1. When people look back on the time that has long since passed away with the thoughts of the deceased elders, the children and grandchildren found that the seemingly ordinary old Mr. Ding has actually experienced countless helplessness and sadness in his life.
The afterglow of the setting sun softly sprinkled the courtyard of Mr. Ding's home, a family full of affection, they were gathering together, laughing and reminiscing about the elder who was no longer in the world.
At first, the life of Mr. Lao Ding that everyone discussed seemed to be limited to trivial matters such as raising children, and other than that, there were no other major events worth remembering.
However, at this moment, the boss An Jie sighed deeply, and suddenly mentioned a dusty past: "Do you still remember the day Mr. Ding passed away?" At that time, we were all so frightened, who would have thought that he would leave this world in such a strange way.
"Yes, I remember it very clearly, too." The second Yafei echoed, "The doctor told us that Mr. Ding died unfortunately due to long-term constipation that caused abdominal damage. ”
"Alas, it is this incident that makes us deeply realize that Mr. Ding's life is actually full of endless helplessness and bitterness." An Jie's grandson pondered for a moment and said.
Everyone fell silent, only Lao San Yanzu nodded lightly: "Indeed, although Mr. Lao Ding has entered his old age, he still can't pursue the ideal life of his youth as he wishes.
"Please allow me to tell you in detail about Mr. Ding's life." Yanzu said solemnly that he decided to tell the story of Mr. Lao Ding, so that the younger generation could deeply understand the hardships and helplessness of this elder.
2. Looking back on the death process of Mr. Lao Ding: Mr. Lao Ding passed away due to an illness caused by constipation, and his family reacted indifferently to this at the time.
"That morning, Mr. Ding's mood was unusually low, and the whole person seemed very taciturn." "When we asked him what happened, he just shook his head and said there wasn't anything particularly serious.
"Indeed, I was impressed by that." An Jie took over the topic, "In the evening, Mr. Lao Ding went to the bathroom, but he hasn't been seen back for a long time. I thought he might have diarrhea and didn't pay much attention to it.
"However, when dinner time approached and Mr. Ding was still nowhere to be seen, we became worried and broke into the bathroom together." Yafei couldn't help but shudder, "That scene was too terrifying, Mr. Lao Ding was slumped next to the toilet, and his eyes had lost their luster.
"I immediately summoned the village doctor, and after a detailed examination, it was revealed that Lao Ding's death was not natural, but caused by long-term severe constipation and aging, and the long-term accumulation of toxins in the stomach and intestines caused by acute poisoning and death!"
An Jie sighed deeply and recalled the shocking moment, "At that time, all of us were so shocked that we couldn't think about anything else, we just simply took care of the aftermath for Lao Ding, and didn't delve into the reason.
"However, until today, when I think back to this situation, I begin to wonder if the screenwriter gave Lao Ding such a peculiar cause of death contains some profound meaning?" Yafei said after a moment of contemplation.
The others agreed, but the younger generation looked at each other, puzzled as to why their elders were so interested in the cause of an old man's death.
3. Describe Lao Ding's inner world: Lao Ding lost his mother since he was a child, and longed to be able to spend the rest of his life with a woman with knowledge and culture, but he suffered repeated setbacks and finally chose to marry a country girl.
Seeing the doubts on his children's faces, Yanzu decided to start from the depths of Lao Ding's heart in order to let them better understand the feelings of their fathers.
"Lao Ding lost his mother when he was a child, and since then, he has had an ardent desire to have a confidant who is both talented and virtuous." Yan Zu said with a serious expression, "However, fate always seems to play tricks on people, and his first wife, Wang Xiu'e, is a completely illiterate village woman.
"I vaguely remember one time when Lao Ding tried to interpret the poem to Wang Xiu'e, but she was so ignorant that she even shook her head and said, 'These are just empty words'.
Lao Ding's mood at that time can be imagined, looking at his lost appearance, it is really distressing," An Jie added.
After Wang Xiu'e passed away, Lao Ding thought that he could finally find a partner who matched him. However, in his second marriage, he was first bewitched by the beauty tricks of the beautiful medical assistant, and finally lost to the so-called 'virtuous' of Dehua.
Yafei shrugged helplessly.
"Although Dehua is slightly better than Wang Xiu'e, it is still far from the ideal woman that Lao Ding yearns for." Yanzu sighed, "Lao Ding can only reluctantly accept the reality, and his heart that looks forward to an elegant life has become heavier and heavier under the baptism of time."
Lao Ding's grandson couldn't help but ask: "Grandpa, what kind of partner did he dream of back then?" "
"Dear child, do you know that grandpa's study, which still has a little youth left, is simply the crystallization of the wisdom of his whole life!" An Jie put his broad arm on his grandson's shoulder and said with emotion, "At that time, the study room was like a treasure trove of knowledge, which was enough to witness how enthusiastic he was about finding a wise man who could talk to him."
