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Hello dear friends! Do you feel that way? As soon as I talked to my parents, I was inexplicably irritable and even wanted to lose my temper. What's going on here?
Some of the real experiences shared by netizens below may give us some inspiration and insights
Me too, almost two years after graduation, and I never communicate with my parents. There is no need for communication and exchange. I don't even want to say a word to them. However, I was considered a gentle, good man in the company.
Ah, I suddenly found a lot of similar people, and I spent more than two months at home during the winter vacation, and I only got along for 10 days, and every time I had new problems and new outbreaks every two days, I was so tired that I was so tired of staying at home
I'm really exactly like you, I'm in a good mood every time, but when I call them, it takes me a long time to regulate my emotions, and their care and advice really makes me very uncomfortable and disgusted
If you like it, you will be presumptuous, but love is restraint. [tears]
Speaking of the heart, every time I want to share my feelings with my parents, they just start preaching, and at first they can cope with listening to it, and the more they grow up, the more difficult it is to continue to endure, maybe they listen too much. Now I get angry when I preach, and after I get angry, I think that I don't want to do this next time, change it, but I just can't control it. Alas, it has been integrated into the subconscious, and it is too difficult to change.
I'm the same, I'm also very remorseful when I just lose my temper with them, and sometimes I just can't control myself and don't know what to do
I cried when I saw it, I was really uncomfortable, and the majesty in my heart gradually faded when I was a child, and all that was left was my dad's stubbornness and arrogance and my mother's indifference, and they never gave me positive feedback, for example, I didn't give a good expression to my carefully prepared meals, and every time we chatted, I kept initiating topics and asking them, and they never had anything positive and optimistic to share with me, and it was always my one-way output, and I was tired, and I was very tired of finding topics, and I was even more reluctant to call when I was under pressure, and then they would call and say why I didn't answer the phone Why not contact them......
I'm exactly like you, I just can't help it, I'm very impatient with my mother, I don't do this to anyone else, and I don't mean to
I have a grudge, and so am I. Sometimes when I should hold back my temper, I think: When I was a child, they treated me like that, why should I treat them well now? It's not fair. And then let yourself be angry.
It's the same as a dime, my mother just asks me with concern, keeps asking me, I will be very annoyed, very impatient to answer, and then the next second I regret it, in fact, I love my mother super in my heart
In the same way, every time I lose my temper with my parents because of a trivial matter, I regret it later, and I even sometimes wonder if I am schizophrenia or personality defects.
Don't say that you can't be tolerant and considerate at the age of seventeen or eighteen, I'm now twenty-seven or eighteen when facing my mother, it's hard for me to do it, I know the responsibility, but the chat is really incompatible, and she constantly wants to change me with her point of view.
I am out of town, usually do not come back much, this year the child came back from the summer vacation, stayed longer, more than 20 days, I cried three or four times because of my parents. I have been suppressed by denial since I was a child, and my son is now denied by them. My whole body was messy
It's really like this, and I cry quietly every time I go home
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