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Introduction: On Mother's Day, after receiving 2,000 yuan from my son, I decided to recover my savings and live in a hotel for the elderly
My name is Wang Limei, some time ago, my sister passed away suddenly, and I was immersed in endless grief and took care of her funeral. She left too suddenly, and many things were too late to be explained.
Among them, the most headache for me is the tens of thousands of dollars in her card, which is quite troublesome to take out. Looking at my nephew's anxious look, I couldn't help but think of myself. If I also leave suddenly, how will my son deal with all this?
So, I called my son home and explained to him in detail the location of the bank card, the password, and the storage of other change at home. At the time, my son didn't seem to care, thinking that I was making a big fuss, and even showed a little impatience. I know that he is still too young to understand the impermanence of life and the impermanence of life.
However, it didn't take long for my fears to come true. One day, I suddenly fainted at home and was rushed to the hospital by a neighbor. When I woke up, my son excitedly told me that he had taken out the money from the card and paid for the surgery for me.
Hearing this, I had mixed feelings in my heart. On the one hand, I'm glad I was able to get through this crisis; On the other hand, I was chilled by my son's approach. I was very disappointed that he used my money to pay for the operation, but he didn't pay a penny himself.
However, I didn't blame my son too much. After all, he is my only relative, and the affection between us cannot be measured in money. So, I chose to forgive him and told him to plan his life well in the future and stop relying on me.
However, it didn't end there. Soon after, my son approached me and asked me to hand over all my savings to him. He smiled and said, "Mom, just put the money with me, and I'll save it for you."
Anyway, we're all family, you will live in my house in the future, and we will take care of each other, so it's good. Looking at my son's sincere eyes, I finally agreed to his request.
I gave all my savings to my son, about 100,000 yuan. It's not a lot of money, but it's an important guarantee for me. I originally thought that after handing over the money to my son, I would be able to retire in his home with peace of mind. However, as it turned out, I was thinking too simply.
Ever since I moved into my son's house, my daughter-in-law's attitude has become more and more cold. She often throws her face at me intentionally or unintentionally, and her speech is also weird. At first, I was reluctant to deal with her, but her behavior became more and more excessive.
Once, I had a terrible back pain and couldn't move in bed. Although my son greeted me with concern, my daughter-in-law coldly mocked me for pretending to be sick. She also deliberately made the pots and pans clang, so that I couldn't rest.
I was troubled by this situation. I didn't want to cause trouble to my son, so I could only try to put up with my daughter-in-law's indifference and meanness.
However, as time went on, I gradually understood a truth: even if I went to my son to complain about my grievances, he would not stand by my side. Because in this family, the son is more afraid of offending his daughter-in-law.
In order to be able to live in my son's house safely, I began to take the initiative to take on the housework. I sweep, mop the floor, cook, do laundry, clean glass...... Almost all the household chores are taken care of.
In this way, my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me was slightly better. But I know it's not because of how well I do it, it's because I still have value for it.
When my brother learned of my situation, he comforted me and said, "Sister, this is the way to go at my son's house. We old people, useless, in our son's house, we have to create some value for others. It's worthless, who wants to look at you?
You can still do housework, I can't even cook, and I don't have a much more cold face than you. "Hearing my brother's words, although I felt a little uncomfortable, I could only reluctantly accept the reality.
During my days at my son's house, I often felt lonely and helpless. The in-laws occasionally come to visit, and they are always warmly welcomed by their sons and daughters-in-law.
The son will invite them out to dinner or order takeout at home to entertain them. In particular, the West Lake vinegar fish that my mother-in-law likes and the Dongpo meat that my father-in-law likes will appear on the table almost every time.
However, when it was my turn, my son only symbolically asked me what I wanted to eat. Once, I made it clear that I wanted to eat braised crab, but my son casually made an excuse and refused. This apparent distinction made me feel very uncomfortable.
Actually, I can understand my son's approach. After all, the relationship between him and his in-laws is closer. Moreover, the in-laws have a pension, savings, and a few houses, and they live a good life. Although their son is not doing his job, my son has high hopes for them.
He told me many times: My father-in-law has a very good impression of me, and he has said that his son is unreliable, and he has to rely on me, the son-in-law. There is hope for our lives in the future.
However, I only saw my son keep giving them money, but I never saw them give us a penny. I was afraid that my son would be deceived, and I advised him many times not to have illusions. I told him that if people leave their own son alone, how can they let their son-in-law take advantage?