Fourth, Lao Ding's career difficulties: During his study at the artillery school, Lao Ding's academic performance was not ideal, and it was only thanks to the generosity of his classmate Jiang Defu that he was able to stay in school as a teacher.
"Not only marriage, but Lao Ding's career situation is also quite bumpy." Yan Zu shook his head slightly, "During that time in the artillery school, his academic performance was far behind that of his classmate Jiang Defu.
"That's true, I've seen some old photos of Lao Ding and Jiang Defu." An Jie agreed, "Lao Ding in the photo always looks confused, like an ignorant illiterate; Jiang Defu is a typical student leader, full of confidence.
"When the school decided to keep talents, there was no doubt that they chose Jiang Defu first, who had excellent grades." Yafei continued, "However, Jiang Defu selflessly gave this precious opportunity to Lao Ding, otherwise, Lao Ding might be sent to work elsewhere.
"Oh, it seems that our old Ding is extremely lucky!" An Jie laughed heartily, "What a blessed man." "
"Please don't underestimate Lao Ding." Yanzu sighed, "Although he got this rare opportunity, the path of his life after that was extremely tortuous. After being sent to that remote island, he never saw his way out, and remained there in obscurity for decades, not even holding a formal position.
"I vaguely remember that when Jiang Defu went to inspect back then, he directly commanded Lao Ding as a superior." The grandson touched his chin and recalled, "That scene was really embarrassing.
"Indeed, this fully shows how difficult and hopeless Lao Ding's career is." Yan Zu nodded with deep feeling.
5. Lao Ding's yearning for life: Lao Ding often dreams of living a leisurely life of talking about poetry and tea, but he can't realize it, and finally has to compromise with reality and live an ordinary life.
"In the final analysis, the biggest regret of Lao Ding's life is that he has not been able to experience the beauty of an elegant life." Yan Zu's expression was gloomy, "He used to be so eager to drink wine with a talented woman and talk about the past and the present.
"Yes, I vividly recall that childhood, when my grandfather always enthusiastically led us into his bookish study, where we could immerse ourselves in the unique atmosphere.
An Jie nodded deeply, "It is a whole room, full of old and precious books, and cleverly matched with a table rafter that is more and more oblique, such a unique scene, it seems to be a true portrayal of the chic and free life of the literati!" ”。
"However, it is a pity that despite Mr. Ding's elegance and taste, he cannot put it into practice." An Jie's kind grandson sighed at this, "At that time, Lao Ding might only be able to make full use of the poetry and classics around him and find fun alone."
"That's right, Mr. Ding had to postpone his ideals again and again for the sake of family responsibilities." Yanzu sighed, "When he finally had time to realize his dreams, he had already entered his old age, and he could no longer afford to pursue those former ideals."
He can only choose to accept reality and live an ordinary and ordinary life".
"It's a pity that I was originally a person with great ambitions, but I could only spend my life in mediocrity." Other audience members also expressed their sympathy.
6. The screenwriter ingeniously designed such a peculiar way of death for Mr. Ding, which is undoubtedly a spicy satire of his life's "grievances", as if symbolizing an ordinary and silent life.
"Judging from Mr. Ding's experience, he has spent almost everywhere in his life in 'grievances'." Yanzu rolled his eyes and fell into deep thought, "There is no love in marriage, there is no success in career, ideals can only be buried deep in the bottom of his heart, he lives to old age, how depressed and helpless he should be in his heart."
"There is no doubt that the screenwriter's arrangement of such a bizarre cause of death for Mr. Ding is undoubtedly a satire and criticism of his life's 'grievances'." An Jie suddenly realized.
"I see! Isn't this exactly the screenwriter ridiculing Mr. Ding for 'holding back' his strength no matter what he does in his life, and his last breath is also 'holding'? Yafei nodded knowingly.
"Indeed, it is wonderful to use this bizarre cause of death as a metaphor for the ordinary life of an ordinary person." An Jie slapped his thigh excitedly and sighed, "The screenwriter is really clever!" ”。
"Indeed, if the screenwriter was just unintentional, how could he orchestrate such a dramatic ending for Mr. Ding?" Yanzu agreed, "Although Mr. Ding's life is uneventful, it is precisely because he is too 'aggrieved' that his ending is so compelling.
"Camel Shoko is not useless, he is just an ordinary person who is under the pressure of life and whose dreams are shattered in reality!" An Jie said with emotion, "If he were in another environment, maybe he could also achieve great things!" "
The rest of the audience agreed, but the younger generation remained confused, unable to understand the profound truth of the elders.