Preamble:
There is such a hot topic: Mother-in-law asks her daughter-in-law to cook 66 dishes on her 66th birthday, what should her daughter-in-law do? Netizens can reply!
1. Daughters-in-law can express filial piety in other ways
In many families, mothers-in-law seem to have a common characteristic, that is, they like to create some "tests" for their daughters-in-law, such as asking their daughters-in-law to do a lot of housework, or asking their daughters-in-law to cook some very complex dishes, etc. For such a situation, many daughters-in-law may feel very aggrieved and feel that their mother-in-law is deliberately embarrassing themselves, resulting in some resistance.
In fact, the original intention of the mother-in-law to do this is not necessarily to ask the daughter-in-law to really do so many things, but more often they may want to see the daughter-in-law's filial piety and hard work. Therefore, when the daughter-in-law is faced with such a situation, she does not need to resist excessively, but can express her filial piety in other ways, such as accompanying her mother-in-law more, or giving her mother-in-law some help in other aspects, so that her mother-in-law can feel her intentions and care, so as to alleviate the conflict between the two parties.
In fact, in real life, many times the reason for the conflict between us and our family is not that the other party really did something wrong, but because both parties have some misunderstandings and prejudices, which will cause some estrangement and contradictions. Therefore, in the family, when we face some problems, we can be more understanding and tolerant, and communicate more with our family members, so that we can better solve problems and make family relationships more harmonious.
2. Establish a clearer communication and understanding mechanism
When there is a conflict in the family, many people may think that it is okay to just communicate, but in fact, communication in the family is not a simple thing, and many times our communication can not play a good role, but will make the conflict more complicated.
Therefore, in the family, in addition to communication, we also need to think about how to avoid similar situations from happening again, and we can establish a clearer communication and understanding mechanism. For example, you can work with your family to formulate some family rules and family mottos, and clarify their respective responsibilities and obligations, so that each member of the family knows what to do, and can better avoid some conflicts.
In addition, in the family, we can also learn some effective communication skills, such as being good at listening, and learning to think from the other person's point of view, so that we can better understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and can also make the relationship between each other more harmonious.
In fact, behind the problems in the family is often the need for more care and attention, the need for more emotional exchanges and understanding between family members, only when everyone's hearts are together, can we face the problem together, solve the problem together, so that we can truly achieve family harmony and happiness.
Epilogue:
Family is everyone's warmest harbor, but also our most important reliance, how to establish a harmonious relationship in the family, in fact, we need to manage with our hearts. In real life, we may have conflicts because of some trivial things, but when we calm down and understand and tolerate each other, we will find that these contradictions are not as terrible as we imagined, but can become the driving force for our growth and progress.
Therefore, no matter what kind of problems we encounter, we should not run away, but face them bravely, and believe that as long as everyone's hearts are together, any difficulties and challenges can be overcome, and we also believe that through everyone's efforts, every family can be full of love and warmth, and can become a paradise in everyone's heart.