Preface
In recent years, with the rise of short video platforms, more and more life stories of ordinary people have been disseminated, including some warm and positive stories, which have brought a lot of touching and inspiration to people. In these short videos, many people with disabilities also show their living conditions that are no different from ordinary people through their own efforts and strength, so that more people can understand and pay attention to the disabled group, and the society has more tolerance and understanding for them.
Recently, the story of Dong Mingying, a disabled girl from Shandong, has aroused heated discussions on the Internet, she was paralyzed because of an unfortunate experience, but with the support of her family and husband, Dong Mingying was not knocked down by fate, but with a more positive and optimistic attitude, bravely faced all kinds of difficulties in life, and finally formed a happy family of her own.
1. The growth experience of Dong Mingying, a disabled girl
Dong Mingying was born in an ordinary rural family in Rizhao City, Shandong Province, like other children, Dong Mingying has been loved by her parents since she was a child, and the warmth of the family has also made her know how to care for others, how to tolerate and understand others in the process of growing up.
When Dong Mingying was still very young, she unexpectedly suffered from a high fever, I thought it was just a small illness of the family, but I didn't expect that this high fever actually left a permanent damage to Dong Mingying's life, although after surgery, Dong Mingying's condition was relieved to a certain extent, but her limbs could no longer move, she could only curl up on the bed, unable to take care of herself all day.
Faced with such a situation, Dong Mingying's parents could choose to give up or send her to a welfare home, but they did not do so, but resolutely decided that no matter what difficulties they encountered, they would raise Dong Mingying, and even if it was in the future, they would always keep it.
It is with such tolerance and love from her parents, Dong Mingying did not feel too much inferiority and despair after her illness, but became more optimistic and strong, and they also slowly learned how to write with their mouths, how to do some simple things with their mouths, and the little fun in life also made her full of hope for the future.
2. A touching love story with her husband Feng Zhiyu
Just after Dong Mingying gradually adapted to her disabled body, she met Feng Zhiyu, who was 22 years older than herself, and the two slowly walked together, and Feng Zhiyu's appearance also made Dong Mingying's life change dramatically.
Feng Zhiyu did not choose to give up Dong Mingying because of her disability, but used his own practical actions to protect and care for this hard-won feeling, he took care of Dong Mingying meticulously, and also gave her a lot of encouragement and support in life, so that she felt the warmth from love.
Slowly, the relationship between the two people became deeper and deeper, and they also walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, forming their own small family, although life is still full of various difficulties and challenges, but with each other's company, they can fight side by side and meet everything in life together.
3. Use short videos to convey positive energy
In order to let more people understand and pay attention to the disabled group, Dong Mingying and her husband Feng Zhiyu also began to record their daily life, share their inner feelings, and use practical actions to tell everyone that in fact, people with disabilities also have the right and ability to show themselves.
Their sincerity and hard work have also won the love and support of more and more people, and the number of clicks on the short video is getting higher and higher, and more and more people are deeply moved by Dong Mingying's optimistic attitude towards life.
In addition, Dong Mingying also joined the Self-improvement Volunteer Association, and together with a group of like-minded friends, established an e-commerce live broadcast promotion station for the disabled, through live broadcast, to provide more help and support for the employment and entrepreneurship of the disabled, so that they can also make more contributions to the society with their own abilities.
epilogue
Dong Mingying's growth experience and touching love story make us deeply aware that in fact, everyone's heart lives with a brave and strong heart, no matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks we encounter, as long as we can have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, we will be able to find hope and meaning in life.
At the same time, Dong Mingying's parents also gave us a good inspiration, as ordinary people, maybe we can't choose our own destiny, but we can choose how to face fate, how to deal with all kinds of unsatisfactory in life, no matter what kind of difficulties we encounter, we can learn from them, with love and tolerance to face, with firm faith, to strive to pursue their own happiness and dreams.
I hope that the society can give more care and understanding, and give more opportunities and help to people with disabilities, so that we can work together to create a more inclusive and warm society, so that everyone can find their own piece of the sky in such a big family.