Starting Again: A Mother's Path to Migration
Over the course of life, we sometimes make some big decisions that can change our lives. And I, a master's student in a 985 university, used to live a stable life in a state-owned enterprise, but at the age of 37, I ushered in a small miracle in my life - my child. However, as I entered my forties, I made a decision that shocked everyone: I decided to emigrate for the sake of my children.
"Have you really decided?" My friend Xiaoling was at my house and asked me while drinking tea.
I looked at her and nodded firmly: "Yes, I have decided. I want my children to have a better environment to grow up in. ”
Xiao Ling was silent for a while, and then said, "I know that your decision must have been well thought out, I just hope you can be happy." ”
I smiled and replied, "Thank you for your understanding, I will." ”
As my immigration plan progressed, I began to feel a variety of reactions from my friends and family. Some people support me and think that I am brave enough to pursue the life I want; Others don't understand and think that I have given up a stable life to pursue an unknown future.
"Why are you doing this? Is it bad at home? "One of my relatives asked me at a family gathering.
I patiently explained: "Of course, the country is good, but I want my children to be exposed to the wider world and have more choices." ”
Despite all the doubts and difficulties, I stood by my decision. I started going through various formalities to prepare for the IELTS exam and at the same time I was looking for the right job opportunities.
"How are you preparing for IELTS?" Xiaoling asked me on the phone.
I sighed, "It's not good, after all, I haven't used English in years, but I'll try." ”
Finally, after countless days and nights of hard work, I successfully passed the IELTS exam, found a job abroad, and successfully applied for an immigrant visa. At the age of 40, I set foot on new land and started a new life with my children.
"Mom, will I adapt to life here?" The child was beside me and asked in a whisper.
I crouched down and looked him in the eye, "Yes, baby." Mom will always be with you, and we adapt together. ”
In a foreign country, my children and I faced many challenges together, but we also grew up together and explored this strange world together. I found a new job and my children quickly adapted to their new school.
"Mom, I made a new friend at school today!" The child came home from school and told me excitedly.
I smiled and hugged him, "Great, baby." Mom was also very happy. ”
"Starting Again: A Mother's Path to Migration" is a story of courage, determination, and maternal love. It teaches us that no matter how old we are, we have the ability to pursue the life we want, and that nothing is impossible with love and determination.