When he was young, for love, he followed his college classmates to marry away from home and went to Shaanxi. My friend is an only child, back then, I also persuaded her, and my parents also stopped her, but they couldn't stop her from doing anything for love, she didn't think too much about it, and patted her ass so resolutely and left. In the early 90s, the university was all package distribution, and both of them entered the system, and their lives were happy. It's a little regret that I take care of my parents, and I almost don't come back all year round, except for the New Year's holidays. In the more than 20 years since she got married, fortunately, her parents are still healthy, and she has a pension, and her life is stable.
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Until last year, this peaceful day was interrupted because of my father's illness. My classmate's father was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, also known as Alzheimer's disease, in March last year. Worried that his mother was too tired to take care of the patient alone, his classmates took the old couple to Shaanxi. Who would have thought that after the past, the old man's condition became more and more serious, and it was no longer a simple forgetfulness, and he could even get lost and not be able to return home when he went out. The doctor recommends that the elderly return to a familiar environment to help control the progression of the disease. There was no way, the classmates sent the old couple back again. What she can do is to make a phone call every day when she is far away, and nothing else can help her mother, and her father's food, clothing, housing and transportation are all borne by her mother alone. Just last month, my father got up at night to go to the toilet and accidentally fell and fractured his hip. That day, when my classmate received a call from my mother, she cried because she couldn't immediately rush to the old couple, and called me to ask me to go to the hospital to help take a look, saying that she needed to hand over the work, to fulfill the leave procedures, and she could not come back in two days, listening to her anxious and helpless voice on the phone, I suddenly realized the helplessness and bitterness that everyone said about people in middle age, especially when she was still far away...
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Later, after the classmate came back, his father was discharged from the hospital and found a big business car to pull his parents to Shaanxi, no matter what, she said that she had to stay by their side, otherwise, what happened again is really beyond the whip!
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Some people say that marrying away from home can still fulfill filial piety, such as going home every year on holidays, giving enough pensions, and video greetings every day. In fact, these are only useful for young and healthy parents, and sometimes it is really far from quenching the thirst of old and sick parents. A classmate once told me privately that she regretted marrying far away back then, ......!