If that person is willing to go to Hong Kong for you.
- If you can confirm both of these points, then go and get married.
Life is not easy, so we should find a suitable partner and should also be a qualified partner.
Only in this way, even if the long road is difficult, can always be full of joy.
May you find happiness, and may you make people happy!
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