However, my son did not listen to my counsel at all. Every time I didn't finish speaking, he said with a smile: "You started to reprimand me again, I'm such a big person, do you still need to teach me?" "Can you calm me down?
His words made my heart twist like a knife, and at that moment, I seemed to have fallen into a cold abyss, and the enthusiasm in my heart was instantly extinguished. I silently endured the pain, but the thought of fleeing sprouted in my heart.
During my life at my son's house, I gradually understood the impermanence of life and the coldness of the world. I began to reflect on my past and whether I had done something wrong that led to where I am now.
However, no matter what I think, I can't change the status quo. I could only silently endure the indifference of my daughter-in-law and the ignorance of my son, and I struggled to live in this strange home.
Sometimes, I think about my sister's days when she was alive. At that time, we sisters depended on each other and faced the ups and downs of life together. Now, however, I am the only one living alone in this world.
I don't know how long it will last, and I don't know if I'll get through it. But I believe that as long as I persevere, one day I will usher in my own dawn.
His words made my heart twist: "Can you let me be quiet for a while?" At that moment, I felt as if I had fallen into a cold abyss, and the enthusiasm in my heart was instantly extinguished. I silently endured the pain, but the thought of fleeing sprouted in my heart.
I looked out the window at the sky, and my thoughts drifted into the distance. The house in my hometown, the place that was once full of laughter and laughter, has now become a pain in my heart.
I heard from my relatives that my son had rented out my old house and the rent went into his pocket, but I didn't know anything. I sighed, my heart was mixed, but I didn't blame him after all, after all, he was my only son, and blood was thicker than water, so how could I turn my face with him.
Mother's Day is approaching, and my son promised me early that he would treat me to a good meal. I smiled faintly, without expecting too much, just hoping that he would have this heart. However, on Mother's Day, I experienced an unexpected twist and turn.
Early in the morning, I woke up early and started to prepare my son's favorite dumplings stuffed with sauerkraut and pork. When I was halfway through the package, my daughter-in-law came out of the room yawning and muttered dissatisfiedly, "Mom, what are you arguing about so early?" My heart tightened, and I quickly lightened my movements, for fear of upsetting her.
Finally, the dumplings were wrapped, and I carefully put them in the refrigerator, looking forward to the surprise when my son woke up. However, when he opened the refrigerator to get something, he ignored the dumplings and left in a hurry after answering the phone. An inexplicable sense of loss welled up in my heart, had he forgotten his promise today?
At noon, my son finally returned, but he didn't explain anything to me, just hurriedly changed his clothes and went out again. I looked at his departing back, my heart full of doubts and uneasiness.
At this moment, the mobile phone rang, and it was a message from his son. He said he was too busy to invite me to dinner. I smiled reluctantly, responded a few words, and put down my phone.
However, it didn't take long for him to send me another red envelope with the phrase "Happy Mother's Day". I was stunned, this sudden red envelope caught me off guard.
Just as I was basking in joy, my son's call came again. He said in an eager tone: "Mom, I sent it to the wrong person, you can send me back the red envelope." ”
I was stunned, and the joy in my heart vanished instantly. I silently sent the red envelope back to him, but he accepted it without hesitation, and then sent me a red envelope of 200 yuan.
I held my phone in my hand, and my mind was mixed. The 2,000 yuan red envelope was originally for my mother-in-law, not for me. What am I? In his mind, what am I?
That afternoon, I lay on the couch and let the sound of the TV echo in my ears. When my daughter-in-law came back, when she saw me like this, she began to shake her face. I didn't bother to pay attention to her, and I had already lost patience with her.
When my son returned, I couldn't hold back the anger in my heart anymore. I rushed over, stared him in the eye and asked, "What about my deposit?" Bring! He was intimidated by my momentum, hesitated, and returned the money to me.
I didn't say anything more, packed up my things and left the house. As soon as I walked out of the door, I heard scolding from inside the house. I didn't look back, I just walked straight ahead. I went straight to the scenic spot and booked a room in the tourist resort hotel for a month, and I want to be kind to myself in the future.
Do you think my son and daughter-in-law are treating me too much? In other words, you are in your son's home in your later years, what will you choose to do when you encounter such treatment? #你老了愿意到儿子家养老吗?##挑战30天在头条写日记#
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